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Dirty Sex Questions/Philosophy

lovegluegunnin

lovegluegunnin

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So, when I have sex, I almost always turn it into something dirty, or kinky and rough. It's the only thing that gets me off. Do any of you think this could be caused by something that's happened to me, or something that I may have developed because of seeing it in porn that really turns me on?


Do you think that women who like calling men "daddy" have issues? Does it turn you on? Do you think it's a deep-rooted security issue?
 
You absolutely have to have super hot n sweaty kinky wall to wall action to get off?

Ohhhhhh nooooooo

That's terrible

I'm sure the Mr just hates it ;)


I wouldn't stress! We all know that in the large scale of porn from soft to hardcore, let's a loooooot of fetishes that were questionable but are now less 'devilish' in the last 30 years, hot dirty porn is just terrific.

About the Mr & Daddy.... Tbh maybe? But as a normal euro/Anglo Aussie I can't say this is at the top of my fantasy list.

Happens a bit in American pornos but I thought that was more a mix of the hooker with the daddy issues needing to please and not the other way around...


Well now you know something!
 
afterlyfestyle said:
You absolutely have to have super hot n sweaty kinky wall to wall action to get off?

Ohhhhhh nooooooo

That's terrible

I'm sure the Mr just hates it ;)


I wouldn't stress! We all know that in the large scale of porn from soft to hardcore, let's a loooooot of fetishes that were questionable but are now less 'devilish' in the last 30 years, hot dirty porn is just terrific.

About the Mr & Daddy.... Tbh maybe? But as a normal euro/Anglo Aussie I can't say this is at the top of my fantasy list.

Happens a bit in American pornos but I thought that was more a mix of the hooker with the daddy issues needing to please and not the other way around...


Well now you know something!
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I really hope others reply to my thread because I can't tell whether or not you just compared me to a hooker or you were making a joke or both LOL

but I agree. dirty sex isn't really that much of an issue, I was just wondering if the constant need for it when in bed with someone is an issue or is usually caused by something.

I will admit that I struggle with manic depression and self-esteem issues.
 
Making a joke I can't laugh at others because they have so much more to laugh at me for Hahahaha.

It's just what revs your engine! We all have something that revs our engine, guys well let's be honest we can make a porno out of a rose bush, an egg carton and two dozen skittles and macguyver that into a porno somehow so we will get excited over anything!!


There's nothing wrong with the 'Daddy' thing, can I ask are you in the USA? There's very few Aussie porn sites that don't give viruses so most men have to get their product from the US (lol), most of these pornos there will be a girl that lost her shoe/lost her bra/lost her purse & needs help from the shoeman/retail attendant/pizza delivery guy and this misguided clumsy young woman who has just been taken advantage off will mention 'DAddy' like with that A syllable all high pitched and the only reaction is 'that's hot'.

Hopefully this explanation gives a bit of insight as to why I said that, otherwise it just look like I'm the biggest fucking pervert that studies pornos all day.

Fuck my life hahahahahahahaha
 
I'm a lot like men in that way, it doesn't take very much to turn me on, and once I get turned on I can't stop.

LMAO, I know what you're talking about. That's why I usually skip the first 15 minutes of any given full-length porn video, to get past the plot to get to the beginnings of the actual sex. American men are typically pigs in my experience. That's probably universal, but they're like, a special kind of disgusting over here lol. I'm not surprised that you noticed that.


also, it's cool that you're not the biggest fucking perv that studies pornos all day, but I can honestly say that I'm probably one of the most perverted women you'll meet. SORRY NOT SORRY BOUT IT
 
There needs to be more passion in American pornos IMO, although yeah biologically we all love to fuck which I get that, I'm not looking for rose petals on the bed but fuck me I want some enjoyment not seeing neck-down of a naked man just slapping a woman for the fuck of it, especially when you tell the male actors are on meth All the fucking time it just takes away all libido.

I don't stare at dicks, but you notice the actress is having a shit one too then it's all downhill from there and it feels like it's I'M the one with the dick up the ass.

Earth needs more Aussie porn.
 
I agree. I don't know if you know about Pornhub or not, but they have a category on their website called "Women Friendly" that usually contains the more passionate stuff, and there's this one type of videos out there called Passion-HD where it's more like making love instead of fucking, but it's still got some good fucking-type vibes as well.

LMAO, I know what you mean. It's gotten to the point where when I see a dick go in their asshole, I automatically exit out and find a different video. I was scared to try anal sex for the longest time because of the way porn portrays it.
 
I like pornhub but the day I click on 'Women-friendly' porn I may just have to shave my legs and cut my 'self integrity' apart

The problem is feeling that I would want to run this, act this, produce this hell even edit and camera man that shit but I can't!
 
I've made my own porn with my boyfriend before, it was such a turn on and totally fun. lol

He's like, "Have you done this before???"

Anyone can do it, it's just a matter of what quality of porn we're talking
 
I used to fuck one chick that would call me daddy a lot. She usually did it when she wanted something or during sex.

She did have an asshole for a father and they had a bad relationship. When I met him he was unloading his car and I asked him if I could help him. He replied by saying "you can help me by taking by taking her, where ever the fuck your taking her now" and kinda nodded his head in her direction. So he was like yeah just get the fuck out of here with her.

I think a lot of times women call guys daddy and shit like that is because they think it turns dudes on or they see it in on the tele or in films. But ones that over do it on some things usually have some underlying issues.

On the topic of kinky I knew this one gal that preferred anal.

She also lactated and good shoot the milk. I found it disgusting and only found out after dating her for some time. (the lactating) She would pull out her titties and shoot some milk. It was a complete turn off. One time I was just sitting there and that shit ended up in my mouth. I discussed it with a friend and he told me he was totally into lactating and I asked him if he wanted to buy her off me.

