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MsNene

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who thinks that it is alright for a girl to have a gf and bf at the same time <3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3
 
Me!! I have no problems at all with my S/O having as many gf's and bf's as she wants but that doesn't work for everyone. If it's your cup of tea then make sure it's one of the must haves in the partner you seek.
 
I couldn't do it, I'd get jealous. I don't have any sort of problem with others doing it though, as long as both partners have agreed on it.
 
As long as that is agreed upon by the people in the relationship. They've got to understand the dynamics of the relationship. As long as they both have that understand and are okay with it, then go for it!
 
YEA!! POLY for the WINNNNNN!! LMFAO.. No really.. if you have strong open communication with your partner(s) anything is possible !!!

As for me. My other half and I are seeking a Boyfriend :D ... We thought we had found him, then he pulled the "lets be friends card " on us this week.. total crap :/
 
Its not everyone cup of tea.. some people don't share well.. THAT'S the communication part.. you have to be able to communicate that you are or are not willing to be a part of or together in what ever it is .. You guys talked about it you both feel the same way.you found your anything is possible in each other through your "ownership" of each other and that makes you guys happy!!

Not everyone can be in a relationship like yours .. there are a lot of people out there that can not stand the feeling of being owned or having partner that would want to saw someone's head off for touching them..Even when I am in a Mono relationship I am WAYYYYYYY to playful of a soul to be in that sort of relationship.. Someone like you would run off all of my friends..
 
Pagey said:
I couldn't do it, I'd get jealous. I don't have any sort of problem with others doing it though, as long as both partners have agreed on it.
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Sounds like a lot of fun though :)
 
My bf has done it. I haven't, and couldn't, but I say to each their own..if every1's consenting, go 4 it! :)
 
sconnie420 said:
My bf has done it. I haven't, and couldn't, but I say to each their own..if every1's consenting, go 4 it! :)
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I think it goes a bit beyond consent here :). Just think that the possible consequences to the relationship need to be considered. Am I capable of doing it, certainly. Would I enjoy it ? definately :). Would i risk my relationship over it ? No

I think the question is, can you do it and remain together after without any negative effect on the relationship ? To be honest, this would also need to bring something to the relationship for me to consider as otherwise whats the point.
 
It doesn't really matter if it's "alright" to other people or not; just do what you feel is best.

If you can make it work, go for it. However my honest opinion is that it's probably difficult to juggle two special someone's at the same time. After all, aren't you going to have to share things about you, things that happened to you, twice? All the time?
 
theimp said:
I think it goes a bit beyond consent here :). Just think that the possible consequences to the relationship need to be considered. Am I capable of doing it, certainly. Would I enjoy it ? definately :). Would i risk my relationship over it ? No

I think the question is, can you do it and remain together after without any negative effect on the relationship ? To be honest, this would also need to bring something to the relationship for me to consider as otherwise whats the point.
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Oh, I couldn't agree w/ u more.. I have to agree w/ pagey, and for me personally I would go crazy w/ jealousy.
One would have to be very comfortable in their relationship to do it. Reminds me of this episode of taboo.
 
I am doing it now... My boyfriend is married... His wife is my girlfriend we have been together over a month and at first it was hard but now we are all okay with it... I enjoy every second I spend with them both.
 
Hypothetically, if I could replicate myself (like a duplicate, physically identical, with all of my memories and mind/emotions/psychological aspects too) would I need to obtain my S/O's consent to have my replica as a BF? Like, if it's me, both physically and mentally, would it not just be masturbation?

Cause that would be *so* cash. I can't imagine anything that would be more awesome than getting to have sex with me. So, if I had another me, I'd really want to bang out with it all day, every day. Fuck, that would be sweet.
 
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