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Are girls who put out generally more materialistic and shallow?

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psychedelicsoul

psychedelicsoul

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This is why I've never been laid. Don't see this as sexist, this is based on all the girls I knew that put out a lot. All my life I was given the impression that every girl that isn't into a monogamous love-based relationship was a bitch... That's because every girl I've met that wasn't into monogamy and wasn't searching for love was a bitch.

How important is being impressive to women? Based on my experiences with women if I'm at the bar and mention that I'm working at Burger King, she'll just toss her drink in my face and be like, "Ewww.. I don't bang poor people, come back when you're... I don't know... Somebody" and then walk away laughing with her friends.
If I used most of the women I know that put out easy as an example, I'd say you need a nice car. Otherwise she see your used, cheep clunker and be like, "OMG ewww... I'm not getting in that thing"
What about looks... is there a scale of ugly that women follow... Could some lady be kind enough to post a pic of a guy who you'd describe as your "minimum standard"... As in, look as good or better than this example of never get laid. I'm totally unsure if women find me attractive or not.
(and it's not about hard work... An unemployed trust fund baby will probably get more pussy than someone working 9 to 5)

Also, if I'm anyone to talk... no pun intended... linguistics are #1. I don't need to say "avoid pick up lines" there's more to it than that.
You can't talk to slow, or she'll get bored and walk away before you even finish speaking.
You can't talk to fast, especially if you sound too happy. You need to sound cool, but not be a drag. You can't be enthusiastic or they'll be "Ewww, stop smiling you creeper"
You can't stutter either in fact... Start stuttering and she'll be like "Ewww, you sound like a retard. Go to a speech therapy with all the other retards and then come back and we'll talk".
What about having a gap in your teeth and occasionally letting tiny amounts of spit come out when you pronounce "T"s or "S"s
She'll be like "Ewww, get away from me you nasty spit machine".
And if there's one word you need to cut from your vocabulary it's "umm" or "uhhh"...
Or she'll be like "um, um, um... can you say anything else? Are you mentally challenged or something, why not hop on the short bus and find a nice girl with down syndrome. Get away from me loser"

Brand name clothing is a necessity, or she'll be like "Are you wearing Starters? LOSER!!!!" or "Ewww, you shop at ROSS? Gross!!! Who shops at Target?" But that's not all.. You need to get them from deparment stores. SEARS, Maceys, JC Penny, GAP, Old Navy, Lids (if you wear hats), and for shoes you gotta go to "Shoe Carnival" or an actual "Nike" shop at the mall. What were you planning on doing? Going to Payless, ROSS, or Wallmart and getting something similar? Please...
That "Thrift Shop" song is all one big lie... You flirt with women wearing some clothes from a thrift store prepare for them to say, "Ewww, um... I don't mess with homeless people"
But I found a trick that did make women think I was slighly cooler. I'd lie...
I'd buy a pair of shoes from ROSS, Target, Payless, or whatever... then I'd tell them I got it from the mall or from some big name department store... This worked. Because it's the same article of clothing, same brand. Except I didn't spend a shit ton on it. So lie about how much you spent on it. Otherwise, get ready to here "Ewww, your a cheapskate. My body is worth way more than your broke ass"
Or should I quote Fergie, "If you ain't got no money take yo broke ass home"

These are exaggerated.. but this is more less what all the girls I grew up with in high school who put out were like. There were girls who weren't like this, but tohse ones didn't put out. They either had or wanted a boyfriend. But I don't wanna be a boyfriend I wanna get laid, with zero boundaries. I don't wanna girlfriend. And the only way I could have gotten laid back then was if I... Lied about liking a girl basically. If I got with a girl, pretended to be her boyfriend, had sex, and dropped her when I was done...

And seriously? Do you think I'm the kind of person who wants to get laid so bad, I'd break a girls heart to do it? Really? Do I seem like an unethical jerk ass? I'm not gonna decieve a girl and hurt her feelings just so I can have something to brag about.
 
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are boys who just want to get laid generally more materialistic and shallow?
 
