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Stimulants Adderall on a first date... :)

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Pineappleexpress42

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So I have met a girl at one of my cousins party, I have talked to her on fb quite a bit but have only hung out with her at the gym one time. At the gym things didn't go super smooth but it wasn't awkward. I was very nervous and didn't feel very confident in forgetting how good looking she is. I'm going on a date with her Sunday, which she says she is happy to go on. I still cant help but think she will not like me for my looks, even though i have been told im a good looking guy. I plan to take some adderall to help with the confidence and I will definitely open up a lot more. I only have 1 30mg xr pill and was thinking crush and snort 10 min before she is to arrive? Amphets affect me even in very low doses so I'm not worried about the amount I have as much as when the effects will take place as I am only seeing her for about an hour and a half.
 
Don't take anything.

Presenting yourself in a way you aren't naturally is not the way to get someone to like you. Be yourself, you'll either hit it off or you won't, and if not, that's no reflection on you. You might think you are being cool and confident but you'll be blabbering nonstop. Take it from me, on a first date, your job isn't to talk about yourself, it's to get HER to talk about HERSELF. If you are carrying the conversation by talking about yourself, you'll come across as conceited. Just relax. Everyone has insecurities about themselves, and no matter how hot she is, she's stressing about the date too. When you can hammer that into your head and just be yourself, that's when magic can happen.
 
I agree and can see where you guys are coming from but I am an extreme introvert until I get to know someone so I feel like if I break the ice and talk a lot then after that things will go much smoother. I just feel if I don't take it, I will be extremly awkward and won't be able to think of anything to say. Although I do want to take this seriously because she does have a nice personality from text/Facebook?? I have only really felt comfortable and not anxious at all around one girl, who was very nice looking as well but every girl who has been attracted to me is an extrovert

I don't really know what I'm trying to say with this I'm just very nervous. I have been going to the gym and have abstained from my doc heroin for the past 2 and a half weeks even though I was only using 3 times a week or so in attempt to get some color in my face.
 
I'm the same exact way man, so I understand wholeheartedly. The only thing I would suggest would be to take some L-Theanine for anxiety. Avoid benzos, but L-theanine is a natural amino acid found in green tea that's perfect for what you need.
 
Who says that she doesn't like you because you are introverted? A lot of people who are more extroverted like that in a partner. I, for instance, need someone who is slightly more reserved than myself. My girlfriend is very quiet and reserved but has completely come out of her shell around me and it's great. Opposites attract to a very real extent. In fact, she'll probably be a bit put off if you suddenly come across as really extroverted. You are overthinking this. Go in with zero expectations and you will probably be pleasantly surprised. Hot women are just like any other women on the inside, insecurities and all. Talking way faster than normal and having facial tics isn't a good look, whether you realize that you are doing it or not. You said you met at the gym? Go work out before the date and get those endorphins flowing.

If you are taking something before a date to alter your personality, you are being disingenuous.
She will either like you or not, and it sounds like she does.
 
I really like bluelight I gotta say because you guys are talking me OUT of taking drugs, who woulda thought? But thank you for all the responses so quick and yes, I plan to hit the gym before. I'm still debating on taking it but maybe I will go sober afterall
 
Hey man, we're all about harm reduction, and that includes harming your chances with a hottie ;)

Let us know how it goes

:D
 
Pineappleexpress42 said:
I really like bluelight I gotta say because you guys are talking me OUT of taking drugs, who woulda thought? But thank you for all the responses so quick and yes, I plan to hit the gym before. I'm still debating on taking it but maybe I will go sober afterall
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Harm reduction is our goal here. Reading posts like yours is the main reason I enjoy being a moderator.

Good luck with the lady and perhaps she's an introvert too.

Edit: Looks like JJ beat me to all of this.
 
Personally I don't think you should take anything, let her see you for who you are.


But if you do opt to take something, I wouldn't take more than 15mg, no more then nessecarily, especially because you say they effect you even in low doses


Good luck with the girl!
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Stimulant-induced dry mouth and the ensuing bad breath?
This alone makes it a bad idea IMO.
Agree with the above comments about it not being the 'real' or 'regular' you.
Besides, it can go either way with amphetamine; sparkling wit or anxious, rambling scatterbrain who doesn't know when to shut up.
I'm not implying that either of these are necessarily likely outcomes for you, but I've observed both responses (or somewhere in between them) too many times than I care to mention. Too risky, in my opinion.
 
Ya I agree with most of what has already been said.

I used to date this girl, but could never close with her. It was right when I was starting to mess around with drugs other than weed, I was 20 I think. Anyways I had some adderall I had gotten from some other girl who I'd party with. The girl I was going on a date with was a girl that I used to lose a lot of sleep over, I was pretty crazy about her. So I railed about 15mg of adderall before I took her out hoping I'd be able to talk to her like I could talk to other girls. In all honesty, I feel like it made it worse and much harder to connect. A large part of me was so focused on not letting the fact that I was on adderall show that I couldn't really focus on all the signs she was dropping. Looking back, if I was able to just relax and talk to her like I had so many times before I probably would have had a very long relationship with her. This sort of thing went on quite a few times, each time I was usually stoned, drinking, on coke, or pills. It got to the point where I'd get such anxiety before that I felt I had to use something heavier so she wouldn't find me completely boring and uninteresting. If I would have just told her how I felt about her it would have relieved a lot of anxiety, and probably gotten me a lot further than getting high would have.

Truth be told, most girls like a guy who is sober, or more sober than them. If you are really into her just be yourself, if you fake it or try to be someone your not there is no future in that. You can't build a relationship on lies.
 
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Fml I am stressing out so much over this. I really do want a long term relationship and thank you very much mafioso for that response. I have thought about what I would have to do after this date if I did do the adderall, it is very true that if I was speeding way too much she would believe that to be my personality or know I'm on something. I'm not sure what to do, I'm very down the middle and really want this girl. :/
 
You don't need drugs. Just...

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Totally agree with junglejuice and brutus :)

I wish you good luck! Try and just enjoy yourself :)
 
sounds strange but try to use that nervousness as energy. girls get nervous too..

if its your first date just focus on finding things that you have in common with each other and seeing how you two relate on those things. see if yo can make her laugh, if you can get her to laugh make her laugh as much as possible. laughter is a good thing. Keep in mind it is a first date, most girls don't expect to do anything on the first date except a kiss for fear of being viewed as a whore and what not... but a real man goes for the good night kiss, let her invite you in if she wants.

just do your best to relax dude and try to connect with her. it isn't the end of the world if you don't, there are a lot of other girls out there. don't force it if things are clicking. good luck

think positive thoughts lol
 
Bluelight isn't here to talk you into using drugs... Quite the opposite really!

The last thing I'd want when going on a first date would be adderall.
 
Just wanted to let everyone know how it went. I ended up taking the adderall but surprisingly didn't feel much of an effect at all, in fact I may have felt a bit calmer but very guilty and shitty after taking it. The date went great! I felt myself, talked about a wide variety of subjects, and it wasn't awkward at all! We shared lots of laughs and smiles but for some reason I didn't feel a "spark" between us. I got a big hug at the end, (no kiss) :'( but it was lots of fun and i really enjoyed it. I dont feel anxious for the next time we hang out and dont feel the need to take anything. If nothing happens between us because we still don't connect then I will still have an awesome new friend. :) thanks everyone even though I didn't take your advice :/
 
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