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Canada71

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I always thought I was a little strange,I have only once got off from getting a blowjob..turns out that lots of guys have not as well..any ideas why? Or how I can?
 
I usually don't cum from a blowjob, though it feels amazing. I will cum if we're doing 69 though. I absolutely love eating out my fiance and having my face smothered by her pussy can really push it over the edge.
 
yep... :)

Some guys really love them (more of a power thing, I think)... I love them for the feeling and that she likes giving them...
 
I've come a couple of times from blowjobs and for me the orgasm is way better then normal sex.. whole body shakes and i can barley move for a few moments afterwards, it takes a long time though, but the buildup is insane. It's easier if you have sex and then she finish's you off with a blowjob.. but if it's just purely a blowjob it's going to take some time in my experience, depends if you can both push through the frustration. - But it's totally worth it.

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I should note i'm uncircumcised, this may be a factor with it been easy for me..
 
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I've never been able to ejaculate from getting oral sex. I've met other men who told me how they can't either and it's pretty common.
 
I love giving my partner oral sex.

He can cum from it but not always.

Don't worry, different strokes for different folks. Just enjoy the blowjob and find another way to cum afterwards. No big deal :-)
 
yeah, it's always been tricky for me. and when it gets past a certain point and you can see her really trying to make you cum because she's getting a bit tired it gets a little awkward, making it even harder. there's just some days it works and some days it doesnt.

i usually just politely ask for her to finish off with her hand or i roll her over and return the favour then have sex.
 
for me having had bj's from possibly hundreds of different men over last 16 years i can say a few people have technique where you will come in 5 mins. the rest can be nice sensation but wont make you cum. i have done it to men and you know your doing something right when they try to pull away then simply cum wayyyyy before they wanted to. i just go again

banjo string
 
I enjoy giving more than receiving but it's even better when I'm getting boned from the back from someone else if ya know what I mean
 
I always cum from getting head. It sometimes takes a while but she (HE) has the skills and can work thru the jaw cramps, its great.
 
Canada71 said:
I always thought I was a little strange,I have only once got off from getting a blowjob..turns out that lots of guys have not as well..any ideas why? Or how I can?
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I think you just gotta be with the right person. hell sex ain't nothing if it's with someone that doesn't matter. get it on with your soulmate and it's fireworks. :)
 
Wait!????? Is she(?) like "playing her entire part?" Some girls don't ever reach the age where they want to >do that< badly enough to the point that they just do it right. right amount of fluids, touching, eye contact, visuals!, is her body there on display for you? also rhythm!!! then she can add her hand in, also "talk dirty?" where would the cum go? will she swallow? talk about these, even during mid-BJ. Also, her moaning, squirming, eyes tearing up should help, hopefully you are touching her good!!!! It's a pressure build up thing. you could stop it , by walking away, or finish it up. Also, let out your voice! she needs to hear you moan and vocalizing or else, lol, she forgets wtf she's doing!!!!! guh... also, the pressure to pop, might make it impossible. So, just take-it 'how you can get it' then,. Or realize that you need to relax. Also, it's said to be true that some males and females simply can NOT have orgasms. Now there is a wide spectrum of what works perfectly and what is completely broke. Try your best, otherwise, nut on her butt ! :) In other words, Get it any way you can, and enjoy! <3
 
I've never been able to get off from oral.. but I've only been with one girl and my ex hated BJs and wasn't good at them so.... >.>
 
ChipTrippyFox said:
I've never been able to get off from oral.. but I've only been with one girl and my ex hated BJs and wasn't good at them so.... >.>
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It's been so few times for me, it's SCARY!!! I mean me, getting off from oral. I have like zero issues, getting dudes off so far. I learned something from porn. :P
Kidding!

Okay, to my credit, I also do what feels right. It feels like, written into our DNA, I just KNOW what feels right, it feels right to me too! So....
But maybe somehow, like via GMO foods or something totally unsuspecting, we are all "going wrong". That's just a theory. :)

Also! It's only been 2 dudes! so, it's not like I have a very big sample size for my , ahem, "experiment"? wait, no, haha, "results!" right. also,, ahem, TMI, I know, and to be honest, I had to actually like ride a face for it to happen for me, so it's like, not something I feel alright doing to nearly anyone. Ya' know!?
 
just-breathe said:
It's been so few times for me, it's SCARY!!! I mean me, getting off from oral. I have like zero issues, getting dudes off so far. I learned something from porn. :P
Kidding!

Okay, to my credit, I also do what feels right. It feels like, written into our DNA, I just KNOW what feels right, it feels right to me too! So....
But maybe somehow, like via GMO foods or something totally unsuspecting, we are all "going wrong". That's just a theory. :)

Also! It's only been 2 dudes! so, it's not like I have a very big sample size for my , ahem, "experiment"? wait, no, haha, "results!" right. also,, ahem, TMI, I know, and to be honest, I had to actually like ride a face for it to happen for me, so it's like, not something I feel alright doing to nearly anyone. Ya' know!?
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Do you know what's keeping you from going over the edge when a man is eating you out?
 
Drderms said:
It's called a blowjob because you blow your load after the job hehe :) dont cum for a few days then try
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That "might" help, holding off for a few days.....

Although, the mind is scary. It's not so easy to overcome!!! sometimes....
 
ChipTrippyFox said:
Do you know what's keeping you from going over the edge when a man is eating you out?
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I think so. I think that it's mental. The only time that I could, he made me feel like I was the most perfect thing in his eyes. Then! >.< I found a bunch of porn on the computer. It was like a certain type of porn... Okay, well, he use to just sit there and I'd lay on my belly and he would "worship" (rub, massage, tickle, touch) my butt, for like ever! hours!!!! so, he got this upshot view of me. Anyway, all 50 to 100 of the pictures he saved. which is what I'm calling "porn". All of these pics were that "upshot view", like he'd see me in. Obviously, he killed the butt-rub thing right then and there.... (yuck, all these different girls, I could vomit just thinking about it still, it's been way too many years! but every girl, in every pic, was in that position! the one I'd lay in. I found it very disturbing.)

Anyway, I just couldn't orgasm after I knew he'd seen so many naked girls! I simply couldn't. (I still can't, at all!,,, unless, I use my vibrator, and play out some crazy fantasy in my head, that sometimes doesn't even involve him.)

Most likely, i started feeling inadequate, and comparing myself to these super-young looking girls >.< ... so , i think that ruined me...
It just feels gross now, and NOT special. I chose him, I feel like he must be settling or something after needing to see so much porn.
Either way, it sent me down a bad path, where i would do things... Such as, i let a man kiss me >.< alright 3 men! and, two of them "touched me" and gave me this wonderful , new, feeling.. ;/ anyway, I take all the blame, but it did send me on a path, that I never wanted to go down....
 
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