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How to move on from my true love.

MilzyWilzy

MilzyWilzy

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So, me and my partner of 3 years have broken up due to the relationship not working anymore. I thought it was best to end things now rather than delay the inevitable.

We have a baby daughter together and things have been strained for a few months now. I also have two other children who aren't his and he can't accept them, he can be quite mean about them at times.

I won't bore you with any further details about our struggles but I just want to know how to deal with the pain and heartbreak that I'm currently feeling.

I love this man with all of my heart and I can't bear being without him.

What can I do for the best? Is time really a healer?

Hurting very bad right now :-(
 
If the guy your leaving is being nasty towards your children then its probably for the best your parting ways. I also have to ask, if the guy your with is being mean to your children do you honestly believe he is your true love?

Time maybe wont heal what your feeling now but it will eventually make the pain less and less.

You know that cutting contact with this person is the best for you and your children, remember this when your feeling down.

I wish you the best of luck
Bear
 
Just give it time the brunt of it will last as long as it needs to just give yourself time. Be sure not to turn to anger or other negative emotions because from my pov that's just a way to hold onto him and a very crappy one at that. Take it easy :) Sending you some positive energies :O
 
This guy is mean about your children??? It is time for him to go! You can do MUCH better. This guy is not the one for you if he treats your kids, or anyone else, like that.
Time will help. <3
 
Also it's a grieving process. Expect a whole range of emotions. You'll know when it's time to let go..be sure not to get stressed out cause that can sometimes make the small things be bigger than they have to.

I am really sorry this happened to you.. Meditate and or yoga are good if you're into that sort of thing :0
 
DOB said:
Sad but true,if my partner had children with other men,even before me, my instinct would be to kill them.
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This has to be one of the craziest things I have ever read on bluelight. If your instincts in ANY situation would honestly tell you to murder innocent children then you need serious help.
 
drug_mentor said:
This has to be one of the craziest things I have ever read on bluelight. If your instincts in ANY situation would honestly tell you to murder innocent children then you need serious help.
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No kidding. What DOB said is not true for all (or most.....) of the male population.
Most people in generally are not so high and mighty and think they are better than everyone else.
 
Some guys are assholes. Since this guy never accepted your boys and being mean to him... then you never should have gotten serious with him to begin with.

Seriously, your "love" sounds like a piece of shit. Also, if you date and get into relationship with guys who are assholes to your children then YOU have problems and need to close up shop down there until you get priorities straight.
No penis is worth your children.
 
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