^Yes.

I'd say it just comes down to being yourself and finding someone that likes you. Some roles are easy to find admirers for (bodybuilders for example), but most of your ugly relatives are married, are they not?

If women you talk to are really that concerned with your appearance, they are low-class people. Try going to college and meeting people that aren't terrible.
 
OP you sound like you've got some insecurity issues.

Women can absolutely be shallow and materialistic, but I think the examples you've used are extreme, and in my mind a woman's level of materialism has zero correlation with how quickly or not she will open her legs.
 
psychedelicsoul said:
Brand name clothing is a necessity, or she'll be like "Are you wearing Starters? LOSER!!!!" or "Ewww, you shop at ROSS? Gross!!! Who shops at Target?" But that's not all.. You need to get them from deparment stores. SEARS, Maceys, JC Penny, GAP, Old Navy, Lids (if you wear hats), and for shoes you gotta go to "Shoe Carnival" or an actual "Nike" shop at the mall. What were you planning on doing? Going to Payless, ROSS, or Wallmart and getting something similar? Please...
That "Thrift Shop" song is all one big lie... You flirt with women wearing some clothes from a thrift store prepare for them to say, "Ewww, um... I don't mess with homeless people"
But I found a trick that did make women think I was slighly cooler. I'd lie...
I'd buy a pair of shoes from ROSS, Target, Payless, or whatever... then I'd tell them I got it from the mall or from some big name department store... This worked. Because it's the same article of clothing, same brand. Except I didn't spend a shit ton on it. So lie about how much you spent on it. Otherwise, get ready to here "Ewww, your a cheapskate. My body is worth way more than your broke ass"
Or should I quote Fergie, "If you ain't got no money take yo broke ass home"

These are exaggerated.. but this is more less what all the girls I grew up with in high school who put out were like. There were girls who weren't like this, but tohse ones didn't put out. They either had or wanted a boyfriend. But I don't wanna be a boyfriend I wanna get laid, with zero boundaries. I don't wanna girlfriend. And the only way I could have gotten laid back then was if I... Lied about liking a girl basically. If I got with a girl, pretended to be her boyfriend, had sex, and dropped her when I was done...

And seriously? Do you think I'm the kind of person who wants to get laid so bad, I'd break a girls heart to do it? Really? Do I seem like an unethical jerk ass? I'm not gonna decieve a girl and hurt her feelings just so I can have something to brag about.
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I found a way to screen out the materialistic girls. Most of my wardrobe I have found on the roadside or second hand stores. I found my last coat on the sidewalk next to the corpse of a gypsy stew bum on the first cold night of winter. Dressing this way is a good conversation starter. Many women ask me if I'm an artist....
 
Mysterie said:
are boys who just want to get laid generally more materialistic and shallow?
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No, and nieher are girls who just wanna get laid...

Wanting just sex doesn't make you shallow, it means you're simply not interested in romance. Sex is like alcohol or weed to you... a pleasurable thing to do for the sake of pleasure

queenbee1127 said:
OP you sound like you've got some insecurity issues.

Women can absolutely be shallow and materialistic, but I think the examples you've used are extreme, and in my mind a woman's level of materialism has zero correlation with how quickly or not she will open her legs.
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Well yea, I meant those examples to be humorous hyperbole

socko said:
I found a way to screen out the materialistic girls. Most of my wardrobe I have found on the roadside or second hand stores. I found my last coat on the sidewalk next to the corpse of a gypsy stew bum on the first cold night of winter. Dressing this way is a good conversation starter. Many women ask me if I'm an artist....
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It's easy to find non-materialistic girls... but the question is... will they sleep with me and expect no romantic or emotional attachment in return.
 
psychedelicsoul said:
It's easy to find non-materialistic girls... but the question is... will they sleep with me and expect no romantic or emotional attachment in return.
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Not that easy. Everyone is materialistic to a certain degree. You may have better luck with an escort if that's what you are after. They put out almost every time.
 
