Fightingback123
Bluelighter
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- Jan 19, 2020
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Hi guys. I know I already made a similar post but can I get some advice on being in a relationship with someone with a heroin addiction? Me being the sober one. My man has used on and off again since we have been together nearly 10 years. We actually didnt live together fully until just this last year so maybe I never really knew if he was clean all the way. He was in probation for the longest time so I guess that just gave me comfort. Throughout the years it's been me finding his stash and he says oh I had a relapse. At the time I thought a relapse was u used like a few times over the weekemd or something now your done. Recently I've found he's been using daily several times per day for the last like four months probably longer...so what is the difference between using and a relapse because I feel like he is using again or hooked. I'm mad all the time and he just can't seem to figure out why because I think he's told himself so many times he doesn't have a problem believes it. Honestly guys im having a hard time leaving because he's such an awesome person without this... I always see the best and this potential in him that is so great. My days have become myself being addicted to just tracking if he's used and when how many times.. how high is he etc meanwhile we can't even talk about it because he won't even admit he has a problem. I guess I'm just looking for someone to nudge me in the right direction. He has no time for me then when he does he just sleeps because he's high. I just keep thinking he's going to stop. He goes to work and comes home and he just lives like everything is dandy and so normal meanwhile I'm in this position.. I dont get it at all.