I consider joining a fraternity one of the best, most rewarding choices of my life.
Consider these things-
I attend a school that recently enacted a dry student housing policy- it applies to dorm and greek housing. We cannot drink in our house, which upsets alot of the greek community.. but who wouldn't be a little pissed if you couldn't drink in your own house? It sucks, but alot of fraternities are more than drunken pits. The house I live in is worth well over 5 million dollars- paid for by alumni who loved their experience so much that they are willing to invest massive amounts of their income to ensure others can experience it too.
Fraternities are social organizations- yes we party, but we also do tons of community service, do well in school, and contribute to the university. Whats wrong with that? I'll admit that I probably wouldn't participate in half of the things I do now if I weren't in a fraternity.
I personally know a good number of alumni who are top-level executives at many different prestiegous cooperations who would and have hired a member of the same fraternity over a more qualified person simply because he was a member- yes it may be unethical, but that is how life works.
Furthermore, I live with 85 guys- each one is different. There are guys who wont touch drugs or alcohol, and guys that do on a regualr basis. There are very religious members, and members who don't believe in God. Some like techno, some like country. Some wear polos and khakis, some wear blue jeans and t-shirts...etc. The great thing about it is that every single person is diffent and adds a little character to the house- we all learn from each other, and help each other out when in need.
I could tell you about the pros of greek life forever-
Go through rush- if you meet a group of guys that you click well with, pledge their fraternity. Ask them why you should join- do they haze? How do they contribute to the school? The community? Your college experience? Your life after college?
It never hurts to try it.. you can always back out.
Hope this helped a little bit-
PA