fantasyaddict
Greenlighter
- Joined
- Feb 7, 2012
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I am an addict that feels completely alone and lost. I don't really even know where to start.
I've been on various prescription drugs over the past 5 years and in the fall of 2010, my life began to get a bit out of control. I have generalized anxiety disorder, ADHD, panic disorder and insomnia. I have so many addictions and impulses that I worry I will never be able to function normally as I have relied on substance abuse since my early teens in order to cope with things. I was on Adderall for many years and then the tolerance thing happened as it always does when I feel I have found a magic "fix". The stimulants have been disintegrating my body the most out of all that I use but I've found it hard to feel like a functional, productive person without them. I'm scatter brained and feel like a complete zombie even when I've taken a long break.
September of 2010, I got a DUI and had my license taken away. I was in denial about the entire situation and continued to drink despite the fact that I could not drink like a normal person (I have a history of alcoholism in my family). I would get extremely wired during the day and then at night, I felt like I NEEDED a drink because I had so much crazy stuff going on in my life. The past year or so, I've had too many black outs to count. I've come to terms with the fact that I am basically a binge alcoholic and can not touch drinks. In December of the same year, I was prescribed Xanax so that I could cope with the stress from my legal problems but I managed to put myself in a benzo black out one night. I don't remember anything, but I guess I woke up the next morning and decided to get dressed and go to work. I ended up crashing my car as I was trying to park and I remember acting completely erratic and leaving after getting the contact info of the car I damaged, which happened to be that of a coworker's. I don't remember driving home or any of the rest of that day. The next day I abruptly quit my job.
Since then I have been unemployed and without a license. I've lost almost all of the friends I had (which may be a blessing in disguise as they weren't the best people) through walking out of events when I become too intoxicated and feeling like everyone is against me/ignoring me. I have essentially become a hermit aside from a very select few people. Recently I was put on benzos again because things are getting crazy at home, in the abusive environment that I live in. I have panic attacks every night where I feel as though I'm going to go into cardiac arrest. I get swept by feelings of terror, loneliness, helplessness, paranoia and a sense of impending doom. My relationship with my mother who I live with and her brute of a husband is just awful. Completely verbally abusive. I feel like an animal in a cage in this type of environment and I have no near by relatives to help me, as I am a child of European immigrants. All of my family is on another continent and when I skype with them, they just act like something is terribly wrong with me rather than offer some sympathy. I can't reach out to my own father either because he's an alcoholic and his life is more dark than mine is. I have nobody but people who roll their eyes at my desperation or give me advice that doesn't work.
I've dealt with this extreme night time panic disorder and insomnia by taking as many Percocets or Norcos (whatever opiates I can get my hands on) and mixing them with benzodiazepines at night, which I take in excess and buy more of when I'm out of my prescription early. I know this is bad, but at least I am not on alcohol. My anxiety and panic attacks is so debilitating that I can't be in this house without having a complete meltdown and feeling like my body is going to give out. I've been to a few Narcotics Anonymous meetings but I haven't found the right one. The last one I went to actually made me downright uncomfortable because the men in the group were acting like it was a sports event or something and screaming "KEEP COMING BACK!" in exaggerated manly tones, like they were on steroids or something. Ones I have been to before, I have been approached by NA nazis afterwards who are aggressive and condescending to me. I just don't know what to do. I need some kind of help, or just some encouraging words to let me know that I am not completely insane and alone on this path to doom. I'm a complete mess. I stay silent about these issues to the majority of people.
I've been on various prescription drugs over the past 5 years and in the fall of 2010, my life began to get a bit out of control. I have generalized anxiety disorder, ADHD, panic disorder and insomnia. I have so many addictions and impulses that I worry I will never be able to function normally as I have relied on substance abuse since my early teens in order to cope with things. I was on Adderall for many years and then the tolerance thing happened as it always does when I feel I have found a magic "fix". The stimulants have been disintegrating my body the most out of all that I use but I've found it hard to feel like a functional, productive person without them. I'm scatter brained and feel like a complete zombie even when I've taken a long break.
September of 2010, I got a DUI and had my license taken away. I was in denial about the entire situation and continued to drink despite the fact that I could not drink like a normal person (I have a history of alcoholism in my family). I would get extremely wired during the day and then at night, I felt like I NEEDED a drink because I had so much crazy stuff going on in my life. The past year or so, I've had too many black outs to count. I've come to terms with the fact that I am basically a binge alcoholic and can not touch drinks. In December of the same year, I was prescribed Xanax so that I could cope with the stress from my legal problems but I managed to put myself in a benzo black out one night. I don't remember anything, but I guess I woke up the next morning and decided to get dressed and go to work. I ended up crashing my car as I was trying to park and I remember acting completely erratic and leaving after getting the contact info of the car I damaged, which happened to be that of a coworker's. I don't remember driving home or any of the rest of that day. The next day I abruptly quit my job.
Since then I have been unemployed and without a license. I've lost almost all of the friends I had (which may be a blessing in disguise as they weren't the best people) through walking out of events when I become too intoxicated and feeling like everyone is against me/ignoring me. I have essentially become a hermit aside from a very select few people. Recently I was put on benzos again because things are getting crazy at home, in the abusive environment that I live in. I have panic attacks every night where I feel as though I'm going to go into cardiac arrest. I get swept by feelings of terror, loneliness, helplessness, paranoia and a sense of impending doom. My relationship with my mother who I live with and her brute of a husband is just awful. Completely verbally abusive. I feel like an animal in a cage in this type of environment and I have no near by relatives to help me, as I am a child of European immigrants. All of my family is on another continent and when I skype with them, they just act like something is terribly wrong with me rather than offer some sympathy. I can't reach out to my own father either because he's an alcoholic and his life is more dark than mine is. I have nobody but people who roll their eyes at my desperation or give me advice that doesn't work.
I've dealt with this extreme night time panic disorder and insomnia by taking as many Percocets or Norcos (whatever opiates I can get my hands on) and mixing them with benzodiazepines at night, which I take in excess and buy more of when I'm out of my prescription early. I know this is bad, but at least I am not on alcohol. My anxiety and panic attacks is so debilitating that I can't be in this house without having a complete meltdown and feeling like my body is going to give out. I've been to a few Narcotics Anonymous meetings but I haven't found the right one. The last one I went to actually made me downright uncomfortable because the men in the group were acting like it was a sports event or something and screaming "KEEP COMING BACK!" in exaggerated manly tones, like they were on steroids or something. Ones I have been to before, I have been approached by NA nazis afterwards who are aggressive and condescending to me. I just don't know what to do. I need some kind of help, or just some encouraging words to let me know that I am not completely insane and alone on this path to doom. I'm a complete mess. I stay silent about these issues to the majority of people.