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Ever done drugs to "fit in" or be cool?

Floating Zebra

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Whenever someone lectures you about drugs, they begin with "you do it to act cool!, to fit in!" Id say that was a tiny reason for me picking up my smoking habits, and a bit for weed when i was younger. But i guess it stops there with me. What about you? which drugs have you done/do to fit in?
 
No, other people use drugs to try to fit in with my crew. %)

We roll around smoking dippers and stabbing motherfuckers with butter knives.
 
No, I can't say that I have. I think drugs made me care even less about fitting in or being cool than I did originally. And trust me, I didn't care very much at all...
 
No I have been curious about it since I was like 12 and I went to a private school. So half the muh fuckas there didnt even know what drugs were! xD
 
When I first started drinking and smoking, and had very low tolerances to both I remember plenty of occasions were I smoked way more and drank way more than was necessary just to say that I could keep up. Drinking like that got me in a lot of deep shit.
 
I use drugs to expand my mind, not expand my popularity. And I could care less what other people other than my immediate family think; what you see is what you get.
 
Pssh, aren't you all so totally your own people, so invunerable to peer pressure and social reality. Fuck off, I'd say everyone at one point or another have taken drugs that they didn't want/need/have any interest in in some circumstance because you felt like it was, in one way or another, expected of you. It is a reality of being part of the drug culture- the scene is always very closeknit, closed and suspicious, I'd really be suprised if you hadn't at one time been 'forced' to take drugs (even if that just meant taking a hit off a spliff you had no interest in) just so some tweeked out cunt will relax and stop insinuating that you're a nark or whatever. Besides, drug use in social situations is almost exclusively for the purpose of social-bonding (which is why heroin isn't a very popular social drug) so it is very easy for cretins (75-90% of any given group) to assume that refusing to take drugs is a rejection of the group- I have heard the words "What, aren't my drugs good enough for you?" used with muderous seriousness. You snort the meth.

I'm not saying that I blame my drug problems on anybody else or anything like that, but at least I know myself well enough to be able to say "Man, I done some dumb shit for some dumbass reasons". Case in point- meth, I hate stimulants, I don't enjoy their primary effects, I hate their fucking side effects and other than for having to stay awake/go to work I would never take stimulants (and even then in those situations oral ritalin/dexamp is more than sufficent), yet I've taken meth multiple times, eachtime in a social situations where it came down to 'fuck it, be part of the moment'.

It's like when you're really drunk and you know that you're gonna vomit in about 15 minutes and you're just having a bit of a breather before you make your way out of the bar into the alley to have a nice wee vom then your friend punches you in the shoulder and you turn round to see a shot that he's just bought you. You drink the fucking shot and you vomit 15 minutes later, that- for better or for worse- is how friendship works much of the time.

Peer pressure. She's a bitch.
 
no , i have done them always to
A.) Enjoy myself
B.) Explore myself
C.) Stay awake (E.g Raves)
D.) Added music appreciation.
E.) Simply to try something new


People should have a choice on what they want to do. For example i rarely rarely rarely drink alcohol, so when i go back to afterparties, i usually just drink water, however i do ketamine, which i will not mix with alcohol.
 
Well I almost always use drugs alone or with very close friends 2-3.
So no don't think so.
 
no , i have done them always to
A.) Enjoy myself
B.) Explore myself
C.) Stay awake (E.g Raves)
D.) Added music appreciation.
E.) Simply to try something new

Ditto

If that was in a specific order however Music appreciation would be my "A" and staying awake for mad event's / clubs would be my "B"
Although looking back im not gunna lie , there was a time i smoked weed to fit in once when i was very young , but after that smoked it individually.
 
Pssh, aren't you all so totally your own people, so invunerable to peer pressure and social reality. Fuck off, I'd say everyone at one point or another have taken drugs that they didn't want/need/have any interest in in some circumstance because you felt like it was, in one way or another, expected of you. It is a reality of being part of the drug culture- the scene is always very closeknit, closed and suspicious, I'd really be suprised if you hadn't at one time been 'forced' to take drugs (even if that just meant taking a hit off a spliff you had no interest in) just so some tweeked out cunt will relax and stop insinuating that you're a nark or whatever. Besides, drug use in social situations is almost exclusively for the purpose of social-bonding (which is why heroin isn't a very popular social drug) so it is very easy for cretins (75-90% of any given group) to assume that refusing to take drugs is a rejection of the group- I have heard the words "What, aren't my drugs good enough for you?" used with muderous seriousness. You snort the meth.

I'm not saying that I blame my drug problems on anybody else or anything like that, but at least I know myself well enough to be able to say "Man, I done some dumb shit for some dumbass reasons". Case in point- meth, I hate stimulants, I don't enjoy their primary effects, I hate their fucking side effects and other than for having to stay awake/go to work I would never take stimulants (and even then in those situations oral ritalin/dexamp is more than sufficent), yet I've taken meth multiple times, eachtime in a social situations where it came down to 'fuck it, be part of the moment'.

