Itsgoneundertheboa
Bluelighter
I'm totally lost as to why that thread was closed? Some guy comes on opens up a post about crime fantasy. He's put in his place. He admits to being silly, he admits to being lonely and needing help.
We welcome him in in BL tradition and involve him in BL banter. Did anyone think that maybe that is actually what that thread creation was about and just for a few hours this poor guy suffering and lonely finally connected to other people and felt a part of something?
That was my intention to continue the thread and change it into light hearted.
Or am I missing something? We can't talk about celebrities and how we feel about them? We can't discuss being kids with sexual needs and desires? What did we do wrong?
Then Consumer in another thread gets told to stop being repetitive, not for the first time tbh. But surely that's up to him to decide?
I'd of thought that crime thread shows very clearly the ethos and community of BL? All are welcome?
I even followed advice re social and posting and gave it a go! Let's face facts if this place had less forums it would need less Mods. Is that the thought process? Mods are tired and fed up with having to keep watch. If so come out and say it. We can all see it's a thankless task we would all be able to see such a case clearly.
Better to say why you close rather than some airy fairy better than thou closure notice? Come on give us the reason! Otherwise we will all put 2 + 2 = 5.
FYI someone might want to take a look at the pillreports site. Lots of sourcing posts but they run for weeks.
We welcome him in in BL tradition and involve him in BL banter. Did anyone think that maybe that is actually what that thread creation was about and just for a few hours this poor guy suffering and lonely finally connected to other people and felt a part of something?
That was my intention to continue the thread and change it into light hearted.
Or am I missing something? We can't talk about celebrities and how we feel about them? We can't discuss being kids with sexual needs and desires? What did we do wrong?
Then Consumer in another thread gets told to stop being repetitive, not for the first time tbh. But surely that's up to him to decide?
I'd of thought that crime thread shows very clearly the ethos and community of BL? All are welcome?
I even followed advice re social and posting and gave it a go! Let's face facts if this place had less forums it would need less Mods. Is that the thought process? Mods are tired and fed up with having to keep watch. If so come out and say it. We can all see it's a thankless task we would all be able to see such a case clearly.
Better to say why you close rather than some airy fairy better than thou closure notice? Come on give us the reason! Otherwise we will all put 2 + 2 = 5.
FYI someone might want to take a look at the pillreports site. Lots of sourcing posts but they run for weeks.