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opinaivekush

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Alright guys so i'm nervous as hell. I finally have met a girl after 18 years of bull shit, who I will have to kiss TOMMORROW. I am freaking nervous as hell. She will be my first real kiss, and I don't wanna screw it up because of my stupid anxiety. I usually take 1-2mg ativan to sleep and if I am in a stressful situation will generally take 1-2mg as well. I am on percocets every 6 hours for pain, just had surgery recently, not taking those is impossible. So this girl loves to drink. I was thinking popping a percocet and 20mg valium while drinking a few beers maybe 2-3. Either that or no beer and just 40mg of valium with 1-2 percs just to calm me down and chill out. Seem like a good plan? Is this gonna be horrible as all first kisses are or can I still make sure she enjoys it, thats all I want, for her to feel pleasure. I have some molly too, bring out the rolls and just have ape shit sex? So many options...
 
What the hell man? Advise on what drug to take before kissing a girl? Goddamn, we can't take you what to take dude. Take whatever drug or drugs you want. Do em safely and don't let others tell you what to take.
 
^Lol. Truth.

Honestly, I personally think you should either be sober or at least borderline sober for your first time. It'll make it easier to overcome your performance anxiety if you deal with it now. Remain lucid. Don't think to hard about it because it's not as big of a deal as you're imagining it.
 
that is a life event i would rather just be sober for. i find it a little odd that you "have" to kiss as if this is all already set up. However, if you MUST be intoxicated for this why not just come through with some weed and ask her if she wants to smoke with you and then just get shit crackin on however it unfold, this is a tried and true method here not to mention it is a lot easier to get sloppy on pretty much anything else other than weed. Also note i would take 0 opiates that day and this is because lets say it goes beyond a first kiss and you laying the mack down, if you have taken an opiate it could take you eons to finish so much so that the girl will feel embarrassed because she thinks its her fault and that will pretty much kill anything with that girl (true story).

All in All, good luck, sounds like a monumental moment for you and i would just advise A. sober or B. bring weed (facilitates a good atmosphere and is a good ice breaker).
 
benzos + opiates + booze is a perfect recipe for losing control of your behaviour and acting like a dick.
Those three things compliment/boost the effects of each other to a poing that you'll be much more fucked than you are likely to expect.

I really think it is a bad move to treat nerves as a problem to be medicated.
Anxiety is a very real condition that makes some people's lives more difficult than they need to be.

Feeling nervous, on the other hand - is a natural, normal part of growing up and experiencing these kinds of things.
That feeling of excitement and nervousness is actually something quite beautiful and special, when it comes to things like this.
Kissing someone for the first time is always exciting - but not in the same way your first kiss (ever) is.
Savour that heightened sense of consciousness that goes along with it.

I don't think you should take dull those feelings with drugs.

And i certainly do not think you should smoke pot.
The likelihood of feeling self conscious, paranoid, shy and embarassed on weed is quite high.
In my experience it is the direct opposite of an ice-breaker for many people.
Not to mention the dry mouth...

Just have fun, try not to stress about it. You'll be ok! :)
 
granddaddypercs said:
i find it a little odd that you "have" to kiss as if this is all already set up.
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I second this.

spacejunk said:
And i certainly do not think you should smoke pot.
The likelihood of feeling self conscious, paranoid, shy and embarassed on weed is quite high.
In my experience it is the direct opposite of an ice-breaker for many people.
Not to mention the dry mouth...
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And this.
 
Lots of alcohol then the last thing you remember is trying to cop a feel and then you wake up in the drunk tank
 
I guess part of me knows im gonna smash thats why im nervous. I already actually kissed her 2 years ago when We were both drunk as hell so I don't count that lol. She's down to fuck and thats what I was really nervous about I guess. I might just have to take a bit of valium and just go for it guys.
 
I would recommend being as close to sober as possible, perhaps have a little diazepam in you to curb most of the anxiety. I mean, if it's your first kiss, you want to be lucid and remember that - it's one of the most magical moments of your life! At least it was for me. Mine was sloppy, awkward and unskilled as fuck, of course, but since we had been dating for a while (so we were familiar with each other) and it was the first for us both, I guess we both enjoyed it. And of course, don't stress over it too much. If she's new to the game like you, then maybe she's just as nervous; take it easy.

In any case, good luck and have fun! I wish kissing was still that special for me.
 
there are a lot of oddities here like this is your first kiss yet you know you know your going to have sex, you are more worried about your kissing performance than your sex performance etc., but regardless i'd like to echo everyone in here once again and say do this sober but it sounds like you already have your mind made up. Regarding her "being down to fuck", obviously i don't know her nor how old you guys are (assuming rather young) but i would be surprised if she was truly "down to fuck" and not just running her game, as oft the case is but either way just treat her with some respect and just accept whatever you get, whether it be a kiss or more. Don't know what your guys relationship is but it seems either A. she's truly down to fuck b. she wants a more serious relationship with you or c. you guys are friends and are taking that further, in which case none of those options bode well for making an intoxicated ass out of yourself.

