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I fucked the wrong guy

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venus_

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Hellooo everyone a bit of a dilemma. I fucked the wrong guy. Back in november I hooked up with this guy "chad." Anyways long story short we were hooking up for about 2 months then he called the whole thing off because he has a girlfriends... at first I was upset but buddy was really just a huge waste of time....delusional egotistical personality and doesn't even knwhere a, clitoris is..... im not interested in dating him and never was..

But damn the whole time I shoulda been on his roommate... He's funny smart and has insight when it comes to people... Not to mention he has a sexual instinct that is very masculine and hot, playful sensual and a little rough that I cant find elsewhere for the life of me.... Im a fairly firm believer that 90% of men lack sexual confidence and intuition, they generally rely on the woman to give into their pansyish begging or totally selfish and unconvincing sit back and watch u try to be interested in staring at or sucking their dick move, they all just want a womAN to put the pussy in their hands n tell em what to do with it...... I need a real man needless to say.

Dillemma.....he has a gf... He doesnt give a fuck about me on his roomate although I have had to convince him its over.... We are sexually atracted to one anothet, I think... We only hooked up oncr and I was too partied out,to get off but it culminated in the most hot projectilr style cum shot ive ever seen.... Man I just so dig his sex style... I think.. ? Dont know yet for

Anyways im worried to sleep with him cuz im worried ill get hurt, hes too good to just waste on a hookup or even a few but at the same timr im a totally sex starved woman who is finally seeing a piece of something she needs...... What should I do ??? Note they fight alot n have been seeing each other for 4 months
 
was he fucked up when you hooked up with him? If he was, your chances just went down
 
IMO - Hooking up with guys who have girlfriends is a waste of time and such a set-up to be hurt. If they are hooking up with you and then you manage to snag them away from the girlfriend they'll probably be taken from you by some skank.
 
venus_ said:
Not to mention he has a sexual instinct that is very masculine and hot, playful sensual and a little rough that I cant find elsewhere for the life of me.... Im a fairly firm believer that 90% of men lack sexual confidence and intuition, they generally rely on the woman to give into their pansyish begging or totally selfish and unconvincing sit back and watch u try to be interested in staring at or sucking their dick move, they all just want a womAN to put the pussy in their hands n tell em what to do with it...... I need a real man needless to say.
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Excuse me? I'm not quite sure what you're trying to say, as your words appear to be somewhat jumbled and disorganized so please forgive me if I've misunderstood you... but are you saying that a "real man" takes charge without taking his partner's wishes into consideration and simply does whatever? I must be misunderstanding you here because that would be absolutely ridiculous and stupid.

We're not mind-readers. No two women are the same, and we don't just fuck like porn stars each and every time, hitting all the right spots intuitively. I've been with one girl who liked having her pussy eaten one way, and I've been with another girl who liked her pussy eaten another way. I've been with one girl who would get off doggy-style and hated being on top; and I've been with another girl who could only get off by being on top.

Should I stop sex at each and every moment, asking my partner if she wants it done one way or the other? No, of course not, as that would be distracting. But for sure, I need to know what my partner likes, at least for the first couple of go-rounds, and so what's wrong with simply asking and taking a couple of instructions? "Hey, do you like it like that?" "Mmm... yeah baby, and use two fingers..." OK so now I'm using two fingers... you see?

I know that this doesn't exactly answer your question, but whenever someone has the gall to talk about what "a real man" is, I'm always interested in finding out just exactly what they think that entails.
 
jeez quite the situation your in. maybe you should kill his GF and make it look like an accident and then you could totally be that rebound chick. hm that might not be fair to all parties involved, but hey whats his GF ever done for you right?

that might be a little crazy though. but im sure you can find away to break up this loving couple that'll make you look less crazy, go you.
 
This is really ridiculous. Do you even understand what you're typing?

And I feel somewhat...uncomfortable after reading that. Dunno why. But...yeah. Maybe read your posts before posting?
 
Gotta love when ppl rant while on an upper. maybe im crazy tho and this is u at normal lol.

and to answer your question just find yourself alone with him and fuck him again. and then repeat this.

or wait till he's single and then do the same thing.

and the whole projectile cum thing doesnt happen everytime.

If i aint drained the pipes in a couple days that's usually what happens no matter how intense things were.

sounds like u were just a one off tho tbh.
 
It probably isn't fair to put this new possibility on a pedestal. As has been stated, this may be a bad set up for a good dose of drama.

Is sex that important to you? Or is it more complicated than that?

I'd go for him if he were single and I were you. Any other arrangement post this one off is probably a recipe for disaster.

I guess crashing the short bus might not be so bad, if it is already rolling to a stop with the yellow lights on.

I wouldn't get involved with someone whose attachment style is loose and diffuse. Especially if you find yourself falling into him just because that high pro afterglow is initially sooooooo good.

:)
 
I'm quite offended by this post, and I'm a woman. I think that many men are intimidated by women for this reason... some women seem to think that men should be mind-readers and instinctively *know* exactly what to do, down there, which is absurd and unrealistic, among other things. Every woman is different and apart from that, I find that sometimes my "needs" change from experience to experience. Sometimes I prefer one thing to another one time, and another time it might be the other way around.

Anyway, I guess I should apologize on behalf of my sex for intimidating our men and for making them feel sexually inadequate because this sort of thing, this "rant" is precisely one of the reasons that men are intimidate by women, in bed, and it also leads to some impotence, to some degree, based solely on the fact that some men have a hard time "getting it up" when they are nervous, and it's understandable that they would be nervous... we expect way too much from them. And for that, again, I apologize on behalf of all women to the men.
 
Maybe you should start looking elsewhere. Not at this guy with the girlfriend, or the guy's roommate. There are TONS of guys out there.
 
^ To put it another way, with one of what you've got, you can get as many of what we've got as you want.
 
rangrz said:
Yes, you had sex with the wrong guy... Chad is a douchy, euro-trash name. I bet he drives a white alpha romeo and goes to listen the fruitiest variety of electronic music.
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CHAD hahahahah CHAD...can you beleive that shit ?
 
sorry. your kinda the house ho now. and u already got his nut once

i do not see a future for you too

just being honest

set that pussy free tho babe, you'll catch something (lol)
 
Im a fairly firm believer that 90% of men lack sexual confidence and intuition, they generally rely on the woman to give into their pansyish begging or totally selfish and unconvincing sit back and watch u try to be interested in staring at or sucking their dick move, they all just want a womAN to put the pussy in their hands n tell em what to do with it...... I need a real man needless to say.
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id prefer it stays this way too. I have no "game" you see, I merely rely on most other men just not giving a shit about anything with a woman besides blowing their wad. This makes me so awesome by default.

Tho, my personal beliefs is that this is not a natural state. I believe our society has many insidious tools with which to confuse and complicate men's sex drives and perceptions of sex. So more accurately, you could state "...90% of men in the contemporary Western world..."

Its almost impossible to decipher anything from the way you write though. Its almost like youre shooting dope and typing at the same time. But I think you should fuck him and not worry. The only reason you would "get hurt" in the situation, based on what you described, is if you have selfish motives to control this person's emotions in a way that benefits you. Sounds like you just need to get turned out by a stud and move on to the next one. Save emotional involvement for something more real.
 
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