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Adult circumcision? please help me

RickyBobby231

RickyBobby231

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I'm 22 yrs old in uni living in Connecticut. I've been contemplating circumcision for years now. I WANT to get it done but I can't seem to find any local practices that perform adult circumcisions in connecticut (over 85% of connecticut newborns are cut at birth here)? I've had sex with numerous women, almost every woman I've been with has made a big deal about of my penis being uncut Im aware these women are shallow and narrow minded but its honestly really rare to be uncut in connecticut and the stereotype of uncut penises here is bad (ugly, stds, dirty, smelly etc) I'm not an idiot I know this is mans natural form and I have good hygiene but I hate being put in awkward and embarrassing situations every time I'm with a new girl (most don't stay after they find out im uncut haha and Im a nice guy). I've had a few girls actually laugh and make strange faces at my penis and asking me "what's wrong with it?" yes its messed up and before hand they were acting so nice and into me but its been a major turn off for the majority of the girls except a rare few. I now have convinced myself that the cut penis does indeed look more aesthetically appealing and I know you may all think this is just in my head (fair enough) but the fact is, this issue has caused a progressive anxiety for me and lowered my once higher confidence over time with each new awkward and uncomfortable moment that continue to occur...I could simply move to europe or a less conservative state but thats not really an option at the moment. I want to get cut and i realize the risks! etc.

Can someone please help me find a surgeon who has experience with adult circumcisions in connecticut? or anywhere close by

I can't find any surgeons who have experience in my area its actually weird and I've contacted urology centers...(im assuming because almost all newborns in ct are cut at birth not adults and its a different procedure) Thanks
 
Jesus Christ pal. I was circumcised when I was about 5 years old due to medical problems and I fucking wish I hadn't been. These girls you're meeting are fucked in the head. Look up female genital mutilation, cause that is basically the female version of a male circumcision. Next time a girl says something about your natural cock you should point out their flappy labia (if it is a flappy one!), they'd soon shut the fuck up. Don't they use condoms in Connecticut?

I obviously have never had sex uncircumcised, but I'd imagine it is a whole lot better than being circumcised. Serious, over time the layer of protection and moisture your foreskin provides will keep your cock as sensitive as it should be. When it is circumcised, over time its sensitivity drops a lot. I mean, if I'm with a girl and she ain't mentally turning me on I simply ain't gonna cum cause the sensations no longer really come from my cock, its all in my mind. It may sound strange and protracted, but its the truth. There is nothing as awkward as having to stop after fucking a girl raw and just saying 'sorry love, this just ain't happening'. I have been in that situation (totally sober) too many times to mention. Also, having to think of having a threesome with some lesbians while your giving it to someone is not a healthy way to have sex in an effort to avoid the aforementioned embarrassment.


Keep your hood. Its not going to harbour STD's any more than an circumcised penis. As long as you maintain good hygiene and stay smegma free there should be no issue. I personally find a hooded penis more erotic that a circumcised one.

I must ask also, why are 85% of the boys circumcised where your from? Are they all Jewish or do their parents hate them?
 
haha they are all circumcised at birth in Ct because thats just how the north eastern society has been taught to do. According to the national census the northeast especially Connecticut has the highest percentage of circumcisions in the entire country. Also an important point to note is the fact almost all pornography is with uncut men making U.S. women and men (especially in the northeast) even more bias or brain washed per say that a cut penis is normal. Its actually amusing to see each girls different reaction towards my uncut member but I think I've had enough...personally I really do want to be circumcised at this point Im 22 and in my prime, the mental anxiety damage has been inflicted..I shouldn't have to live like this if I have the choice not to. I respect everyones opinions on being cut and uncut but I do disagree that its actually genital mutilation...mutilation is, " to violently cut up or radically disfigure so as to make imperfect". That's a little extreme haha...its surgery, performed by highly skilled medical surgeons using top notch medical instruments and precision along with anesthesia and meds. And yes that doesn't mean there's no risk but I'm willing to make this decision myself because my parents didn't do it for me.

So if anyone on here knows a surgeon in connecticut it would be very helpful. Or maybe recommend a more appropriate forum? thanks
 
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Jesus Christ pal. I was circumcised when I was about 5 years old due to medical problems and I fucking wish I hadn't been. These girls you're meeting are fucked in the head. Look up female genital mutilation, cause that is basically the female version of a male circumcision. Next time a girl says something about your natural cock you should point out their flappy labia (if it is a flappy one!), they'd soon shut the fuck up. Don't they use condoms in Connecticut?

I obviously have never had sex uncircumcised, but I'd imagine it is a whole lot better than being circumcised. Serious, over time the layer of protection and moisture your foreskin provides will keep your cock as sensitive as it should be. When it is circumcised, over time its sensitivity drops a lot. I mean, if I'm with a girl and she ain't mentally turning me on I simply ain't gonna cum cause the sensations no longer really come from my cock, its all in my mind. It may sound strange and protracted, but its the truth. There is nothing as awkward as having to stop after fucking a girl raw and just saying 'sorry love, this just ain't happening'. I have been in that situation (totally sober) too many times to mention. Also, having to think of having a threesome with some lesbians while your giving it to someone is not a healthy way to have sex in an effort to avoid the aforementioned embarrassment.


Keep your hood. Its not going to harbour STD's any more than an circumcised penis. As long as you maintain good hygiene and stay smegma free there should be no issue. I personally find a hooded penis more erotic that a circumcised one.

I must ask also, why are 85% of the boys circumcised where your from? Are they all Jewish or do their parents hate them?
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Well said.

RickyBobby231 If you're not trolling, Don't do it your penis will become less sensitive after it's done, and as you get older you'll get erectile dysfunction and may get other issues. I've met men who got cut as adults and they all told me how if they could change anything they would have never gotten cut since sex and masturbation is not nearly as pleasurable as it once was when they had a foreskin.

Any woman or person who doesn't want to have sex with you because you're not cut isn't worth anyone's time not yours, or even a guy that's cut.

People gave you some excellent advice in your previous thread: http://www.bluelight.org/vb/threads...hard-to-write-this-but-im-thinking-of-surgery

I'm from the NE but not CT, and a lot of people here are not cut. I've also seen men who are not cut in porn and it's not rare.
 
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its up to you

all medical procedures come with a risk

this reads like a man version of " i don't like my breasts should i get a boob job"

if you want to do it go ahead- you're an adult and you have the capacity to consent. go for it if you think it will make you happy
 
My uncles a urologist and he reccommends not to get circumsized due to the now massive girth of your penis. Hope this helps
 
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