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Getting aggravated with this woman who works at my local dollar store...

Edaw'Naflagn

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Well she picked up on me being nice, I'm always told I'm too nice, & she really thinks she's hot shit, perfect or better than my gf. She will not leave me alone and has even came on to my dad which has the same feeling towards her, which is nothing. She's a bigger chick (I would say obese but I'm not a dick) and I'm just not attracted to her, I also HAVE a GF. She has even gone to the point of fucking up me and my gf's normal day to day shit by getting her sister, a cab dispatcher, to greatly delay my cab, and her cabs to come to me or wherever due to what I'm guessing to be jelsiousy, etc... I've kinda already told her I have a GF and she met her and knows her full name as well as mine- I don't want anything to do with her in that manner but she refuses to pick that up and just acts like a bitch when she feels like I want nothing to do with her. This is really fucking with my normal day to day shit and is getting me very aggravated as well as my GF. Any ways to get her to just fuck off and let me be? I've already stopped going to that store and my dad just goes to that store now and has no problem in making it clear he's not dating. I made it very clear ever time I went there in the not to late past. I feel bad for her seeing how I've had crushes but she's like 46 and like I said I'm in no way attracted to similar women, I just can't at all look at her as someone I would ever be with or fall for. I don't mean to seem mean but I'm not attracted to obese women, seeing as she has to be about 350+. I know I'm an attractive young male in my 20's but I'm Demi-sexual and have a GF, in which I really don't want to try to start anything new unless she does something fucked or I just loose love/attraction to her- which at this point I'm attracted and very much in love with her [my GF].
Update - She frequently ask if I'm coming by to pick up cigs or whatever I would normally grab when my dad goes in and gets what he normally gets as well. She also tried to give her number to him for me, he knows I don't like her and obviously knows I have a GF seeing how she lives with me and him. He also tells me her obsession with me everytime he comes home from that store, thus making me not want to go to that store at all anymore which really I don't. Normally now I'll give my dad the money to get the cigs and seeing how he uses a card to buy his shit and now my money to buy my cigs I would personally see that as I'm not coming back in there till I feel like she gets it tip, and I know she should see that too. Sadly I suppose she doesn't see it the way I'm trying to put it...
 
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Why not just go to a different store? I mean, you say she is obsessed with you, but isn't it you rocking up at her place of work? I think this situation could be pretty easily resolved. Either that, or simply tell her you are not interested or just don't worry about it. It doesn't seem like she is acting threatening; just enjoy the flattery. :)
 
Why not just go to a different store? I mean, you say she is obsessed with you, but isn't it you rocking up at her place of work? I think this situation could be pretty easily resolved. Either that, or simply tell her you are not interested or just don't worry about it. It doesn't seem like she is acting threatening; just enjoy the flattery. :)
100% agree it's just that she really acts mean towards me when I would be buying cigs for me and my GF. I haven't gone back in about a month, just sucks how I can't use that store anymore or put up with it.
 
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