cum so fast after being on opiates for years

[iovenikkiandope]

I am a 22 year male and have been on opiates for a year and a half. I am also in a 2 year relationship. The first 6 months it was normal sex sometimes one of us

would cum earlier than the other than finish the other off by giving head or wutever. All positions were sexy. It could be for 3 minutes 10 minutes or wutever

some average time for sex is after some fore play. Once we started doing opiates me and my girl could fuck forever and sometimes cum or sometimes not come.

But having sex still feels amazing for an hour or 2 even if u cant finish. The second both of us came off opiates and had sex i think we both came in like 5

seconds the second i entered her lol. Shes real tight 5'2 tightest pussy ever, and i just turn her on a whole lot. We have been off opiates for a 2 weeks and still

we are coming very very fast. She sometimes just has to sit on it and go extrellyyyy slow because with a pump or 2 we both bust. That is how much we turn

each other on. When we were on opiates tho we could do all different positions for how ever long as possible. We cant even do any positions because we

would just come to fast. Its like we are 13 again having sex for the 1st time. How long does it take to get back to the point where it is a "normal" sex time if

u know what i mean. Has anyone dealt like this. Is sex ever the same again. WE both care so much about each other and rather the other one cum than

ourselves. We enjoy cumming at the same time too. But idk what is hope so just venting if anyone has anything to share wud be appreciated

 

[Alex000]

This is a very normal effect of opiate wd's, and while you have been off them for two weeks, lingering effects of wd are normal even if they are not that noticeable. I cannot say how long it will take for this to resolve itself, but I can say that it should. It will not be permanent, and sex with normal orgasm should return. It won't be like sex on opiates, of course, but more like sex before opiates. A good period of your relationship you were having sex while on opiates, so even when it reverts to normal you may feel somewhat dissapointed or not fully realize, but you both can adjust to a more normal sexual routine where orgasm can be achieved in a healthy and enjoyable period of time. I would suggest you just keep having sex regularly, and not worry about "lasting too long", because that may make you orgasm even quicker than you would have. In short, don't worry about it, it will resolve itself.

 

[tricomb]

^ I agree. best of luck to you bro, it looks like I'm stuck on the opiate train so I'm left with the opposite "problem" which as you described perfectly, is not so much of a problem even after many hours going at it. Most times I can still achieve ejaculation after satisfying my partner to my/her satisfaction, and when I cannot, I am not going to stop her from doing her best to make me cum via oral sex If I cum, I cum, if not, well, I can think of a few times when I left my partner unsatisfied, it's only fair. It's when you try to force these things, to cum too soon, or not in time, that problems arise.

 

[jackie jones]

As long as your girl knows that you care about how she feels and are not just trying to get your nut off, you will have no problem. You have to learn about yourself again. It will just be a matter of time before you are back to your normal self.