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  • BDD Moderators: Keif’ Richards | negrogesic

am I just drugging my son?

See I'm kinda pissed that my parents did nothing when I was a kid. I wish someone took me to every dr or therapist known to man. I wish someone helped me instead of ignoring my problems and allowing me grow up feeling like a failure. Maybe if I was on a medication that help me suceed I would not have self medicated and would be something today. Instead I struggle and live check to check. I have a college degree actually 6 classes shy of a 2nd BA went to school for MA but struggled terribly to get by. Basically a professional student bc I just couldn't get the grades I needed. So it was not lack of effort on my part. I just can't take tests. I fail them no matter how hard I study. I want him to suceed. I want him to have confidence. now he does.
From drugs. HE doesnt have it the drugs give it to him. Do you want to give your son temporary confidence or teach him him how to have confidence for his lifetime. Leave the poor kid off the amphetamines his heart doesnt need those.
 
My3sons, if it's working out well so far I think that's great! When I was growing up, they didn't use this term ADHD. Kids were called "hyper." I used to babysit a little girl who was taking Ritalin. Her mother explained to me that it kept her focused and the girl grew up fine. (like BeachBum4U's child) Just keep monitoring his progress with the doctor and school. Don't let anybody try and guilt you by saying your are doing the wrong thing. I'm glad that he's doing better! <3
 
Thanks t calderone... I know my child. Justtakethat is just a kid and usually only has some snarky no it all comment on most people's posts so it didn't make me feel bad! I just ignored it. I have taken my son to numerous specialists who have had extensive training in the area, I see the difference, I am the one who dried his tears when he could barely read. I do think they just say ADD very quickly but that doesn't mean that some kids don't truly have it. We tried the diet bullshit and it took two years to finally give meds a chance. We scoured the internet so it was not even close to a hasty decision. We saw the turn out when parents ignore a problem (me) and chose instead to try to help. So far only positive affects. We obviously monitor his health! He has blood tests! . I guess we will know in about 15-20 yrs if it was a better decision than ignoring it. If its not atleast I know I tried! I should have known better than post that here. this isn't a parenting website its a site on drugs.
 
It's hard to accurately measure the effectiveness of ADHD medications in children I find.
Sure children with ADHD perform much better and have significantly sharper and more control of their sense of attention, but at the same time these effects are also seen from stimulant use in mentally healthy people, if they didn't they wouldn't be so useful and prevalent as a study aid.

I'm a firm believer that ADHD diagnoses are best left until at least the teenage years, many kids personalities are naturally aloof and unattentive, likely with their attention directed inwards towards themselves and their immediate desires, it speaks to the naturally self-centered way children view the world.
Contrastingly they are often bored by things that require long periods of inactivity, it just doesn't mesh well with the naturally high energy levels of some kids.
I was this way but I've always been fairly intelligent and have always been able to do well in school despite my constantly wandering mind.
With all that being said I am certainly not a psychologist or psychiatrist but I shouldn't need to tell you to take the opinion of those on the internet with a grain of salt.

It is entirely possible that your child's inattentiveness can be remedied naturally using meditation and mindfulness practices to gain better control over his mind, and I may even recommend continuing the medication for now considering how well it's working, but try teaching him these techniques now while his brain is still more sensitive in terms of directing neurological development.
In later years you could attempt tapering him from the medication until he no longer feels it necessary.
 
I dont plan on keeping him on it forever but if i take him off and grades start to slip I will re-evaluate. the dr explained it in terms of a car. There are certain cells or neurtransmitters or something, not sure the technical term is, but with ADD they are mishapen and are more oval verse round. The dr said diet and exercises help but are not enough. He said like driving you need the car, gas, the driver and the knowledge on how to drive in order to be successful and without one of the components you are doomed to crash. My son being the car, meds being gas, and therapy and behavior exercises and consistancy being the learning to drive part for a child like him to be the best he can be. we were very hesitant at first but my God the difference is just amazing. I am so happy for him. I am just going to pay close attention to him and who knows he may not even be on it as a teen and my worrying could be for nothing. Its called methylphenidate ER 30 mg
 
I noticed this nurse who had big pupille the other day so i ask her about it turns out she was put on methylphenidate at 12 years old due to learning and behavioral problems . She did take à small break because it was stunting her growth but otherwise she is very happy about the medication and the influence it had on her life.


My best friend who also suffered from ADHD and was put on Prozac and methylphenidate around 12 committee suïcide at age 18.

I blame his parents not the doctors.
 
I believe you are doing the right thing by giving him the medication. ADD medications affect those with the disease differently than those who do not have it. For example, if I were to take ADD/ADHD medication, it would affect me just how any other stimulant would. But in your sons case, it levels him out and allows him to focus and lead a normal life. So even though addiction runs in your family, because your son has ADD, he shouldn't be getting "high" off the medication per se. Just continue to monitor him as time goes on but I fully believe you are making the right choice and giving your son a chance to lead a healthy life. Good for you :)
 
^^ havinf add has nothing to do eith feeling high. I know several people with add who get high of stims and most say they feel alot better when there not all talkative/tweaked out.
 
Condition Dependant Learning......The conditions under which information is learned has an impact on the conditions necessary for the learned information to be recalled. A child on stimulant ADHD medicine will be more attentive and will process information faster and more efficiently. BUT, if its a long term treatment, especially if the child realizes and connects the effects of the ADHD medication to the increased attention/improved learning conditions they experience, then it is VERY likely that the state of mind brought on by the ADHD medication will become a NECESSARY condition for recalling anything that they learned (whether its school, personal ideas, anything really) under the influence of the ADHD medication. Now, its not to say that if they stopped taking it in highschool they would completely forget everything they learned in school previously in life and become utterly non functioning, but without the medication it will be much more difficult to recall things they previously learned (like, needing to write about something from last semesters class and totally drawing a blank) and the "in class" habits they developed while on the ADHD medicine would not be effective without it, and they might forget the habits they had or how/why their study habits worked when they get off the ADHD meds.
This isn't guarenteed to happen and might not be as bad as i say it is if it does happen, but condition dependent learning is a real psychological phenomenon that happens to everyone. if the ADHD meds work well, it might be best to keep them going steady, and emphasize the child learn things more than one way. The more different ways someone learns something, the more able they are to recall it later, and recall it faster.
 
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