Does she like me?

[hooternuts]

I met this girl over a year ago at a party, the same night I had sex with her best friend. I didn't know either of them prior to this. A couple of months ago this girl started randomly writing to me on facebook and we talked for a while, we've been hanging out a lot recently talked everyday for hours on the phone etc. At first I didn't have any feelings for this girl and I thought I could get away with just having sex with her and then hitting the road (yes douchey I know, don't judge me) now the thing is after hanging out with her and talking everynight I think I've developed feelings for her.

Now I'm not sure how she feels about me, she always initates the conversations, she invited me over we had a couple of drinks got drunk and she started cuddling me, but everytime I tried to kiss her she backed off. I didn't think too much about it until recently, she does this everytime, we cuddle and she humps me etc but whenever I try to kiss her she backs off, I know she's not shy or anything and probably only does this to me. I'm guessing it's because I had sex with her best friend and never talked to her again but that's a whole other story, her best friend knows about all of this and apparently approves it, now I can't get over the fact if she's just playing with me or if she genuinely likes me and what I should do about it. I pretty much can't get my mind off of it.

 

[loopyloo]

Being a girl it sounds to me she is very interested in you too. She just wants to go slow...... open up and talk to her as much as you can...... she will respect you for it

 

[llama112]

She seems into you, yes. I'm sure she'll let you kiss her in time.

 

[hooternuts]

I just can't seem to wrap my head around if she's scared because I had sex with her best friend or what, she gives mixed signals. It feels like she likes me but she tries to play it off as she doesn't and is just having fun. Most of my friends are suggesting to take some distance for a week or so to see how she reacts and then I will know for sure, but I'm not sure if that would be the smartest thing to do

 

[Mysterie]

but she tries to play it off as she doesn't and is just having fun.

what are the indications she is giving you she doesnt like you? is it because she avoids you kissing her? if so a good explanation is she wants to take it slowly, and let the physical relationship start forming once you have a closer bond

if you like her, talk to her / hang out with her, read her body language as signals when you should be making moves to kiss her esp if you are feeling things are getting romantic

playing games in relationships is just a shit thing to do imho, and giving her distance at this stage in a relationship could be a poor idea, "to see how she reacts" is toying with someones emotions, you can always ask her if she likes you...

 

[hooternuts]

Well, sometimes she'll act like we're just friends and the other day she'll be all cuddly. I only tried to kiss her when we were cuddling, one night we had been cuddling all day and we were going out and I held her hand and she just pulled back, I don't think it's that she embarrassed cause she's had no problems holding my hand before in public. I'm guessing I must've pissed her off in some way that night but as you know girls will never admit if they're mad at you for something.

 

[pofacedhoe]

do you have bad oral hygiene? i know it sounds weird but sometimes when i'm trying to avoid a kiss its linked to that

 

[hooternuts]

do you have bad oral hygiene? i know it sounds weird but sometimes when i'm trying to avoid a kiss its linked to that

Not really, it's not like she instantly pulls back her head, she lets me kiss her lips but she doesn't do anything in response so to say. She's usually the one with her hands all over me too so I don't know it just seems so weird.

 

['medicine cabinet']

gotta keep fresh on the breath tip. brush floss and tongue scraper. those things and you dont need to chew mints or use any of that cover up stuff (unless you smoke, cigs or otherwise) something about smoke makes saliva taste weird.

also, i dont think the fact that you banged it out with her best friend is a detriment, its probably going to help you in the long run. she could be curious what you have going on, esp if the friend said you were good in bed. sounds like shes game but doesnt want to commit just yet. give it time and i think you will get a definitive answer.