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sh0ck3r

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my gf is a fucking pothead
we smoke a few times every week cuz i can't deny i am either, but yeah we usually smoke a bowl or a joint like .7 or .8, not that much at all, i just keep my tolerance low by smokin smaller sessions

but yeah sometimes i feel like getting real fucked up and i'll roll a fat blunt which is all well and good...but as much as we both love weed we just don't click that well at all after having a mad session... it seems almost impossible to be extremely high off crazy hydro with her and have a good time, even though we technically should in a way since we both smoke so much...

i guess it's normal cuz after smoking that much your lungs are fucked up and i personally can't carry conversation as well on the whole. but doesanyone else find it hard to be extremely stoned around their gf/bf even if u both like smoking herb?
 
I think the reason this is happening is simply because pot is a psychedelic drug even though not usually used as one, and so doing more and more doesn't necessarily mean more and more good feelings. Just think of it as enjoying a 2-3g mushroom trip with your gf...then deciding to have a big night and try tripping on 7g. The effects aren't linear and you'll most likely have a bad bad bad experience. Bad mushroom trips how I hate you...

But yeah, i think thats why. I don't socialize well either when really stoned because you can't always think or communicate properly while high. In my experience high dosages just make me feel braindead and don't offer much in the way of good feelings or relaxation. Maybe try these huge smoking sessions alone to see if you get more out of them, or stick to low dosages so you can keep your tolerance down and continue to enjoy the experience. You CAN reach the point where the thought of smoking a joint not only disgusts you, but actually scares you when you think of some of the horrible experiences you've had from smoking:p
 
I have opposite effects. My GF and I tottaly connect when stoned. It just mellows us out. (this is a guy by the way, on my girlfriends account)
 
Usually, when my S.O. and I smoke, we have 2-3 pinchies apeice, or a couple hits off a bong. Not enough to hurt your throat, but enough to make you happy and relaxed. A few weeks ago, we got very, very, very stoned and watched Traffic. That was a bust. So, I think it depends on the amount of weed you smoke.
 
if i woulda smoked the blunt last night with one of my guy friends, maybe neither of us would be super-sociable but we'd definitely be more comfortable with each other.

and about the "totally-connecting" thing, we really like smoking together too. we do it in an almost sexual way which is kinda funny and kinda weird, like blowing shotguns to each other each hit and ending it with tongue...8o but yeah, if we smoke a normal amount then we both have lots of fun.


but i guess there comes a point when you get TOO fucked which i was last night.

and being with someone you always wanna look good around doesn't help things.
 
Ampheta-me said:
You CAN reach the point where the thought of smoking a joint not only disgusts you, but actually scares you when you think of some of the horrible experiences you've had from smoking:p
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i know what he or she is talking about. I dont even want to smoke anymore. It's gotten to the point where i'll look back and be like what the fuck is the point i know im gonna get sketched out and shit. i've definatly been at the TOO high level way too many times. dont go there stay the way u r now n enjoy ur girl. i actually broke up with my boi becuz he just smokes too much and i cant keep up and when i do i feel like shit.
 
I have the opposite effect also. My bf and I click really well when we're high together. Whenever we're sober and starting to get on each others nerves we just toke a bowl and everything's groovy.

Maybe you guys should do somethign together while high... play cards, video games, watch a movie, HAVE SEX! :)
 
I agree completely shocker, when I would smoke around my gfriend it was different in some way. I couldn't put my finger on it but I defenitly enjoyed her company more when I wasn't high as shit. I think weed affects your ability to be intimate with someone . When I smoke weed I also have problems holding a conversation with peope, thats why I usually just do personal sessions when I do smoke occasionally.
 
woah...................virusiti...w.e (im drunk elave me alone lol) is completly right. when im stoned with my boy im all like sketched out n he hates that and i hate that so we have problems. but when im drunk or sober it's all like WOO-HOO pARTAY! u no? yea woot.
 
