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Am I bisexual?

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Whale i debated on making this post but why the hell not. I'm a fairly young girl and I masturbate. I love guys and guys are mainly what i think about but when i masturbate I CANT get off on straight porn. i have to watch lesbian porn. does this mean i'm bi? I have experimented with girls and i think girls are beautiful but im not sure id ever want an actual relationship with one. when i masturbate watching them i cum but it's not like a tingles in my stomach type thing that i get when fucking or thinking about a guy. anyone know or relate?
 
Humans can feel sexual towards many different things, including animals, objects and abstract ideas. It's natural. Why do you care about a label like bisexual?

Perhaps you would indeed enjoy having sex with another girl, or maybe you only like the idea of it in your head. It's up to you if you want to find out or not.

I personally don't see much use in trying to define yourself, like putting your sexuality inside a box and labeling it. What for? Just live and go with it, as long as it's not hurting anyone or anything else it's your business. But yea, a lot of people can get off imagining things they wouldn't really enjoy in real life. It doesn't "mean" anything.

I do think it's pretty strange that someone would be attracted to an animal, and it raises ethical questions but without a doubt this sexuality is present in some people. And if you search the internet you could probably find all types of unbelievable fucked up sexual shit. So I guess everyone gets off on different things.
 
You should a lot like me, especially when I was younger. I think you would identify more with bicurious than bisexual. I label myself bisexual but I have only had one serious relationship with a girl, and 4 with guys. I am attracted to both sexs, I typically date guys more, and I love sex with them, but I am more attracted to girls, and lesbian sex, there's something so compelling and sexy about it to me. Girls know what girls like, and they tease each other, and go on forever. Guys are so impatient, and typical, fast and rough. lesbian sex is more personal, mysterious, exciting. Thats how I see it, anyway.
 
I think it's normal and natural to fantasize about the same sex now and then, be you male or female. Not sure if that makes one bisexual. If so, then many of us are.
 
Reading this just gave me a raging boner.

And in case you are feeling any guilt. Dont. Being bisexual is completely normal and ok. Good luck with experimenting, coming out!
 
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And in case you are feeling any guilt. Dont. Being bisexual is completely normal and ok. Good luck with experimenting, coming out!
 
Ubi said:
I think it's normal and natural to fantasize about the same sex now and then, be you male or female. Not sure if that makes one bisexual. If so, then many of us are.
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agree with you 100%
 
It doesn't mean you're bi. You're just bi curious. But all though i am a guy that likes girls in the first place, i feel you on that lesbian porn thing. I can only get off on lesbian porn. That's the only thing that does it for me.
 
Mmmm, I think it means that you like lesbian porn. Making the fantasy reality is a whole different bag and maybe something you would like to explore but currently don't dare to.
Whatever, don't worry about it. Maybe one day a real live lesbian will hit on you and then you can see if you like it or not.
 
I'm a guy, I sometimes jack off to gay porn.
Though I only date women and have sexual contact with women.

For some reason I find gay porn a turn on, but the real thing not. I don't tend to really think or worry about it, neither should you.

Go with the flow :)
 
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