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How big is your dildo/vibrator?

ech0s85

ech0s85

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After a trip to the sex shop and seeing the insane variety of things they have, im really curious as to what women use and what size they prefer.
 
It depends on the mood! For the times when I want a REALLY good orgasm... intense.. I will use a strong vibrator. There are times when just a fat dildo feels good!
 
pofacedhoe said:
so you watched one of your male colleagues using a dildo?:\ bit unnusual
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There are many colors and flavors of sexual play. What may seem unusual for one may be perfectly acceptable and desirable to another.

It really isn't anyone's place to take issue with consentual acts that hurt no one and happen behind closed doors.

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shit, i've had plenty of toys crammed up my ass.

i've even been fucked up the pooper with a strap on. but it was just the tip, it kind of hurt.

toys are fun. i was just happy when i was dating my wife to find that her dildo was smaller than my dick.
 
my ex had a whole vibrator collection

along with a closet full of books, role-play costumes/uniforms, chains, whips, condoms, laungerie, masks, bedpost ties, wiring, homemade movies, aphrodesiacs, sex therapist ph#'s, uhhh... i think that's about it.

the first gift i ever got from her was a gift pack of kinky sex books with all kinds of shit
 
hmm. I refuse to buy prosthetic penii/sex toys cause it still classifies as paying for sex, IMHO....

I'd get a 10 incher though, if I weren't so morally opposed... lol
 
Noodle said:
There are many colors and flavors of sexual play. What may seem unusual for one may be perfectly acceptable and desirable to another.

It really isn't anyone's place to take issue with consentual acts that hurt no one and happen behind closed doors.

:)







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that wasn't what i was saying, it just struck me as odd that you would "see" a male colleague using a dildo (having been in ann summers with one of my friends and his sister, he then tried out a dildo on his penis in the store in front of the sister and then she slapped him and we were laughing- it had a bevis and butthead vibe).

saying that this seems unusual isn't taking issue with it:)

generally i dont watch my work mates using dildo's, i would assume most people dont and in this respect it is not the "usual"=D
 
It's damn thick, but I don't really do self-penetration. I used to, but I am now very vanilla in my self-love-making, and I just want to get off and get on with it =D
 
GenericMind said:
I've let an ex use a vibrator on me. It felt weird.
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prostate or dick? I like the feeling against my dick when I am inside her and she is using it on her clitoris. Did that before once it was nice 8o

hey Priest, I gotta question. Where does the 9-10 inches GO when you stick it up somebody's ass. Wouldnt it be in their intestinal track at that point? Is there pleasure there in the lining of the GI tract (I dont understand from an evolutionary perspective why there would be). Is the turn-on for the men you've been with who like that the fact that its so extreme/deep inside them (and not necessarily the physical sensation)?

just curious...
 
yea, i can't imagine what i'd do with 2 or 3 inches in my ass, much less 8 or 9.

i let my girl play just the tip with a strap on and it kind of hurt.

i do like a small vibrating butt plug from time to time though.
 
PriestTheyCalledHim said:
Yeah I also find receptive anal sex to be painful.

I took one of my prostate vibrators but it was 6.5" and very thin maybe 1 inch around or less?

I didn't get any pleasure from it and it made my hole burn for a few days when I'd done everything like you are supposed to do by going very very slowly, warming up with fingers, and using lots of lube. It can feel the way I described since you're stimulating nerves and sort of "massaging" areas that don't normally get stimulated. I've heard it's also supposed to feel like going to the bathroom backwards.

I have a prostate and I can at very rare times get pleasure from it but I get more pleasure from external stimulation of it.

With the prostate vibrator I could have just used it externally, jerked off normally, or put myself in chains/bondage and lightly/moderately paddled or whipped myself and I would have gotten more pleasure.

I have friends that flat out love receptive anal sex and they say it doesn't hurt them and they love the stretch and having things way past their prostate which is just a few inches inside the male anus.
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interesting. I am not gay or bi but I do find your posts fascinating.
 
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