It's like when you're really drunk and you know that you're gonna vomit in about 15 minutes and you're just having a bit of a breather before you make your way out of the bar into the alley to have a nice wee vom then your friend punches you in the shoulder and you turn round to see a shot that he's just bought you. You drink the fucking shot and you vomit 15 minutes later, that- for better or for worse- is how friendship works much of the time.

Peer pressure. She's a bitch.

I agree 100% with everything stated.

Once a group bond's with drug's they usually progress through different drug's together , and when 1 person turns around and says No , the group will encourage them
to try it with the rest of the group , not with bad intentions but more or less because they want you and your personality to be on this drug with them for many reasons
including making their experience a more enjoyable one because their friend is doing it with them. nobody likes to sit there and do drug's around their best friend if their
best friend happen's to be against it , you would feel like your doing something wrong...

Im sure when you guys meet someone new that doesn't do drug's you tend to make a habit of not stating how intensely good last night's LSD trip was
mixed with the left over 200mg's of DXM along side a joint. However when you meet someone who shares your interest in drugs you feel like your closer to them
because you don't have to hold back a part of your personality that you otherwise do have to hold back , hence the reason people pressure their friend's to do drugs with them
so their friend can have a good experience and have a changed outlook on the drug so there is alot less judgement. its part of the way the drug culture works.

So many times ive heard people who are simple stoner's and nothing more say things like "weed is natural and can't kill you , ill NEVER touch amphets , people who use them
are fucked" then 6 months later or some shit run into them and hear that they tried speed and loved it and their persona has changed to "cant talk shit about something until you try it"
for them to have changed their oppinion from not wanting to do it ever to having done it , something/someone has influenced that decision , forced or not someone has
captured their curiosity and it's lead to them trying a drug they never wanted to try.
 
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I've been vaguely tempted by social pressure to smoke weed. Funnily enough this came AFTER I started using psychedelics. But I always gave it serious thought, decided I didn't want to, and when I turned it down, turned out the 'pressure' to fit in was all in my head; everyone was cool with it.

The two times I have smoked were by my own volition. The first was after a dud san pedro trip, and I wanted something to chill me out of my disappointment and give me some sort of hallucinogenic experience. Turns out I have an extreme and unpleasant reaction to weed, and I probably won't do it a third time.
 
Pssh, aren't you all so totally your own people, so invunerable to peer pressure and social reality. Fuck off, I'd say everyone at one point or another have taken drugs that they didn't want/need/have any interest in in some circumstance because you felt like it was, in one way or another, expected of you. It is a reality of being part of the drug culture- the scene is always very closeknit, closed and suspicious, I'd really be suprised if you hadn't at one time been 'forced' to take drugs (even if that just meant taking a hit off a spliff you had no interest in) just so some tweeked out cunt will relax and stop insinuating that you're a nark or whatever. Besides, drug use in social situations is almost exclusively for the purpose of social-bonding (which is why heroin isn't a very popular social drug) so it is very easy for cretins (75-90% of any given group) to assume that refusing to take drugs is a rejection of the group- I have heard the words "What, aren't my drugs good enough for you?" used with muderous seriousness. You snort the meth.

I'm not saying that I blame my drug problems on anybody else or anything like that, but at least I know myself well enough to be able to say "Man, I done some dumb shit for some dumbass reasons". Case in point- meth, I hate stimulants, I don't enjoy their primary effects, I hate their fucking side effects and other than for having to stay awake/go to work I would never take stimulants (and even then in those situations oral ritalin/dexamp is more than sufficent), yet I've taken meth multiple times, eachtime in a social situations where it came down to 'fuck it, be part of the moment'.

It's like when you're really drunk and you know that you're gonna vomit in about 15 minutes and you're just having a bit of a breather before you make your way out of the bar into the alley to have a nice wee vom then your friend punches you in the shoulder and you turn round to see a shot that he's just bought you. You drink the fucking shot and you vomit 15 minutes later, that- for better or for worse- is how friendship works much of the time.

Peer pressure. She's a bitch.

exactly what i was thinking when i read these responses. at 27, i don't smoke a bowl after class so i can tell my friends about it. but i have definitely taken some shots because my friends were taking shots, or done some lines because they were right there in front of me. nobody's ever twisted my arm and forced me to do anything, but you don't really have to twist my arm in the first place.
 
You who say that you have done drugs because of other people, like limonov, Twitchsta.

How big is the group when this happen?
How well do you know the people?

To me it feels like this might be more common when there is lots of people who don't know each other to well.
 
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