Deinonychus
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Hey! So I'm really curious to hear the female perspective on having sex without a condom. You see, my last ex, and current girlfriend, LOVE it when I cum inside of them. I was talking with my male best friend, and same goes for his fiancée. I spoke also to a close female friend who, we're she a man, would be considered a 'player' or something similar, but that society would likely call a slut, simply because of double standards where it's cool for a dude to get mad sex but women are looked down upon for having healthy, or in her case extremely enormously healthy sex drives. And she too says that she prefers sex sans condom, because it feels more 'natural' that way. She said the only downside is that some minutes after the guy comes, some will leak back out, but she solved that issue by training herself to clamp/tighten her pelvic muscles to hold it in there, thus eliminating the only downside, and in her opinion a minor downside at that, to unprotected sex.
Now obviously it goes without saying that unless both partners are tested and clean, and unless some form of birth control other than a rubber is used, unprotected sex is not safe, and should not be done at all. Other no less potentially dangerous things like 'just the tip' or 'I'll pull out' don't fly either. You need to be 100% sure that STDs or fertilization of eggs are NOT in the realm of possibility before going skin to skin. Like I said goes without saying, but I gotta put the disclaimer there just to be responsible. Finally, it's not legit to not use a condom unless both parties are in complete agreement that it is acceptable to do so.
Anyway back to cumming inside of women! My girl says that it's actually additionally pleasureable, something about the hot liquids spraying deep inside her (her words, not mine), and also the feeling of being 'filled-up', makes her feel more pleasure than sex with a condom. She also says that while the added general-issue pleasure I just mentioned is nice, it is actually the feeling of postcoital closeness and contentment, specifically the contentment, also know as afterglow, that is dramatically increased in intensity and somewhat in duration.
So ladies, do you enjoy being ejaculated into, or do you dislike it?
If so, what is it about the experience that you like, and if you do enjoy it, is it conditional (for example more enjoyable with somebody you have a deep emotional bond with) or are there any downsides/negative aspects that are still outweighed by whatever it is you personally find enjoyable about it?
And as I expect there are surely many women who do not enjoy it when a man cums inside them, for those of you who dislike it, what aspect of the experience is unpleasant? Or is it the whole idea that is not palatable to you?
I have only had extremely frequent unprotected sex with a few girlfriends, though I have had extensive protected sexual experience with many women where we simply chose to not go the hormonal birth control route. In almost all relationships we have used condoms, or simply didn't go out long enough to progress from casual condom sex to the point in a relationship where we would have felt the hassle of getting tested and onto some form of the pill/patch/etc would be outweighed by the emotional and sexual benefits of unprotected sex, as well as not having progressed to the level of trust that I think is a very important prerequisite for skin to skin.
So badically I'm just curious how well my anecdotal evidence (a few past and one current relationship, from my friend's relationship with his fiancée, and the statements of my very sexually active female friend) jive with the position on whether ejaculation inside is a positive or a negative from the woman's point of view in the population at large. Hah not that BL represents the population at large, but o well!
Anybody got any input on whether they like being cummed in? I have always dreamed so hard that I could experience sex as a woman, I want to feel what girls feel so, so badly, just out of curiosity to how their experience compares, like whether properly performed sex is more pleasureable for the woman than the man since the woman gets to wriggle around and make noises indicative of highly pleasureable states of being whereas the man gets >95% of the pleasure (wild guess) all at once but over very short duration relative to the woman. I'm straight, experimented with guys a few times but found it just revolting, though that is for me only and if others enjoy homosex then I encourage them to have as much homosex as they wish. So I am very secure in being hetero, enough so that I long to experience sex from the woman's viewpoint. That's not gonna happen any time soon, so the closest I can get is asking questions like this that arise from actual curiosity behind them as opposed to being rooted in negative feelings about women (ie thread being 'hey I hear butches like dick, and love when I jizz in em! Lolol!')
Any takers? I wonder how it breaks down by percent too, that'd be somewhat interesting to see too, how many enjoy being ejaculated in, how many are neutral and don't care, how many don't like it for sure, how many will not allow it at all.. But I think there's enough here for a thread already!
Cheers
D
Now obviously it goes without saying that unless both partners are tested and clean, and unless some form of birth control other than a rubber is used, unprotected sex is not safe, and should not be done at all. Other no less potentially dangerous things like 'just the tip' or 'I'll pull out' don't fly either. You need to be 100% sure that STDs or fertilization of eggs are NOT in the realm of possibility before going skin to skin. Like I said goes without saying, but I gotta put the disclaimer there just to be responsible. Finally, it's not legit to not use a condom unless both parties are in complete agreement that it is acceptable to do so.
Anyway back to cumming inside of women! My girl says that it's actually additionally pleasureable, something about the hot liquids spraying deep inside her (her words, not mine), and also the feeling of being 'filled-up', makes her feel more pleasure than sex with a condom. She also says that while the added general-issue pleasure I just mentioned is nice, it is actually the feeling of postcoital closeness and contentment, specifically the contentment, also know as afterglow, that is dramatically increased in intensity and somewhat in duration.
So ladies, do you enjoy being ejaculated into, or do you dislike it?
If so, what is it about the experience that you like, and if you do enjoy it, is it conditional (for example more enjoyable with somebody you have a deep emotional bond with) or are there any downsides/negative aspects that are still outweighed by whatever it is you personally find enjoyable about it?
And as I expect there are surely many women who do not enjoy it when a man cums inside them, for those of you who dislike it, what aspect of the experience is unpleasant? Or is it the whole idea that is not palatable to you?
I have only had extremely frequent unprotected sex with a few girlfriends, though I have had extensive protected sexual experience with many women where we simply chose to not go the hormonal birth control route. In almost all relationships we have used condoms, or simply didn't go out long enough to progress from casual condom sex to the point in a relationship where we would have felt the hassle of getting tested and onto some form of the pill/patch/etc would be outweighed by the emotional and sexual benefits of unprotected sex, as well as not having progressed to the level of trust that I think is a very important prerequisite for skin to skin.
So badically I'm just curious how well my anecdotal evidence (a few past and one current relationship, from my friend's relationship with his fiancée, and the statements of my very sexually active female friend) jive with the position on whether ejaculation inside is a positive or a negative from the woman's point of view in the population at large. Hah not that BL represents the population at large, but o well!
Anybody got any input on whether they like being cummed in? I have always dreamed so hard that I could experience sex as a woman, I want to feel what girls feel so, so badly, just out of curiosity to how their experience compares, like whether properly performed sex is more pleasureable for the woman than the man since the woman gets to wriggle around and make noises indicative of highly pleasureable states of being whereas the man gets >95% of the pleasure (wild guess) all at once but over very short duration relative to the woman. I'm straight, experimented with guys a few times but found it just revolting, though that is for me only and if others enjoy homosex then I encourage them to have as much homosex as they wish. So I am very secure in being hetero, enough so that I long to experience sex from the woman's viewpoint. That's not gonna happen any time soon, so the closest I can get is asking questions like this that arise from actual curiosity behind them as opposed to being rooted in negative feelings about women (ie thread being 'hey I hear butches like dick, and love when I jizz in em! Lolol!')
Any takers? I wonder how it breaks down by percent too, that'd be somewhat interesting to see too, how many enjoy being ejaculated in, how many are neutral and don't care, how many don't like it for sure, how many will not allow it at all.. But I think there's enough here for a thread already!
Cheers
D
