Females That Take Birthcontrol Or Know About It And Periods Etc. Need Help ASAP

[kanyeknievel]

Alright so im going to try to make this simple. There is a girl im friends with that I see maybe once a year maybe twice and I am going to see her in one week exactly. For 3/4 days 3 whole days but 4 days.

But basically we talk everyday and stuff and she hasnt been worried about this now because of the fact that she just realized she hasnt really had her period in a while and probably with her luck and the timing would have it when im there and yes its expected and she wants to have sex, so we talked about it but I have no idea about birthcontrol, periods, all of that. I tried to ask her if she will definitely know if she will have it and she said shes irregular, sometimes its like 1 month somes its a month and a week sometimes it can be two months.

So today she said im probably going to have it when ur here because my boobs hurt... then i was like ur boobs hurt? What does that mean? She said when her boobs her it means she going to have her period i guess? soon? maybe the next day or the next couple days.

So THAT is my first question. Does anyone know if ur boobs hurting has ANYTHING to do with getting ur period, im a guy so i have no idea.. but she said it happens to her? i dont know. i wouldnt think it has anything to do with a period because ur boobs arent connected to ur ovaries, uterus, vagina, etc. So thats why im on here.

Second, she wanted to make sure she WASNT on her period definitely when I came and her friend takes birthcontrol and I know somewhat about that and her sister told her about it, but she said everyones different and thats what I read too.. it can delay people for months, but some people it doesnt. She got like a bunch of Cerazette 75mg i believe from her friend or her sister, which i know its probably a bad idea to take that for just one period of time then not take it, but oh well its not me and i didnt say to do it. So she has been taking that for.. two or three days now, she hasnt had her period since.. October 15th she said it was and she said sometimes she doesnt for 2 months, she has birthcontrol pills she has taken for the past 2 or 3 days, and she said her boobs hurt which she said usually means she is having her period?

I really dont know what to do with any of this..... so im asking for female help.

IF the boobs thing is true with any of you females, does it happen the day or two after? if so, then if she stops taking the birthcontrol will she automatically have her period from not taking the birthcontrol pill?
If the boob thing has nothing to do with it, should she still not take the pills until the DAY BEFORE OR THE DAY I GET THERE? is that a better idea or is it not a better idea? cause if she has her period like the day before i come because she stopped taking it, the pill wont do anything besides not get her pregant and stuff and maybe cut down the time of it.

Soooo what is the best plan here. To just keep taking the pill and hope for the best? To not take the pill, hope to get it tommmorow because of the boob thing and she took the pill the past 2 or 3 days?
thats all i can give you, thank you for the advice and help. Im hoping its all fine, but i just wanted to post this for advice and better info since i dont know anything

 

[xstayfadedx]

Birth control only takes effect after at least two weeks not two or three days. Also when you have birth control you still get your period but it makes irregular women get it more frequently (like every month as they should have it). Yet it depends on the brand and what not. Cause sometimes it cuts how frequently you get it but there are times you can spot.

We won't be able to tell if she will have her period or not because everyone is different and especially because she is irregular. Women get all different signs when they're about to get their period. The boob thing is a possible sign, I don't get that but my stomach starts to act weird then I know..

Good luck hopefully she doesn't get it but if she does then just bone another time.

 

[Oats]

sometimes boobs will hurt like a couple days before getting your period, but then also hurt due to pregnancy at times and sometimes the shirt or bra she is wearing can hurt her boobs.
if she has birth control she should be taking it for a week before unprotected sex, but it takes 3 months for you body and period cycle to fully change and be regular again. taking birth control can also help her have regular periods.

 

[footscrazy]

I'm pretty confused by your post.

Boobs hurting can be a sign of getting your period, for sure. Like stayfaded said, everyone is different but if she's identified that as a sign for her, then she's probably right.

If you take birth control regularly, you can skip your period idefinitely by taking the active pills all month, instead of taking the sugar pills for one week. When you're on the pill regularly, the 'period' you get isn't a true period, but a withdrawal bleeding from stopping taking the pill. Since it doesn't seem like she's been taking it regularly, it probably wont stop her period (especially if she's only been taking it for 2-3 days, which I think is what I can gather from your post).

Also, importantly, she wont be protected from getting pregnant. You need to have been taking the pill regularly (and not miss a day, if you do, you can become pregnant). Also, you need to begin taking the pill on the first day of your period or you wont be protected for a month. So make sure you use condoms...

