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getting crazy - how bad was this?

tantric

tantric

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this is a bad time for my boo - yesterday was the anniversary of the day his first love died of a stroke. still, he went on a run into the ATL for some geek, called me and said he'd be back in a couple of hours. 12hrs later i get a call from his roommate/ex 'dumdum', telling me my boo is okay and just had some kind of 'medical emergency'. after that, both of their phones are dead. i spent that night worried out of my mind - i'd never really thought of losing him. the next day, he was supossed to work, go in at 6am. i went to his house, but no signs of life. then i was really freaking out - boo doesn't miss work. i called his uncle, who called his mother, and thus the uncle called me and said he was at work. wtf? that first morning of his abscence, he was suppsed to drive this kid to school - i picked up the slack. i don't get it - he's just turned me off. so i got a bit nuts. i'm very creative with my crazy. boo loves frogs. i made two origami frogs, with poems from classical japan written on the paper:

do you have any idea
how long a night can be
spent lying awake
and sobbing?
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you said you would come
but you did not.
now you say you will not come,
so i expect you.
have i learned to understand you yet?
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i put them in a ziplock bag with a note: you lost two frogs - unfold them and read your fortune. i taped it to his door.

how bad is that?
 
timeline:

day 1, 8pm: i talk to boo. he tells me he's gonna make a dope run, so if i want any, i should wait, cause my boo is basically daddy fat sacks
day 1, 11:30pm: boo calls, says he has to do some stuff, it's be another hour and a half.

day 2, 5am: dumdum, boo's ex and roommate calls, saying he hasn't heard from boo and is worried. boo is supposed to drive the neighbor's kid to school around 7. i go to boo's place.
day 2, 7am: i drive the neighbor's kid to school. i think the mom was flirting with me
day 2, 5pm: dumdum calls me, he says boo is fine he just had 'a minor medical emergency'

day 3, 6am: boo has to go to work at 6:30, so i'm outside his house, waiting to see him.no dice.
day 3, 9am: i call boo's uncle and ask if he's seen him. uncle call's boo's mom, finds out boo is at work.

day 4, 3pm: apparently, boo and dumdum have decided i don't exist anymore. i get crazy. i take two pieces of paper and write poems on them (poems are wake from medieval japan) then fold them into origami frogs. boo loves frogs - they are his spirit guide. i put them in a ziplock bag with a note: you have lost two frogs - unfold them and read your fortune. i tape this package to boo's door.

the poems are the ones quoted above
 
How long have you two been together?
In a relationship, you generally lean on that person first for support, provided it's a long term relationship.
If you want a good, stable relationship, you've gotta find someone who is reliable and responsible and it seems like it is not this person.
 
You're not living together, right?

Under that assumption, it seems like it isn't a serious enough relationship to really bother. Try to move on with your life. I'm sorry this all happened though. Hopefully you can find someone who is a bit more mature!!
 
Find someone that's not into coke/crack, or meth or whatever the drug geek is, and who doesn't literally go on runs and binges on the drug where they disappear for four days.

These types of people are not good for relationships and are an emotional drain and incapable of having a healthy relationship or partnership with anyone. They are always going to put the drug or their addiction first even before you or anyone else including their family. You're better off without them.

Good luck.
 
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y'all are right. honestly, now that i consider this, it's about money. i had a windfall of $700 right when he had to have oral surgery and get dentures. i loaned him $400. he's paid me $100 in meth but told me on day one he had a card for $50 he was going to give me. part of our relationship is that we never lie to each other. i'm betting he spent that card and didn't want to tell me. since then we've kinda spoken, i told him i bought and paid for his teeth and that he would pay me by the end of the week or i'd knock the sons of bitches out of his mouth. i am a convict and a thug, of sorts, at heart, he knows that.
 
You sound like the kind of woman I'd like to talk to, but would be afraid of.

Don't mind me, I've ingested way too much kava tonight.
 
for those of you who enjoy the drama, here's how i nailed it. first, an email from him, then my reply:

You can kiss my ass you have no idea what it means to be a friend for your just fucking like your sister it's scary how much you two sound alike. I was going pay you til you decided for no fucking reason to start threatening me so I don't respond well to threats and please you never have money to scam that money you had was a fluke one Time thing so if I was a scammer I would not be wasting my time on a broke ass living off his father. You would have gotten money back had you not went all stupid and crazy so fuck you do you want my family's names addresses and phone numbers let me know when you want to tell them I'll meet you there and bring snacks and drinks we will all have a good laugh.
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my response

wow. you flat out admit that if i had more money, you would have called me and not left me hanging. you just actually said that. you flat out admitted that you're a meth whore. this is what you said:

Time thing so if I was a scammer I would not be wasting my time on a broke ass living off his father.

exactly - you had time for me so long as i had money and you owed me, but now, you can treat me like shit, you got my money - its in your mouth right now. and now that i'm broke,it's okay to shit on me.

i know you're reading this and i know you can't deny it. and i know it hurts like a motherfucker. you can feel the truth in it - you can flake off crazy all you want and pretend i'm a monster, but you just stabbed yourself in the heart and it won't stop.

pay me,bitch
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i'm sending him a link to this, so likely he'll make an account and rant and rave ad it. up to the mods if y'all allow it
 
It's probably over yo.

This shit made my day, I don't think about dead people, they gone.

If some leaves with bs reasons they are lying.

Six months ain't shit but people are so shitty to one another.

No one has ever done anything nice like leave me a note saying how much they love me and I have been in long relationships to a lot of one night stands and lately flings.

No one is nice. OP you got dumped, who cares or really wants to know why, move on.
 
Pretty_Diamonds said:
Do you think that's the best way to handle this? Bringing your fight here?
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naw - this is just for the amusement of my peeps. falling for a bipolar methhead was always a recipe for disaster. i'm glad its done. he does owe me money, but at this point, i just don't care.
 
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