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Favoriter approach to women (girls) and what are 'results' of your approach,honestly?

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exy34

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I was just curious, share with me if you want, what is you approach to girls / women and how you would rate yourself, and your way of approaching ?

Personally changed myself during time, tried various ways to approach girls and women, and unfortunately "raw guy" best works, both for dating or just one night stands.

Be descriptive don't be shy to tell if you are 'romantic' type of guy, or you like to show that you have a lot of money, or whatever, just be honest.
 
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my favourite approach is honesty

be honest, they will appreciate the respect
 
charm works on everyone but until you look back its hard to tell if you were charming. plus some people are super susceptible to it and some are immune.

either way being real and making an effort go a very long way. but looks and likeability help.

stop being scared and go after what you want! you could get it...
 
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I just use my schwagger.

jk

I typically try to seem confident and make eye contact and smile a lot and just act like my goofy self and its worked pretty well on certain types of girls.

when the relationship is starting to unfold I try to get as romantic and intimate as I can as soon as she's comfortable.
 
Treat them like you don't care.

Something fundamentally wrong with that, but it's a tried and true method. As soon as you show most girls how interested you are in them, they lose respect for you.

I personally hate this game, and just want to be forward and honest. It's like I'm not allowed to if I want sex/companionship though.


Edit: this is just supplemental. Not a silver bullet. I treat girls that I like like I treat guys that I like. Just how you talk to a prospective new friend.
 
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usually I would engage whomever into a conversation and just bullshit, I dunno, it's kinda hard to describe. talk about whatever seems to be going on in that particular day

honestly, my approach to some girl I'm interested in doesn't differ that much to my approach of most any other person

there will either be something there, or there won't. if there is, that's when the fun usually starts :)
 
llama112 said:
Confidence and also being honest... I think those help.
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Those would be what would work best on me I'd say...
Show me you know what you're doing, that you believe in yourself (without being insufferably arrogant obviously!) and yeah, don't make anything up. And please be yourself.
 
I just be myself, make jokes make fun of them in a cheeky way, idk I don't find it too hard im a really good people person anyway
 
Animal Mother said:
Treat them like you don't care.

Something fundamentally wrong with that, but it's a tried and true method. As soon as you show most girls how interested you are in them, they lose respect for you.

I personally hate this game, and just want to be forward and honest. It's like I'm not allowed to if I want sex/companionship though.
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You know, some women are like this, but personally I just don't pursue those women. If there weren't a steady stream of guys willing to put on this act, nobody would expect it. If you can't be yourself, you're hanging out with the wrong people.
 
Talk to a girl you want to get with as you would anyone else, then casually make it obvious you're interested in more than friendship. If they're down to fuck, they'll let it be known, otherwise I will move on. If I get a number I will always call the person immediately after so "they have my number"
 
atara said:
You know, some women are like this, but personally I just don't pursue those women. If there weren't a steady stream of guys willing to put on this act, nobody would expect it. If you can't be yourself, you're hanging out with the wrong people.
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I've walked through many roads in life, and I believe that I've found an equal amount of those women in every demographic. I'd believe that there was something wrong with me and my choice of selection, if my selection was not so varied.

While I agree with you, I'll also say that I am myself, and every body's self requires some self control.
 
Well, I prefer being approached but outside of private parties with mostly mutual friends present that rarely happens.

I'll tend to just ask them for a light (if I'm outside smoking) and take the conversation from there. Indoors it's a bit trickier, I'll often find myself just randomly jumping into a conversation that some group of people next to me is having (this isn't meant as some sneaky tactic, it's more that I'll be at the bar sipping on the beer I just ordered and overhear their conversation and of course I just can't keep myself from joining in).
 
Ok, I see that most answers are "decent", I mean nice guys with nice approach and glad to see that...
 
I thought i would give me 2 cents. I just tried internet dating and found out the best way to get a response is to actually read there profile and then ask around 3 questions to find out more about what they have posted and then do a short description of ones self. Nothing too long but definitely not just "Hey, want to hook up?" Then if they thought you seemed interesting they would respond or, maybe they are looking for a douchebag and are waiting for the "hey, let's hook up" guy. I do have to admit, it was a pretty fun way to get back into being single again after being with someone for 10 years. Maybe that was 3 cents I gave?
 
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