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Angry Sex

nuttynutskin

nuttynutskin

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Wondering how you guys/gals feel about this... Have you had it? How did you feel during and after? Do you think it's healthy or not so much? I've personally never understood it. If I'm angry or upset sex is the furthest thing away from my mind. Make-up sex I can understand, but not sex when you're actually still angry. Doesn't seem healthy to me, but that's just my opinion.

And since Bear brought up a few other things...

For the people that have had it, under what circumstances would you consider it healthy, and what circumstances not? And I'm not talking about rape here obviously, I'm talking about consensual sex. I'll also add has anyone that's had it have it impact their relationship negatively?
 
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Had it - like it depending on the situation :/

Depending on the reason your having angry sex then it can be healthy for you (and/or your partner) but could also be devastating to you both (too many variables so not a yes / no answer?

Rape is angry sex? Sex because your angry and need that release that your partner can give you is again 'angry sex' but very different.
 
Brought up some good points... I edited my first post the best I could so people can maybe elaborate better. And as far as rape, I consider that more of a power thing and a whole nother subject at least as far as this thread goes. So don't post about raping anyone or I'll come looking for you. :X
 
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I haven't really. I guess I'd rather have happy sex and enjoy it. It doesn't really make sense to me to have angry sex but, then again, I'm not angry very often.
 
A woman I was recently fucking, so this was kinda our thing.. we cant stand each other really but we would get so irritated with each other this would make us both hela fucking horny.. so unhealthy I know.
 
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Angry sex and rough sex are two entirely different things. Angry sex need not be especially rough - but is generally more primal and singleminded.

Happens when you and your spouse are arguing about trivial shit and getting all pissed off over not much. (normally happens when one you is in need of a good hard fuck incidentally)

A nice juicy orgasm generally leaves all involved feeling adequately compensated and no longer angry.
 
I have been talking about this tonight - Went through the full sub/dom - master slave / rough thing (it's not really angry sex [might look like that]. Fucking when angry is something else ? I would certainly never fuck my partner out of anger, I would certainly fuck my partner when angry !
 
No I have never had angry sex. Id probably get uncomfortable if my man just started throwing me around on the bed all angry and shit fucking me like a beast, I would have to punch him in the face.

But my sex is kinky anyways;)
 
I think angry sex is hot,and yes I have had it =D but no beating up involve cause that's going to be too much.
 
neversickanymore said:
A woman I was recently fucking, so this was kinda our thing.. we cant stand each other really but we would get so irritated with each other this would make us both hela fucking horny.. so unhealthy I know.
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yeah because the whole not fucking them thing is so painful that it makes fucking way better by comparison (like pulling a nail out of your foot only to start having an orgasm the moment it leaves) but also sometimes the person is beyond great at sex/having amazing beautiful genitals but awful at personality/nice face/everything else
 
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