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I fall in love in a week and the next week can't stand them..

pokes

pokes

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HELP
I met this really sweet guy who buys me coffee, takes me out to eat, treats me like an actual princess. On top of it all he has a crazy nice body and good dick. I was crazy about him the first week we began seeing each other. We would hang out every day fro breakfast and lunch and I would sleep over.
After about three weeks of this I hate to say it but im just getting sick of him. He hasn't changed at all, still sweet as ever and the sex is great but there is no fucking way in hell I can commit. I can tell he's like actually falling in love with me and it's partially my fault because I guess I'm leading him on, but I don't even know what I want.
LIKE LAST WEEK HE TOOK ME HOME TO MEET HIS PARENTS. I would love to date him but it's so hard because I feel like I won't be able to do the shit I want to do. I'm just dumbfounded I need advice please!
 
well you need to stop leading him on ASAP. if you don't have feelings for him anymore for whatever reason, there is no need to keep dragging him in the mud because of your own (?) insecurities on dating

it appears as if you need a guy that won't commit to you 100 percent and move so fast as he has (like having you meet his parents). you need a different kind of man, one that will also lead you on a bit and put on a nice little chase for you yourself to run around in. that's perfectly fine - but that kind of man your man is not - so be a nice young lady and break it off with him?
 
It sounds like the both of you jumped in deep right off the bat. Why don't you spend less time with him and slow things down, maybe see him less often? You still barely even know esch other it's only been a few weeks. It's perfectly normal to want some space, if he can't handle that then you should move on.

What is it that you want to do that you feel you won't be able to? I've been with my fiancee for over two years and I just went to Vegas with my best girl friend. He had no issue and hoped I had a great time. A good partner will want you to do the things that make you happy, an unhealthy relationship is one where your partner holds you back and controls you. A relationship shouldn't mean the end of your life.
 
pokes said:
...but I don't even know what I want.
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sounds like you absolutely should not be dating. you're just going to hurt people and, likely, yourself.

further, why do you feel like, by dating somebody, you won't be able to do what you want to do.

you need to sort this out. yourself (or with help). then date.

alasdair
 
alasdairm said:
sounds like you absolutely should not be dating. you're just going to hurt people and, likely, yourself.

further, why do you feel like, by dating somebody, you won't be able to do what you want to do.

you need to sort this out. yourself (or with help). then date.

alasdair
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It's exactly what I have said and my post was censored and removed by the moderating team lol. The problem is with her not the people she dates.

On which basis are people removing my posts here? lol
 
^ it's my impression that here on SLR, people / especially staff try to rather be supportive to the OP than to tell them an honest opinion. at least that's how I see it at the moment... but I haven't read your post, so what do I know..?

topic: You need to tell him your feelings as soon as possible. if he really is in love with you, it will hurt him more, the longer you wait with it.
 
^ well to a degree you have to be supportive but honestly people are just going to do what they are going to anyway. it is what it is
 
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