notahappycamper123
Greenlighter
im new to bluelight and was just wondering if some of you ...men in particular can share their experience with benzos and low libido?
yeah it can mess with it i take a low dose at times and there was plenty of times not where i couldnt get it up more like i couldnt finish
not a bad thing for the female haha
i went like an hour once and nothing
YMMV
now SSRIs on the other hand
very little to zero libido go hand and hand
i was on prozac killed my libidoNot ALWAYS though.
Sometimes.
i was on prozac killed my libido
was on buspar killed my libido
lexapro i would get turned on at the most awkward times and say i did get lucky at a good time i could never finish
or it would take hrs for me to stand at attention hardly did i ever fantasize either
ssri's suppresses thoughts thats what they are designed for
for people with anxiety depression etc so they dont have that racing minds, crazy thoughts and even naughty ones
idk thats my take on it
but for the original question the benzos can be causing it maybe not if he is in his late 40's that can be an issue also
or maybe without sounding like a douche maybe there is some underlying issues
for a long time while i was with my ex after all the crap she put me through i would very well avoid sexual situations
Lexapro doesn't kill my libido.
And honestly, I don't think what SSRIs TECHNICALLY do is just "suppress thoughts".
They can lessen depression and/or anxiety but you don't "think less" on them.
For many they do decrease libido, but not everyone.