I fucked this one chick in the ass and afterwards she reached under her bed and pulled out this strap on and offered to do me with it. I politely declined but she sure tried to sell me on it, telling me how great of an orgasm it could give me. As if I was repulsed enough by being ass pounded with a big black plastic cock, she told me just how many men she fucked up the ass with that thing. Plastic is a porous material and well holy venereal disease batman. That wasn't gonna happen.

I think everyone has their own things when it comes to sex.
 
"HAVE YOU DONE THIS BEFORE" RIP THIS MAN WORST WORDS TO POSSIBLY SAY HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA 5/5 THAT IS MAN-THINKING

You're right they are fun to make :D I think I need to get a grip....

Not in mental terms, the actual profession, grip, the person in the movies that makes the train tracks for the camera to flow? Isn't that it?

I really want to get flowing camerawork that POV won't do, even with storyboards & a script I feel that I may just have to make this porno all by myself.

Heh heh heh... That sounds seedy...
 
dopemaster said:
I used to fuck one chick that would call me daddy a lot. She usually did it when she wanted something or during sex.

She did have an asshole for a father and they had a bad relationship. When I met him he was unloading his car and I asked him if I could help him. He replied by saying "you can help me by taking by taking her, where ever the fuck your taking her now" and kinda nodded his head in her direction. So he was like yeah just get the fuck out of here with her.

I think a lot of times women call guys daddy and shit like that is because they think it turns dudes on or they see it in on the tele or in films. But ones that over do it on some things usually have some underlying issues.

On the topic of kinky I knew this one gal that preferred anal.

She also lactated and good shoot the milk. I found it disgusting and only found out after dating her for some time. (the lactating) She would pull out her titties and shoot some milk. It was a complete turn off. One time I was just sitting there and that shit ended up in my mouth. I discussed it with a friend and he told me he was totally into lactating and I asked him if he wanted to buy her off me.

I fucked this one chick in the ass and afterwards she reached under her bed and pulled out this strap on and offered to do me with it. I politely declined but she sure tried to sell me on it, telling me how great of an orgasm it could give me. As if I was repulsed enough by being ass pounded with a big black plastic cock, she told me just how many men she fucked up the ass with that thing. Plastic is a porous material and well holy venereal disease batman. That wasn't gonna happen.

I think everyone has their own things when it comes to sex.
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Lol, I laughed so hard at the entirety of your post. In a good way.

I only say daddy once in a blue moon when I want my man to take control, when I'm really into it and I want him to act as though he owns my body. It's what I'm into, what can I say. However, I can't say that I would actually WANT to fuck a man up the ass lmao. I wouldn't even do it if he asked me to, no matter how much I loved him or how long I was with him.

As for the lactating, I have 3 words for you; Bitches Be Crazy.
 
Using "daddy" or "sir" or "mr" is, IMO, just another form of submitting/giving over control. I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
You like what you like. I can't even imagine not having specific interests. Sex would be so boring.
 
dopemaster said:
On the topic of kinky I knew this one gal that preferred anal.

She also lactated and good shoot the milk. I found it disgusting and only found out after dating her for some time. (the lactating) She would pull out her titties and shoot some milk. It was a complete turn off. One time I was just sitting there and that shit ended up in my mouth. I discussed it with a friend and he told me he was totally into lactating and I asked him if he wanted to buy her off me.
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selling your lactating girlfriend? wtf....
 
^
Well since he had a fetish for it. He always would go on about how he liked lactating and lactation porno.

It was more of a joke but I would have taken the money fo sho.

She had an abortion. It was before I started fucking her. (not my seed) So I guess since she kept squeezing her tits, milk never stopped coming out. Kinda weird since though since I had always thought women started lactating after giving birth, so I guess the abortion did it. I think she did it cuz it made her tits bigger. I dunno. She did have some issues. A lot of issues.
 
lovegluegunnin said:
So, when I have sex, I almost always turn it into something dirty, or kinky and rough. It's the only thing that gets me off. Do any of you think this could be caused by something that's happened to me, or something that I may have developed because of seeing it in porn that really turns me on?


Do you think that women who like calling men "daddy" have issues? Does it turn you on? Do you think it's a deep-rooted security issue?
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Sex and dirty do not belong in the same sentence, unless you say something like "life is dirty without sex". That I agree. Sister, the is no security issue, the issue is with other people and their perception.
 
Ksa said:
Sex and dirty do not belong in the same sentence, unless you say something like "life is dirty without sex". That I agree. Sister, the is no security issue, the issue is with other people and their perception.
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Wow. As open minded as I am I never thought of it that way. Thanks for the insight. (:
 
I've asked the same question to be honest...

I can't get into anything but wild, kinky, nasty sex... Vanilla sex is a huge turn off for me. If I actually went with my sex cravings, I would have gotten myself into some very bad situations by now I'm sure. Hell I've actually been lucky that my random Craigslist hook ups didn't result in me getting myself in a really bad situation. Came close once but I managed to get myself out of it and far far away.

Maybe its genetic? My mother is a freak... I mean who leaves their swing hanging with their kids running around much less just leaving it out so that their mother will freak out and go home?!

All I know is that I have to hold back my sexual urges. Its gotten to the point that I don't even bother jacking off anymore because when I do, my imagination runs to some really fucking sick and twisted places and that's the only way I can get off.
 
Yeah. My mom is def a freak lol. I inherited squirting from her. Not only that but I've heard her having sex and its not normal sex to say the least. I let my freak flag fly. If my partner can't deal with my needs then adios.
 
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