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Do hardcore narcotics ruin your love-life?

mike.vick

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I know that dopamine inhibits prolactin and, I think oxytocin, which are bonding/ love chemicals. AND every time I quit heroin I get really into women again, and I am 23y.o. and heroin just becomes your lover in a smeagol-type way. I have been off dope for 19 days and have really been getting into this women in one of my classes in college - and I really think if I don't do dope, that I could date her - BUT if I go back to doing dope, I'll just date heroin like a fucking-loser.

Have hardcore narcotics inhibited your love-life? So far I've been with no lovers, just a couple horrific, unmentionable one-night fucks. I think I would quit dope for love. I really think so.
 
I know that dopamine inhibits prolactin and, I think oxytocin, which are bonding/ love chemicals. AND every time I quit heroin I get really into women again, and I am 23y.o. and heroin just becomes your lover in a smeagol-type way. I have been off dope for 19 days and have really been getting into this women in one of my classes in college - and I really think if I don't do dope, that I could date her - BUT if I go back to doing dope, I'll just date heroin like a fucking-loser.

Have hardcore narcotics inhibited your love-life? So far I've been with no lovers, just a couple horrific, unmentionable one-night fucks. I think I would quit dope for love. I really think so.
I found that heroin never affected my libido, only my ability to have sex while high. Me and my girl have both used so it doesn't affect our relationship when one of us decides to do something (in fact we occasionally do things together). We both go through periods of heavy use and light/no use so...maybe i have a rare thing going on but no, narcotics don't affect my relationship. We understand and are supportive regardless of our choices.
 
I know it's not affecting so much the ability to make perform, but I'm referring to the ability & drive to initial connect with someone to start a relationship. Maybe kratom or tramadol or something lighter wouldn't be so effecting, but I could do no opiates for love.
 
destroyed it all for me. had no desire to fuck, no desire to love, no desire to care, no ability to fuck, love, or care either. ruined every relationship i ever attempted.
 
Man, I've heard that it's great having a root while you're on harry, but dude, it does ruin your love life. I was in a 2 and a half year relationship and about a year into it, I got my boyfriend on the morph and all that. We were good for a while. And then it starts becoming a daily routine that you BOTH have to put effort into so you can score, you BOTH have to halves and share. You BOTH have to control anger, etc.
But, like you said, harry becomes your lover haha, I can totally get you there. Even whilst I was loving someone else, I'd have given it all up for a fat shot of my actual husband, Heroin Harry.

So yeah, mang. I think that you should just suck it up, stay the fuck clean and focus on what's in front of you. If you decide to not divorce Harry, then go back to it and DON'T bring anyone else into it because you're on a roller coaster of living day by day for a shot, wild about shit and once you decide that you've had enough, they might feel differently.
 
Yeah I think your right. Opiates probably fuck with testosterone too, cause after I kick- I feel like bull, I could fuck cows
 
It kinda did for me. As the relationship got old I realized that the best sex I was having with the women I loved was mainly only on opiates. I could last longer, more pleasure, less talking and she would shut the hell up. Ive had a lot of friends who lost their love due to introducing drugs, or meeting their partner on drugs and only enjoying things when they were high together.

With me, as time went on I couldn't last as long as I used to due to being somewhat bored with her. Whenever we would take pills I would last a long time and everything was just more fun. I found myself on the hunt for drugs just to make the sex better and also so I could last longer. Well, that got old real fast. I broke up with her a few weeks ago but she has no idea part of the reason was because she turned me on to those drugs and I didn't enjoy her company as much when I was sober.
 
Man, long term opiate abuse on male testosterone is so damn frustrating. On the drugs I am pretty much asexual. Off the drugs I'm like a horny 16 year old boy hitting puberty (in my late 20's haha). I hear it is very common but people don't like discussing it. Drives me fucking bananas. I hear it takes about 3 months to normalize and the more practice you get the better. For fucks sake... it is really common with men and opiate abuse. It frustrates me so much that I was considering seeking out some gym rats for testosterone but I heard that's a really bad idea.
 
I can't fuck on heroin or.any opiates, all this dope dick people talk to seem to.be exaggerating. The most.I can get is a half hard dick, and.when having sex, my cockhead feels like it's getting.a.brushburn, which eventually makes.my dick go soft. if opiates numb people mentally anf.physically, then why would sex be enjoyable?
 
Ive found pst to be an incredible libido enhancer so long as that it's the only opiate you take.

Methadone mind as well have been a chemical castration ime
 
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