smiles1983
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I recently found shemale, tranny gay etc porn n escort websites on my husbands phone. Is there anything I can do to satisfy his needs myself
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desperate wife
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theacidtest
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I wouldn't be too terribly concerned as long as he's still showing sexual interest in you. He might be bisexual, it could also just be something that's purely in the realm of fantasy for him with no real desire to act on it in real life.
Maybe try bringing up the subject in a non threatening way that doesn't let him know that you're already aware of his interests. Perhaps he'd enjoy exploring pegging or female domination with you and that could help satisfy some of his interests.
A lot of guys watch all kinds of weird porn, but it doesn't always mean that they're going to cheat on or leave their wife.
Maybe try bringing up the subject in a non threatening way that doesn't let him know that you're already aware of his interests. Perhaps he'd enjoy exploring pegging or female domination with you and that could help satisfy some of his interests.
A lot of guys watch all kinds of weird porn, but it doesn't always mean that they're going to cheat on or leave their wife.
Please do not post the same question in multiple threads.
Could be pure fantasy on his behalf? Just because he is watching porn (any porn) does not automatically mean he is cheating on your OR that he desires the type of porn he is watching.
Porn, dating sites etc can be a form of escapism, something out of the normal.
If he is watching gay / tran / shemale porn - you as a woman probably cannot satisfy that fantasy.
Could be pure fantasy on his behalf? Just because he is watching porn (any porn) does not automatically mean he is cheating on your OR that he desires the type of porn he is watching.
Porn, dating sites etc can be a form of escapism, something out of the normal.
If he is watching gay / tran / shemale porn - you as a woman probably cannot satisfy that fantasy.
cengsuz
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Dear desperate wife,
I wish there was some way I can tell you not to take it personally when your husband watches porn. But you are his wife who feels that it is her duty to satisfy him and now you've found evidence that he has other means to do it.
Guys will be guys. If the way he relates to you hadn't changed, if he is still showing affection, attraction to you then it shouldn't worry you.
Just a thought: how do you know he hasn't always been looking at this stuff even before you were together and that's just his thing? At the same time, you are all that is normal, sexy, loving in his life.
I wish there was some way I can tell you not to take it personally when your husband watches porn. But you are his wife who feels that it is her duty to satisfy him and now you've found evidence that he has other means to do it.
Guys will be guys. If the way he relates to you hadn't changed, if he is still showing affection, attraction to you then it shouldn't worry you.
Just a thought: how do you know he hasn't always been looking at this stuff even before you were together and that's just his thing? At the same time, you are all that is normal, sexy, loving in his life.