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lifterpuller

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Hey guys,

The other day me and my GF were talking and for some reason our sexual history came up. At one point I was retarded and asked "Am I the 'biggest' guy you have ever been with" her answer was "To be honest,No, but one of the biggest" And I am pretty choked up by this, I know I'm just being insecure but fuck this makes me feel like shit lol, especially since she hasn't been with that many other guys.

What do I do to get over this? I just feel so inadqueate and insecure right now :(

Please no "man the fuck up and stop being a bitch" I'm trying!!

Thanks..
 
I know I'm not the biggest with my gf, but she says I'm the thickest. Which she likes better anyways. It's not all about length from what she says. So your gf must be happy with it
 
That's pretty messed up. Most women would lie and say you are even if you're the smallest. I have no advice for you. Better get busy with your tongue.
 
She said you're one of the biggest, how fragile and big can ur ego get m8
Would you rather her have told you an even bigger lie and say you're the biggest?
Good sex is about more than the length of your penis
 
lifterpuller said:
Please no "man the fuck up and stop being a bitch" I'm trying!!
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Well, that's what you really need TBH. The only people who should be worrying about the size of their dicks are politicians on the world stage.

You could be hung like a horse and a lot of girls wouldn't like that, plus you wouldn't be able to go all in.. or you could have a micro-penis and be shit out of luck. But you're probably somewhere in the normal range of 5" to 7" I assume, in which case, man the fuck up. You have enough length to please, end of story. What really matters is how you use it and how you use yourself in the bed.. hate to break it to you but most girls don't care about the size of your dick assuming it's in the normal range unless they're some skank who likes 9" cocks that shred their vaginal walls to pieces. What they care about is your dominance, emotional connection, affection, etc etc..

Again, unless you're a politician, which I sincerely hope you aren't, then man up.
 
Lol Glad someone else said it before me but yeah, man up!

Basically you need to stop thinking about one of her ex's massive cock fucking the life out of her, be proud of what you got to offer.
 
What she was really trying to do is not hurt your feelings. In the future, don't ask these types of questions. It's like asking how many people have you slept with? What does it matter...she's with you for a reason, not your penis
 
If you're already up there in the upper ranks, I really doubt it's going to make any difference. Not all women like "the biggest biggest" anyway. You can do a lot more without a huge penis like grinding on her harder without banging her cervix. That's a plus dude.

If you have a rock hard penis, and know how to use it & stimulate your women mentally, and your just good all around... What difference does it make?

She is going to become un-attracted to your insecurity. You should be proud dude!
 
I wouldn't worry too much my friend, large package doesn't always mean the PRESENTtation will be good.
Give it to her like its your last day alive and I'm sure she won't even think about her past experiences.

And be happy you've got an honest girl :) ALL IS WELL
 
lifterpuller said:
TBH yes
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wow

how can you get hung up on this? its a non issue and you need to get a grip.

she's with you, not those other huge dicks. some dicks are bigger but some smaller ones are way prettier. its not 100% size, its often style and texture and smell

garbagegutz said:
long and thin goes all the way in - but - short and thick does the trick....
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i'm stealing this
 
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Look at this way man, you'll probably never have the biggest dick and as long as it's a decent size, most women won't care.

I mean people say, it's not the size, it's what you do with it and that's half way true.
If you've got a small cock that statement won't hold true, though I'm guessing your cock is sizeable.

Some guys have big cocks and cum within a minute.
Other guys have big cocks and only do missionary, don't excite the woman, cum after 15minutes and the woman is left unsatisfied.

I mean literally dude, you knew the advice going into this, you just don't want to hear it aha.

Man up. Be proud of your wang and just make sure you're using it properly.
 
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