David
Ex-Bluelighter
Re: NONLINEAR
Except for the you talking about yourself part, I agree completely.
xxuxx said:I think it should be understood in a more nonlinear way - especially self-actualisation.
I have been through periods in my life when I've been highly self-actualised, in so far as having wonderful nonhostile humour with close friends, numerous peak experience (every day) and other traits. I'd say there have been periods when I fulfilled all the criteria (20-22yo). In those halcyon days. But I've lost it recently. I'm turning into a bit of an ass. I'm becoming more hostile and having fewer peak experiences. I don't like it, but I know that it's in response to my environment. And perhaps some decisions I've made. Whatever, you never achieve self-actualisation and then have it forever, and you don't have to have be 55 or over to achieve it. I've seen it inthe very young, and then they loose it. The world forces it out of them. And I don't think that the ability for the world to force it out of you qualifies it as 'not-self-actualisation', because it can force it from anyone. The only criteria left if that a person is capable, under reasonable conditions, to achieve this state of being in the absence of any enabling relationships, one becomes a self-enabler. I suppose, but being a self-enabler does not necessarily lead to self-actualisation.
Except for the you talking about yourself part, I agree completely.