Good luck. i really urge you to do all this sober as i have found that the beginnings of something new, whatever it is but especially something that is so emotional, is much more powerful than any drug. The best time of my life was like the first year or so of when i started dating my girlfriend 8 years ago and i was on probation and sober as could be and if i could bring what i felt back i like to think that i would not touch another drug again however that is not to say that the later parts of relationship do not offer their own emotional rewards (such as security etc.) but that is way off topic and I'm sped the fuck up so i won't turn this into a novel. good luck
 
opinaivekush said:
Alright guys so i'm nervous as hell. I finally have met a girl after 18 years of bull shit, who I will have to kiss TOMMORROW. I am freaking nervous as hell. She will be my first real kiss, and I don't wanna screw it up because of my stupid anxiety. I usually take 1-2mg ativan to sleep and if I am in a stressful situation will generally take 1-2mg as well. I am on percocets every 6 hours for pain, just had surgery recently, not taking those is impossible. So this girl loves to drink. I was thinking popping a percocet and 20mg valium while drinking a few beers maybe 2-3. Either that or no beer and just 40mg of valium with 1-2 percs just to calm me down and chill out. Seem like a good plan? Is this gonna be horrible as all first kisses are or can I still make sure she enjoys it, thats all I want, for her to feel pleasure. I have some molly too, bring out the rolls and just have ape shit sex? So many options...
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Don't take drugs, act natural, don't hesitate to disagree with her if that's where you stand and keep her updated with how you feel. Like, if you feel anxiety just say you're nervous, if you feel joy say I feel joy. Etc.
 
Just breathe calmly and don't be over zealous. You're going to be gently massaging her tongue with your tongue, not tongue vs. tongue fighting. So don't jam it in her mouth or push it in wildly and forcefully.

Don't open your mouth super wide, she's not a triple stacked cheeseburger that you're trying to fit in there. Don't have your mouth opener wider than it needs to be. That'll help prevent you from being a sloppy kisser.

Overthinking is going to be your worst enemy in this. Like anything else practice makes perfect. It's also going to depend on your partner and how well you compliment each other. You'll be more compatible with some people.


I would avoid most drugs if possible. Drinking is ok, but don't overdo it. I definitely wouldn't go with opiates, for one it can take away your sex drive or the drive to go for it. If you're already using drugs like benzos and opiates and are taking them to get through simple, normal rites of passage then you're setting yourself up for a lot of problems in the future. Basically if you're relying on drugs for this, you're going to feel the need to have drugs in almost any new thing you do. Down the line it's going to make things harder and add more stress to your situation instead of alleviating it.
 
I agree with the others who say not to take drugs before. You want the full visceral thrill of it, or at least that's my preference when it comes to sexual situations. I prefer to be sober during them (although I will admit to taking a very low dose of benzodiazepines before first dates, when I'm especially nervous...I kissed a girl before I ever started drugs, though)

I hate kissing someone and tasting booze or cigarettes on them, yuck...
 
Guys when I say she's down to fuck I didn't mean it in anysort of disrespectful tone or anything like that. I wanna get into a relationship with her not just be a one night sorta thing. Hopefully she feels the same way as I do. I think a serious relationship would give me some clarity rn. Honestly lost in a painful oxycodone and anxious lorazepam cycle.
 
Op, bro , dude, man.... no offence here, but seriously..THE FUCK YOU GOT TO BE NEURVOUS ABOUT??

I remember when I was 18 and thought I had problems...OH MAN you better look out OP, and start preparing yourself for the real world, it's tough, and ain't no damn drug-cocktail in the land that will get ya through it, you've gotta do that for youself.

Now for the advice; hide you're stash from that chick yo!
Just cuz she seems sweet, and innocent, don't mean she's earned your trust yet...unless she has, in which case, hey, you shouldn't have asked the internet, I guess!

P.S. if this chick likes to drink, just drink, shell accept that cause she does it. BUt pace yourself, some people can't, if you can't, then don't.
 
Smoke some pot together ask her u wanna see if she can catch a contact high tell her you will blow the smoke into her mouth after a few giggles on her part one of the times you do go in for a kiss
 
noone1 said:
Lots of alcohol then the last thing you remember is trying to cop a feel and then you wake up in the drunk tank
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Nothing like waking up in the drunk tank! I suggest you take many attivan as well. Great mix she'll love you forever
 
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