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lonelyoldman

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Need advice on hooking up with girls. Ive found sites with good reviews for hooking up so they seem legit.

Theres a pretty normal balance between munters and stunners. Ive been messaging the stunners and was having success chatting to a 28 year old woman who was gorgeous and lovely (im 24). I really liked her and wanted her. She liked.my profile pics and said she liked my kinkiness.

Im not sure if shes going to get back to me now but i doubt it. She said.she needs to know a bit about someone before it goes any further, which is understandable. So i told her some stuff, like how i was.working and hoping to return to uni soon. I stupidly revealed i was a kissless virgin because of "a bit of depression" (in reality its severe mental illness and autism). She kept messaging after.this though and we were.getting on fine. But she hasnt got back to me since 9:10am today, though i have only sent one further message to her.

What should i do in future? How do i get round my weirdly inexperienced at 24 problem?

I dont have a great job and my body is slightly overweight though that weivht is coming off. Do i have much chance with these hotties.on hookup sites? I knkw meaningful relationships would be hard to maintain with a bad job, but could i get a hookup friend?
 
Advice? I wouldn't tell them that you are a kissless virgin. Lol. Just be normal! Or act normal, people expect at 24 yrs old that you would have had your first kiss and not a virgin. Ask the girls about them, get to know them, who are they? What do they like? What kind of food? Talk less about yourself and your weaknesses, insecurities, etc. You have a job, you're content in life, work is going good for you, you plan on starting school next year, majoring in whatever, pursuing a career, etc. Keep it positive and show your drive.
 
^ i agree with that person, don't tell them your a virgin, also most important advice I can give- you need to give women their space when talking to them/ especially when texting and or talking online, like don't constantly message them.... be inconsistent with your replies (keeps them interested), like reply to her one time right away then maybe the next she says reply 4 hours later...

like I said give them their space.. if she don't respond to you, so what, move on to another girl, plant another seed. plant as many seeds as you can, maybe only one flower will grow but you will have better odds the more you plant.
 
Thanks guys.

I haven't messaged her too much.

She said she's happy to show me how it's done now. I'm a bit nervous.

Should I go ahead if possible?

My sex drive is high since stopping meds. I really want to hook up regularly with this girl for its own sake, but also because I think being a virgin at 24 gets to me now. It used to feel like a choice but now i feel undesired sexually.
 
Yeah, of course you should go ahead if possible. Is that even a question?

Is there something else that's making you hesitant?
 
Do you think the.site is a scam based on this? I messaged the girl I like and she replied asking if I'd ever been dominated by a girl...wtf I'd just told you I'm a virgin!
 
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