Need Help!!!!! Please!!!!
well, where do I start? 2 years ago, me and my ex of just about 3-4 years and knowing each other for like 5 or 6 years broke up. when we broke up I was depressed, didn't know what to do, I was just a mess. didn't want to eat, hang with friends, nothing! well as time went on, I thought I got over it. I started talking to another women, been "together" since, and I put it in quotations because its more of a dependency with each other rather than a relationship. these past couple of weeks, just constantly thought about my ex, including dreams and all that other stuff. so I figured it would be in my best interest to write her a letter expressing my feelings and thoughts on the break up and our relationship. it was around 6 pages long, and I told her in there that I really needed to be set free and to move on blah blah, but I also said I did not want her to respond back to me nor anything of that nature. well, she did. after I texted her and told her that the letter was in the mailbox, I told her not to reply and just leave it how it is. well, again she responded. she texted me back, and said "I like your letter....." with those exact dots and everything. obviously as you can guess, I texted back and said thank you blah blah. so we started talking, she explained what she had to, and I did the same. we talked about our dogs, and she said she wanted a picture of mine, so I said the same. well after all of that, I somehow gave in and said, I would do anything to just have another chance, and I don't think I could ever love another girl like you blah blah have a nice day bye. so she says okay, and she called me my nickname she always called me. and then she said bye. I love this girl with my entire heart and world, and I would do anything to have her back in my arms, I never cheated, never called her names, none of that. she claimed I could of "done more" which I mean, yes I could of. but she also had her own faults and things she needed to fix. like I said, I would do anything, and I would love to have that one chance to make her fall in love with me again. I literally will not be normal until I am with her again. I get butterflies and all, I know its nothing but true love. and I'm sure she knows that. now, here is the question. I know they say just move on and find someone else, and you shouldn't waste your time on someone blah blah. but on the other hand I hear that you should fight for what you think is true love, and you should fight constantly for the one you love, especially when you know its true. I just need advice, especially female advice, men are welcomed too. tell me what you think I should do, should I try to win her heart back, or just forget about her? oh, and this relationship I'm in now, if you want to call it that, isn't working. its just getting worse and worse, and part of that is because I don't think I can show another women as much love as I did my ex. I don't know, I'm just really confused, and would love some guidance. I'm so sorry for the long post, thanks
well, where do I start? 2 years ago, me and my ex of just about 3-4 years and knowing each other for like 5 or 6 years broke up. when we broke up I was depressed, didn't know what to do, I was just a mess. didn't want to eat, hang with friends, nothing! well as time went on, I thought I got over it. I started talking to another women, been "together" since, and I put it in quotations because its more of a dependency with each other rather than a relationship. these past couple of weeks, just constantly thought about my ex, including dreams and all that other stuff. so I figured it would be in my best interest to write her a letter expressing my feelings and thoughts on the break up and our relationship. it was around 6 pages long, and I told her in there that I really needed to be set free and to move on blah blah, but I also said I did not want her to respond back to me nor anything of that nature. well, she did. after I texted her and told her that the letter was in the mailbox, I told her not to reply and just leave it how it is. well, again she responded. she texted me back, and said "I like your letter....." with those exact dots and everything. obviously as you can guess, I texted back and said thank you blah blah. so we started talking, she explained what she had to, and I did the same. we talked about our dogs, and she said she wanted a picture of mine, so I said the same. well after all of that, I somehow gave in and said, I would do anything to just have another chance, and I don't think I could ever love another girl like you blah blah have a nice day bye. so she says okay, and she called me my nickname she always called me. and then she said bye. I love this girl with my entire heart and world, and I would do anything to have her back in my arms, I never cheated, never called her names, none of that. she claimed I could of "done more" which I mean, yes I could of. but she also had her own faults and things she needed to fix. like I said, I would do anything, and I would love to have that one chance to make her fall in love with me again. I literally will not be normal until I am with her again. I get butterflies and all, I know its nothing but true love. and I'm sure she knows that. now, here is the question. I know they say just move on and find someone else, and you shouldn't waste your time on someone blah blah. but on the other hand I hear that you should fight for what you think is true love, and you should fight constantly for the one you love, especially when you know its true. I just need advice, especially female advice, men are welcomed too. tell me what you think I should do, should I try to win her heart back, or just forget about her? oh, and this relationship I'm in now, if you want to call it that, isn't working. its just getting worse and worse, and part of that is because I don't think I can show another women as much love as I did my ex. I don't know, I'm just really confused, and would love some guidance. I'm so sorry for the long post, thanks
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