I shop at the thrift stores and woman have no idea..the trick is goin to a second hand store in a high socioeconomic area..thrift store price,high quality,named brand

im more concerned if a woman feels comfortable with me than her views on my material possessions if I want to get with her.I don't think a girls materialistic views have anything to do with there sexual habits..I think sex drive and opportunity play a big role

all girls like sex, materialistic or not..maybe your a tool and that's why u don't get girls

ive always been respected by woman if I approach..if your respectful and interesting she will talk to you most of the time but of course there are bitches out there man and woman
 
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I'd recommend talking about your extensive lolicon collection. I'm sure that'll make her wet for you.
 
Socko, I too have found some of my favoutite clothes on the side of the road.

You win with the dead guy though. Does that make me shallow? I think i'll start 16 threads about it.
 
jammin83 said:
Not that easy. Everyone is materialistic to a certain degree. You may have better luck with an escort if that's what you are after. They put out almost every time.
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Honestly, materialism was just a nicer way of saying "bitch". Most of the girls and women I've met that have sex casually and isn't monogomous were complete bitches. So it's not really that they only cared about money and popularity... they were just cunts.
After all... I wouldn't be bitching about this if I was rich.. If I could afford all the brand name clothes, private jets, cars, bags and shoes and shit... then I'd be all for it.. Then I'd say that women should only care about money, since if I had money, I'd use it to get laid with gold digging women and drop then when I think they've gone too far. The only reason this sucks is because I'm broke.

I've met lots of nice girls... but they either had boyfriends, wanted serious relationships, weren't interested in sex or relationships, really wanted girlfriends but didn't say cause it's a christian school, or were waiting for God to find their match.
But I've never found a slutty girl who has a good personality.
 
Going by your posts you're a homophobic misogynistic pedophile, and you wonder why you can't get laid...
 
I do not think the two are related.. I guess greedy women may be able to use sex to manipulate what they want from some men.

Men or women can also use their money to manipulate the sex they want.

Nothing wrong with two people getting what they want?
 
jammin83 said:
You may have better luck with an escort if that's what you are after. They put out almost every time.
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I think that might even be a stretch for him even if he had the money.

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neversickanymore said:
I do not think the two are related.. I guess greedy women may be able to use sex to manipulate what they want from some men.

Men or women can also use their money to manipulate the sex they want.

Nothing wrong with two people getting what they want?
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I agree... I really wanted to say, "Are girls who put out more likely to be a bitch"... but I thought it would result in the thread being taken down over "inflammatory speech"... I know right? such nonsense
 
I'd say you're really over analyzing it or have insecurity issues like someone else mentioned. I've never come across most of what you're referring to and it strikes me as something out of a movie rather than how people act in real life. How are you approaching these women, with the mindset that they're just a bitch/cunt/slut who should want to get fucked because you both have genitals?
 
Maybe not a bitch, but there would be something wrong with them if they slept with you with your current attitude. Maybe adjust your approach a bit, and take it easy on the 'bitch' thing and focus less on 'getting pussy' and try and gain some insight into the opposite sex before making broad generalizations. Just a thought.
 
jammin83 said:
Maybe not a bitch, but there would be something wrong with them if they slept with you with your current attitude. Maybe adjust your approach a bit, and take it easy on the 'bitch' thing and focus less on 'getting pussy' and try and gain some insight into the opposite sex before making broad generalizations. Just a thought.
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I don't know, it's just observation... I've observed that women I know who are slutty tend to not have good personalities, compared to women who aren't slutty. Unfortunately, for me to get involved with a girl who isn't only interested in sex would be morally wrong... Since I would have to lie and pretend to actually like them.

And what do you mean focus less on getting pussy. For me, that's the same as "just be friends". I have female friends. But they're all taken. I wanna meet, fuck, and have her leave the bed the next day.
In fact, if I had sex, I'd be less misogynistic and hateful. I would have a better outlook on myself. After all... This is all about me. It's not about finding any relationships. My motivations for any sexual activity are 100% self centered.
 
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