I get a little bit less social after a certain point of being stoned. I can usualy find a happy medium, though.
 
My boyfriend is a longtime pothead and when we started dating I would only sit in the car and watch. It was a good five months before I ever hit a bowl/blunt. But now I guess you could say I am a pothead. A left over roach I will gladly smoke the hell out of in my backyard when I can't see him. As far as connecting... I have so much fun with my baby when we're high. Maybe it's because I'm a ditz and it comes out more. We tend to play around alot and I'll try to beat him up. Or I'll just laugh.. a lot. But I've never been to where I didn't enjoy myself around him. Even the nap afterwards is great. :-)
 
My girlfriend totally out-smokes me and, while I do get pissed at her for it from time to time, generally smoking is one of the things we enjoy together.
 
I find that the more weed I smoke I become more anti-social... especially large amounts. I just can't stand being around people when I reach that level.
 
srw96 said:
I have the opposite effect also. My bf and I click really well when we're high together. Whenever we're sober and starting to get on each others nerves we just toke a bowl and everything's groovy.

Maybe you guys should do somethign together while high... play cards, video games, watch a movie, HAVE SEX! :)
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i'm not talking about smoking a bowl...i'm talking about smoking a large amount like a blunt. after smoking a bowl or 2 everything is still dope. a lot of it depends on the weed, but still after a nice bowl we are both chilled out and get along great as usual. but when we are both extremely fucked, we both just get quiet and things sometimes feel awkward, even when both of us are really experienced with pot.

i agree with virusitian when he says that it affects your ability to be intimate with someone. i mean being high with your gf is all well and good and sometimes you can be VERY VERY close to her, even more so than usual, but being fucked out of your mind is just plain awkward at times and it seems to almost hurt our relationship because we see new sides of each other (if you are concerned about being attractive/sociable to your S/O).
 
sh0ck3r said:
i'm not talking about smoking a bowl...i'm talking about smoking a large amount like a blunt. after smoking a bowl or 2 everything is still dope. a lot of it depends on the weed, but still after a nice bowl we are both chilled out and get along great as usual. but when we are both extremely fucked, we both just get quiet and things sometimes feel awkward, even when both of us are really experienced with pot.

i agree with virusitian when he says that it affects your ability to be intimate with someone. i mean being high with your gf is all well and good and sometimes you can be VERY VERY close to her, even more so than usual, but being fucked out of your mind is just plain awkward at times and it seems to almost hurt our relationship because we see new sides of each other (if you are concerned about being attractive/sociable to your S/O).
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Have you tried talking to her about this? Maybe you're just both worrying too much about what the other thinks of you when you're this fucked, which makes you both more reserved, which in turn makes you both feel as if the other is thinking less of you? . . .. hmmmmm

I think if you talk to her about this it'll help things a lot
 
sh0ck3r said:
my gf is a fucking pothead
we smoke a few times every week cuz i can't deny i am either, but yeah we usually smoke a bowl or a joint like .7 or .8, not that much at all, i just keep my tolerance low by smokin smaller sessions

but yeah sometimes i feel like getting real fucked up and i'll roll a fat blunt which is all well and good...but as much as we both love weed we just don't click that well at all after having a mad session... it seems almost impossible to be extremely high off crazy hydro with her and have a good time, even though we technically should in a way since we both smoke so much...

i guess it's normal cuz after smoking that much your lungs are fucked up and i personally can't carry conversation as well on the whole. but doesanyone else find it hard to be extremely stoned around their gf/bf even if u both like smoking herb?
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try listening to Cypress Hill, their old shit not their new shit.... should make everything all better ;)
 
how would listening to their older shit help? at least give me a particular song. i know a lot of their shit but i have no idea how it would help me... lol


and yes i have talked a lot to her about this. and she admits it too cuz she gets reserved. but it doesn't SOLVE anything. we still get fucked up and things still are awkward sometimes, lol
 
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