 

[Fawkes]

I tried to ask her if she will definitely know if she will have it and she said shes irregular, sometimes its like 1 month somes its a month and a week sometimes it can be two months.

this is really, really confusing. women on BCP do not have irregular periods. the pill regulates a woman's cycle. if she isn't having her period while taking her birth control at the same time every day (and she's not taking packs consecutively or skipping her inactive to pills to skip a period) she needs to see a doctor.

So today she said im probably going to have it when ur here because my boobs hurt... then i was like ur boobs hurt? What does that mean? She said when her boobs her it means she going to have her period i guess? soon? maybe the next day or the next couple days.

when a woman's body preps for her period, it releases progesterone and oestrogen which can cause tender or achy breasts. this side effect is a lot less common with women who are on the pill however. tender or achy breasts are also one of the very first signs of pregnancy and for some, can be a sign of ovulation.

Second, she wanted to make sure she WASNT on her period definitely when I came and her friend takes birthcontrol and I know somewhat about that and her sister told her about it, but she said everyones different and thats what I read too..

she'll know she's not on her period by looking at a calendar and comparing to where she is in her pill pack. when a woman takes her inactive pills, she's on her period.

it can delay people for months, but some people it doesnt. She got like a bunch of Cerazette 75mg i believe from her friend or her sister, which i know its probably a bad idea to take that for just one period of time then not take it, but oh well its not me and i didnt say to do it. So she has been taking that for.. two or three days now, she hasnt had her period since.. October 15th she said it was and she said sometimes she doesnt for 2 months, she has birthcontrol pills she has taken for the past 2 or 3 days, and she said her boobs hurt which she said usually means she is having her period?

again, when women are on the pill, their cycle is VERY regulated. she should have started taking the pill on the first day of her period and she should be getting it from a doctor - not a friend or sister.

Soooo what is the best plan here.

she needs to talk with a doctor. i'm confused by the information you've provided. and yes, if you have sex, wear a condom. it takes some time (a week to a month) before the pill can begin to work effectively.

 

[llama112]

I'm quite confused with your post as well.

Yes, females can have pains before their period. It is very common actually. But different for every person.

That was the only actual question I could get out of your post. When a girl is on the pill, her cycle should be regular. I'm on the pill and the most my period is off is like, a day. I usually know what time it's going to come ... like ... oh it should come on Sunday evening.
I wouldn't advise having unprotected sex unless she has been on the pill for a full month. Most pills are fine with a week but I like to play it safe. Use a condom as well.

 

[187coopa]

buy condoms and fucker on er period. or off her period. 20 mins of pleasure aint worth the trouble half the pleasure is knowing she wants u inside her.

 

[hyroller]

I've been on the contraceptive pill for 9 years and yes, if I continue to take more of the active, lining-thickener pills instead of the sugar pills during the week of my period, I can delay or suppress the blood flow if I so choose. but I have no cause to do this these days; it's bad enough taking a hormonal regulator (instead of letting nature do its' thing) - let alone mucking around with the timed dosages. It wouldn't work on someone whose body wasn't already accustomed to the regular, timed dose. just do the deed with some dark towels shielding your chosen surface - wont make much difference to you, wearing a rubber & all she has to do is take some pain killers/period pain relief. problem solved.

 

[Jblazingphoenix100]

FUck her on her period. Bareback. Best time..part of her period will be slightly painful(not 100%), and some of it she will be insatiable - take advantage of this!! FUCK FUCK FUCK, just lay some towels, or old sheets down when she's on...

Wait til she's bleeding.

And regarding the tits being sensitive - I always thought this was a pregnancy thing (in fact, I actually helped someone realize they were pregnant when I was working with them, by noticing a few things she was saying, and the tits thing was the final piece of the puzzle) exclusively, but my friend who is lying next to me gets really sensitive when she's on her period (now) so I guess that answers the question...in my usual longwinded roundabout way.

 

[m c f]

Jblazingphoenix100: Are you fucking kidding me? I mean I agree that they should have sex whether or not they should have sex, they should. But she could still get pregnant when she's on her period, especially if her periods are irregular. I would say use condoms, put down towels, and if you're good, you'll ease her pain (if she gets cramps. But do not, I repeat, DO NOT come inside her. If for any reason you don't use a condom, come somewhere besides her vagina.

 

[Perpetual Indulgence]

have condoms and have sex or don't
period or no period