Friend To a New Mommy

[stolemyheart87]

One of my best friends since middle school up until now, all these years, she recently had a new baby boy. I have told her as well as others, that I have never liked kids, and I myself never want kids.


But this doesn't mean I want nothing to do with her or her baby boy. I wanted to see her when she had her baby bump, and touch her belly to feel the baby kick, or attend her baby shower, but I wasn't able to go to her baby shower due to it being a surprise, that she didn't even know of it. And she never came to see me in person during her pregnancy.


Now she's had the baby boy and its been 8 months, she had the boy in February of this year. And that kid will be hitting 1 year's old s00n and I honestly don't think I will ever get to see her or her kid ever. Last time I ever saw her was summer of 2015.


I am afraid I will never see her again by the looks of it. I wanted to see her in her pregnancy state with the belly and see her kid at least at 1 years old, to show her, I am there for her and her kid, and not against her or her kid.


I want to see them both but I don't think it will happen. I have told her to stop by but she always doesn't have money, (she doesn't work) or can't borrow money from her mom, since she lives at home, with her family.


So what to do, should I just give up and not bother asking her to hang out or see her ever again or keep trying or what? What would you do in this situation?

 

[Hurhel]

Find a way to meet up somewhere ?
Meet up at the park ?
Get the baby a small gift and say you wanted to see her and the baby for a little while.

 

[Pretty_Diamonds]

You keep saying you wanted to see her... yet you haven't seen her or her baby. for over a year....

I don't understand. Why aren't you seeing her? She obviously can't come to you... why can't you go to her? Can you facetime? Skype? ???

 

[pofacedhoe]

so you both dont have money and dont see each other. whats your point?

phone her