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how to text a girl

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any tips on how to text a girl, or how to text a guy? what do girls think when a guy texts them asking them out?? what are some tips on flirting with girls over text messages??

so far i have been using limited smiley faces, play sarcasm and word play. i think gettting to the chase with text messages is good because it lets girls that you arent interested in being friends. what to girls think about fucking frineds that are in the "friend zone," ? on the other hand, i bet almost all straight men would fuck a "friend" who is a girl.

what are some do's and don'ts for texting someone you like???


**Note that i am coming from a male perspective.; i stress focus from a male perspective
 
Do not text a girl to ask her out for the first time. Ask her out in person, or PHONE her. Trust me, even if you sound nervous she will think you are so confident for calling. Most guys are too scared to call. You will have a much better success rate with girls. And girls hardly ever ask guys out.
 
lol I laughed out loud literally at your title of the thread. "how to text a girl" I'm like duh pick your phone up and type. Anywayz I'm no help to this thread.8)

Good luck
 
Most girls find it kinda weird when you ask them out through a text. Ask them in person :)
 
How to text a girl - don't overthink it!

If you analyse every single word and smiley face it's never gonna end well. Be natural. The one tip I can give you is don't be too cold...personally I can't stand people who text curt, completely detached messages...or stuff like 'Ok.'. If you have time to write '.' you have time to write ':)'. I'm just sayin'.
It sounds really stupid but I know all my girl friends agree with this so that's the only tip I can give you. Along with seriously, just be natural.

Oh and no, I really wouldn't recommend asking someone out through text!
 
zzz101 said:
Do not text a girl to ask her out for the first time. Ask her out in person, or PHONE her. Trust me, even if you sound nervous she will think you are so confident for calling. Most guys are too scared to call. You will have a much better success rate with girls. And girls hardly ever ask guys out.
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CymbalKid said:
Most girls find it kinda weird when you ask them out through a text. Ask them in person :)
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dopemaster said:
I recomend telling them that your phone does not get text and just talking on the phone.
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I'm surprised at all these replies... I'd probably prefer a text... gives me a chance to think about it and then respond.
 
llama112 said:
I'm surprised at all these replies... I'd probably prefer a text... gives me a chance to think about it and then respond.
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Exactly !! it gives you a chance to say NO :)

Calling the person puts her or him, i guess,on the spot and much more likely to get a YES Or definitely be able to gauge the respnse better than just from a txt. Also, when you call someone and then meet up, it is 10x less awkward because you have already spoken to her on the phone. It breaks the ice. If you arranged something by text, it feels a bit more awkward when you meet.

Not saying having conversations with text is a bad idea, it's a great idea. Just don't always reply straight away, make her think you're too busy to txt her back right away. Just when you ask her out, txt, NOOOO don't do it. calling is the best option, it sets you in a different league than all the guys who txt.
 
Pick up the phone and call. Don't txt. Don't ask the question first off... have a conversation about general shit (whatever) and then guide the conversation onto what are you up to on (whatever date) and say I was thinking it would be cool to goto (wherever) then say you are probably busy doing other stuff but I just thought i'd throw it out there then end the call.

Your not putting her on the spot and have a decent interraction with her beforehand. She will think about it and get back to you... Trust me. Former PUA here.
 
Texts, IMO, are like postcards: meant for people you have little interest in actually speaking to at length.

I hate talking on the phone with a passion, but even I'd never ask someone out via text. Just ask in person or through an old-fashioned call. Whether she says yes or not, you can't help but look (and perhaps, feel) better for it.
 
A text is no place for a serious conversation and it I despise the invention of text messaging in general. Just remember if you start a relationship through text, it could end through a text. Be a man and ask her on the phone or face to face if you got the oppurtunity and the balls.
 
most people are busy, if you call them itll be awkward and theyre more likely to cancel later

i hate to say it but my generation sucks, lots of girls arent into goin on official dates , you gotta ask them to hang out or chill

just be funny and slightly flirty and then ask them to kick it or grab some coffee or something low pressure
 
what about a girl i have already hooked up with?? does that change the ball game if we are in a "relationship"
 
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