I have two concerns about that kid. The first one is obviously about health. Such a young undeveloped child shouldn't take any medication daily unless he's in a life threatening situation or has some serious problems (which I think is rare tbh). What kind of sick people prescribe so many medications to a KID?? It's pretty unlikely to be psychotic or schizophrenic at that age and let's face it all 10 year olds are troublemakers! It's natural for kids to be extremely energetic that doesn't mean they have ADHD that just means that kids are just been kids and are bored at school (who could pay full attention in class as a kid?). The possibility of damage that can be caused to this pour child's undeveloped brain is high... The second thing that I'm concerned about is somewhat of an indirect danger. I think that if a kid is familiar with such drugs at such a young age it might contribute to future drug abuse.
My guess is that the parents of the child don't really know what they are giving her and just blindly trust the doctor. If I were you I would definitely talk about it with them, explaining as much as I could about what these drugs are/do and what damage they can cause. But be careful how you handle the situation because if you confront the parents the wrong way they might feel that you try to play the role of the parent and they might put themselves in defense as they feel their status as parents is being threatened, they will not listen to any of your advice and become stubborn. That will lead you nowhere.
I'm not sure if I explained well what I was trying to say in the above paragraph... Keep us updated
Hmmm.......there isn't much of an update to tell. I'm taking my time to think things through about the best way to tell my friend how damaging these drugs are to a young 10 year old child
She was with me for 10 days and I definitely saw a pattern of how she was when medicine wore off verses how she was about an hour after her doses were taken
When the medicine started to wear off there was a completely odd outburst of emotion that didn't match the situation.
I have a 6 year old and when he got in trouble she would laugh hysterically and uncontrallably. When she would get in trouble (I understand how hard it was for her to control her actions and did my best to be sensitive to that) but that would also elicit the fits of laughter. And also sometimes for no reason at all. And also an extreme reaction when she was upset about something it would result in uncontrollable crying and having a fit such as a 3 year old might have. When that would happen I'd give her a few minutes until she would calm down a bit and then we'd talk things through and move on from there
About an hour after taking her doses there was a noticeable calming and even though her (I can't think of the right word) her issues were definitely muted but still present. And after another hour she would be nodding hard. Nighttime dosing was ok as far as the nodding because it was close to bedtime and she would completely pass out in 5 minutes. The morning dose she would be nodding hard and then sometimes take a 30 minute or so nap. Then wake up and we'd go about the day.
Like I said there was a definite pattern
There were a couple moments that happened during the 10 days that she was with me that I want to tell you about
One was in the morning during the calm period (my son was at school (her school hadn't started yet) so it was just her and I) but we ate our breakfast out on the balcony and the weather was beautiful. We talked for two hours about school boys kissing holding hands and all about her friends and we talked about me and things I had going on. I think it was a very good thing for her to have an adult friend (someone besides her mom and doctors and therapists) just someone to talk to about every day things and things that she had on her mind. I hope when she gets older she remembers it as a very special time. And I was very honored to be that friend for her
The other moment was right after she had a crying fit and was laying on my bed. I gave her a few minutes alone and went in to talk to her and she looked at me and said I'm sorry I laugh all the time I just can't help it. I laid down next to her and hugged her and told her I know you are and I love you and I'm not mad at you I just get grumpy sometimes. She hugged me and said I love you too. We had a little mini talk about her issues and again I told her I know you can't control it and it's hard isn't it. It just sucks sometimes and she looked at me really somber like and said yeah it does
Sorry for the really long post. I had a lot to say I guess. I've never been exposed to this close up before. I've always been an advocate for kids with special needs but now more than ever it made me especially sensitive to their needs. And it was a real eye opening experience. And am really glad that she felt comfortable enough with me to talk open and honestly with me about things
And also despite the rough patches we had a lot of fun awesome experiences all 3 of us. And I hope she remembers those too as something special
Anyways I do have a question after all that. Can some of you elaborate more on the dangers of a young child taking such "heavy" drugs that way I can be as informed as possible
But yeah it was a very special experience for me and I am honored to have been a part of it.
To those who read through my whole long post thank you for reading and thank you to everyone for talking to me about it
Again sorry for the long post