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luv2luv

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Bean_Geek posted a message before that I thought you all need to read - it's one of those that deserve to be re-circulated every now and then(something like this happened to one of my friends)
Bean - I hope oyu don't mind that I reposted it
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Here it is people - sorry(I'm an etard!)
I was at a nice little house party, I met many other Florida Bluelighters, I met a girl named Erica. She ate about 2 beans when I first met her. Over the night she was fed 3 pills by guys that she didn't know. So by the time I crossed her path again she was SO FUCKED UP that she was not even moving and random guys were walking up to her and she was pushing them away. So I watched her as a young guy walked up to her and was trying to get her up to go with him....I asked him do you know her? He replied yes I do....I knew that he didn't I met the guy that she was with and another girl that she was with. So I told Dominic that we need to watch her cause guys were trying to "hurt" her. So, I got her up and took her to her truck so she would be safe the boy that she was with was in the car too. I felt great after I knew that she was safe, BUT....when I saw those guys try to take her away to do what they pleased with her I was really pissed. I would expect guys to have respect for girls when they are that fucked up and not try to "hurt" them, what I saw fucked me up inside I WILL NEVER LET A GIRL WHO IS SO FUCKED UP OUT OF MY SIGHT. WHAT I SAW OPENED MY EYES....GIRLS DON'T GET SO FUCKED UP THAT GUYS WILL TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU!!!! PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF....I DON'T WANT TO SEE THIS HAPPEN TO ANYONE AGAIN.
I LOVE YOU ALL AND TAKE CARE.....
(compliments of bean_geek)
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[This message has been edited by luv2luv (edited 13 January 2000).]
 
I think that if it needs to be brought up again the bring it up. It's ver important and I really so want everyone to be safe in every way. You care and I can see that so if need it be then bring it back up and it seems that it needs to be brought back up. I hope you friend is ok and doing better.
Tara
 
Oh, I know, but I couldn't totally copy it!! Had to change it up just alittle - thanks for your approval, I want to make sure this one stays up!!
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well luv2luv will post it when she's done. It's something that all people should read and look out for. I think that it's very important and that everyone should read so when she post it read it.
 
fuck I'm a retard!!! I never even noticed that I didn't post the message!! Duhh....shit for brains!! I'm going to find it! Be right back..............
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I'm always on the look out for people who may have done to much that night, in fact people always ask me to watch out for them before we even go into a party. It's all about PLUR.
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It's also all about watching your own ass!! Sure it's great to know we've got people watching out for us, but since when is that their responsibility. I say watch out for yourself - leave the others enjoy their rolls!! But, you will get the odd person(like the one bean_geek described) who over does it - I think it's our job to keep an eye out for these people too(do unto others as..blah,blah.........)
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luv2luv -
thank you for bringing this up again... I can't tell you the number of times I've seen guys try to take advantade of girls who are messed up. It really sucks that just because I have a penis, I have to be associated with those assholes! I have always gone out with a crew for a reason... SAFETY IN NUMBERS! Take care of yourself and your friends... That's why we're here!
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Binkies are way functional, they're kewl, and they're cute!
THEY ARE *NOT* LAME!!! grrrrr... = P
 
I'd like to express my thanks to all you "real men" Thank you all from the bottom of my heart!
*hugs*
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That was a very reassuring post to read, Bean Geek. I'm glad all guys aren't after only one thing. Gives me my confidence back to believe in the goodnes of people.
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THANX
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Um, interesting.
Firstly, if she was fed beans - well she could have pocketed them - she didn't need to fuck herself up - its not like you get shy and lonely when rolling.
Secondly, I don't know how any guy could get it up when rolling either. I can barely pee, let alone get some blood flowing into the blue veined hooligan
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Thirdly, I don't know why any guy would want to take advantage of anyone. Maybe the guys were not pilling, just giving away
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On nye, I met this girl, who made a beeline towards me. She seemed pretty out of it. I thought she had been smoking, coz I was feeling well dancey. She didn't know her group that well. She asked me to go outside with her which i did (she was burning up abit). She may have wanted more from me, but I wasn't sure if she was too high to know what was going on. I was rather standoffish coz I didn't want to take advantage of her. I even explained that to her later once she had comedown abit. She was well thankful.
Just goes to show - if a guy is an arsehole, popping a pill isn't going to change him.
 
if you're having to interrupt your roll to make sure your friends aren't being leeched onto by parasites, it means you're too late, something has already gone wrong:
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it means your friends are too fucked up. It's possible to be flying on e yet with your judgement in control. it's always good to discuss dosages before going out. it's always a bad idea to try to figure it out after everything's started. somebody needs to have a sober sense of judgement. girls have to make it easier for their friends to watch their backs by not constantly getting fucked up! this is the real world, it's not always pretty, and it's not a videogame. you keep lowering the bar, and shit will happen.
consider going out with more responsible girls, you'll stop worrying as much during your roll (assuming your a protective one).
or if you got a boyfriend, use him! ask him to keep an eye on your friends. ask your friends to check in with him every hour with a nice hug. give him a glowing ring to wear on his head. i'm sure he won't mind the extra attention and hugs.
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it also means that you're in a threatening space. if there are guys like that. if you and your girls roll at a meat market club, what do you expect? in an appropriate space, women should not be feared for, and you can leave your bag, secure that it won't get taken.
do the research, take some chances, and experiment with the music scene that your city offers. go a little underground, or at least ask the opinion of someone who is trustworthy. seek out places with a balanced ratio of males to females.
the space is half of everything. the other half is you and your mindset. don't compromise either. it's so much better to take less and push it more, than to take too much and reel back.
 
This message wasn't posted here for you to bash chicks who get fucked up. It's here to let people know that we care and we are watching out for them. Every girl who has been taken advantage of, abused, or whatever hasn't been messed up. The world can be a scary place regardless of how wonderful us E users may perceive it. Ya, some girls do go overboard, but so do some guys. This was not an attempt to put us against you. If you don't want to watch out for your friends, then who's going to fuckin make you?!?! No one. Personally, I've seen some crazy shit and there are times that I know had I not stepped in, something may have happened. I'd also like to know that if by chance one day I get way messed up, I've got people watching out for me. It doesn't take someone popping 6 pills at once to fuck them up. I can take the same pill you do and be way worse.
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Yeah, i get what you're saying. It would be nice to live in a world where you can get fucked up and no one will get slimy with you. But it's an imperfect world, and until that time, we have to take care of ourselves and each other.
I'm not laying blame on chicks for controlling themselves, i'm laying responsibility on them for making sure they don't put themselves or their friends in compromising positions.
What about a girl that goes with a random guy while rollin' to go to his car alone without telling anybody?
If it gets ugly, do you blame him for being slimy, or do you blame her for not using her head? Sure you could blame the guy, but 8 more will come to take his place next time. Your friends are different, though, there's only one of each.
What about a girl that has to be convinced to go out, drives everyone to the party, doens't roll, then leaves at 1am to go to her boyfriend's house while everyone's starting to peak? She leaves, and now the girls have to find their way home. I've seen it a bunch of times.
a stitch in time saves nine.
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K - we're arguing about the same damn thing basically. There are going to be retarded chicks anywhere you go. I'm talking about the others. Your friends who get way fucked up - that usually DONT.
I'm not going on and on anymore cause you said in your last thread exactly what my point was - watch out for yourselves and each other!!
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