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Do straight women find feminine/bisexual men attractive?

ChipTrippyFox

ChipTrippyFox

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The title pretty much says it all. At what point does a man appear "too girly" or "too gay" for the taste of the average straight female?

I would appreciate opinions from everyone of course.
 
Some do, and some don't.

The ones I know that do are into emo-type guys, or androgynous men.

I know bisexual women who are really into the type of men you described; but these women are not straight/hetero.
 
Guess it depends a bit on what constitutes girly or gay.
I'm a hetro female, no promises on being normal though.

I definitely want my man to be a man, but one thing I definitely don't want is someone insecure in their manhood and feels the need to prove it. Nothing wrong with being sensitive. To me, there's nothing manly about a male who's trying to make up for their insecurity in their masculinity like some assholes. Speaking for myself, I'm not sure what would qualify as too gay or girly. I guess if there were any girlier than me, that would be the cutoff. And I'm not very girly.
 
I'm bisexual and I like male sexual partners to be "manly". If I wanted feminine I'd hook up with a girl.
However that's just my opinion, I'm sure that some ladies are attracted to those traits and I definitely agree RE the emo/goth scene.
 
And by "manly" I don't mean insensitive and devoid of feelings, I just mean appearance wise I'm not sexually attracted to men who look/act feminine.
I have male friends (both gay and straight) who are rather feminine and I wouldn't ever sleep with them but that doesn't change the friendship or my opinion of them at all.
 
Saying that tho Russell Brand is very gay looking and girly acting yet he supposedly gets loads of women
 
I don't see why they couldn't.

I'm straight and my partner is a bit "stereotypically feminine". He cares about how he looks, things like that. Sometimes we will go out to parties and people will think he's gay. Whatever. It doesn't bother him or me. He's comfortable with who he is and I love who he is.
My ex was pretty masculine, he liked hockey and hunting and stuff like that (sooooo not what my partner likes lol or what I like).
It depends on the person I guess.
 
Oh goodness I forgot I started this thread >.>

The reason I was asking was because I've recently left my long term partner of 7 years. She has been my only sexual partner (aside from 2 separate men who I was involved with very briefly) and I want to explore my sexuality further. I worry that I will not be considered attractive by most females if I am too outgoingly girly (I am biologically male, gender fluid/androgynous and pansexual.) For instance I like to wear form fitting women's pants and pretty panties. They show off my hips/bum and I like it.. But is that really something that (straight)women are into? I also worry that even if I were to play more on my masculine side, would some be turned off/scared away by my occasional tenancy to cross dress?
 
just do you.

if someone doesn't love all of you for who you are, then you can find another person who you won't have to repress any part of your self with.

straight woman is a pretty limiting concept considering the spectrum of human sexuality, in the right scenes (progressive/alternative) there will be a larger amount of people who are open to different kinks.
 
You know, you've really just got to....be you.

Some straight women will dig it, some will not.

I tend to hang out in the kink scene, and there are a lot of straight women in kink who are all about more effeminate men, men who crossdress, men who like to play with their sexuality and gender and presentation. By and large, what you're going to find is that straight women who are into crossdressing men identify as Dominant, in the BDSM sense.
 
Personally I would preffer to be with a switch/ slightly dominant person anyways but I've already been through the whole mistress - pet scene. . And i was abused within it.
I just don't want to be that man that every girl says is a good catch but never cares to try and get me.
 
Mysterie said:
just do you.

if someone doesn't love all of you for who you are, then you can find another person who you won't have to repress any part of your self with.

straight woman is a pretty limiting concept considering the spectrum of human sexuality, in the right scenes (progressive/alternative) there will be a larger amount of people who are open to different kinks.
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Exactly!

After all, love is all about acceptance imo/e.
 
But of course! I want to be me, but I also wish to know what to expect in my near future when I start seeking intimacy
 
Im a bi guy and tho not hardly feminine, most "straight" women I've met have a huge (deal breaking) problem with bisexuality in general, as far as an intimate basis goes. There are some MAJOR misconceptions out there
 
ChipTrippyFox said:
Oh goodness I forgot I started this thread >.>

The reason I was asking was because I've recently left my long term partner of 7 years. She has been my only sexual partner (aside from 2 separate men who I was involved with very briefly) and I want to explore my sexuality further. I worry that I will not be considered attractive by most females if I am too outgoingly girly (I am biologically male, gender fluid/androgynous and pansexual.) For instance I like to wear form fitting women's pants and pretty panties. They show off my hips/bum and I like it.. But is that really something that (straight)women are into? I also worry that even if I were to play more on my masculine side, would some be turned off/scared away by my occasional tenancy to cross dress?
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That entire last sentence... Ya know, you'll find somebody. :) I'm sure of it.
 
ChipTrippyFox said:
What about it..? :l

I'm not sure what you're implying ^^;

Kidamine; can you elaborate? What experiences have lead you to believe that straight women do not like bisexual men?
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LIKE them, sure. Women are more accepting of it than men by a huge margin. DATE them, different story. Most women, whether they admit it or not, fear losing their guy to another woman, see them as threats, so hanging around other women (as a guy in a straight relationship) aint happening. Now, being bi, add in men too, and you will find yourself friendless or at odds with your woman fairly quickly.

The worst misconceptions about being bi ive encountered are that we are promiscuous, and will fuck anyone. Spend too much time over at a buddie's house? You're OBVIOUSLY fucking him. Late from work? You stopped and fucked someone. Talk too much on the phone or are on the computer too much? you're planning to fuck someone. Ive heard all of those before. the shit never ends with insecurities, and Ive seen it from straight women and gay men who knew from the getgo I was bi.

"The world is your oyster" lol, I heard that dumb ass shit so much when I came out. Truth is, it's at least twice as hard to find someone, probably more like 10-50x as hard.

A completely straight woman is going to want a straight man. At this point, for me, finding a woman that likes to dominate once in a while, or enjoys role reversal, would be about as ideal a partner as I could hope. I like tits and pussy too much to be solely with a man for any amount of time unless it was an open relationship
 
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