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'weirdo' stigma for fitness fanatics

bighooter

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In England it seems anyone who shows interest in fitness and health is sorta labelled a weirdo because they are not down the pub drinking beer n rotting there miserbale life away talking about boll0x.

It's just it seems you cant even go for a run in the streets without being stared at by people. Maybe its just coz i live in a sh1thole?
 
Can't say it's a problems i've come across. Going for a job is different from being fitness fanatic I think.
 
are any of you guys from England? Either im just paranoid as fcuk or people in England generally are ignorant cun+s
 
In England it seems anyone who shows interest in fitness and health is sorta labelled a weirdo because they are not down the pub drinking beer n rotting there miserbale life away talking about boll0x.

It's just it seems you cant even go for a run in the streets without being stared at by people. Maybe its just coz i live in a sh1thole?

im interested in fitness, always weight training, however i like pubbing and clubbing as well. what i find weird is people who go running around in the rain/snow at stupid times of the morning/night.

the only time i really look is if some hottie is running down the road, a fat fucker or some nutcase running when its pissing it down with rain
 
I'm from England bighoot. I find it funny the looks I get when I ask for the 'healthy' items, or versions of items at every restaurant when I'm forced to eat out.

The only people I may comment on are those who are wearing farrrr too few pieces of clothing to be out jogging around..... like the 60 year old man without a shirt, wearing jogging shorts with his huge gut bouncin around like all get out. UNECESSARY POPS
 
They lose their health in the end. Keep staying fit and realize deep down they probably hate thesmelves for not having the motivation to stay in shape.
 
everyone in my office thinks im a freak. despite the fact that I look like a bastarnae brigand on any given day, I eat really healthy and look really in shape. This bothers people. Im never the type to speak my mind on health and fitness out of no where, but people will ask questions like "why do you always eat yogurt for breakfast?" "why so much protein?" "do you really need to eat that much fruit?" and always in an accusative tone as though it bothers them.

I also have an immense nutrition and exercise science knowledge, and share it whenever asked. This also weirds people out a bit.

Im an american...

so all this together suggests to me that in my culture, its absurd to do anything you dont have to do. I try to convince people that yes, for the last 2 million years your body has adapted to this sort of lifestyle, so you have to do this to keep from degenerating. People in American culture are 100% out of sight - out of mind. In addition, doing anything that is slightly against the norm, will result in some negative reinforcement. People dont like the idea that they might not be living their life perfectly, so have to respond with comments like "oh youre just uptight, you dont know how to enjoy life, just loosen up and live a little," often the kind of people who thing "living a little" includes late night TV and weekend trips to O'Mallys Irish Pub for white financial douches. Ah im letting the negativity out.

Basically i think people are naturally inclined to disassociate from anything they feel is not the norm. Exercise and nutrition (oddly enough) are far from the norm in the USA. Thus, yes, I am labeled the office "weirdo."

Im comfortable with it knowing I can bench press any two of em at the same time :-P
 
I don't eat artificial things, but as a result of me not eating processed cake from the supermarket (but I do enjoy a good cake that is well-made), people tend to force bland crackers and all sorts of fortified, low-fat, or sugar-free things my way when I am in their homes.

Everyone asks me "Are you allowed to eat this?" like I am on some kind of religion-based or convalescent diet.

I just try to avoid food that I find unsettling. I do eat ice cream and I don't think butter is bad. I don't mind that people eat traditional food and pig fat. I guess it's not so big a bother unless they prepare 80s-concept health food for me and I'm forced to eat it out of politeness. It's just sad that not eating something loaded with preservatives, chemical coloring, and crap is labeled as "hardcore" (as I've been called) by some. I'm not letting corporations fuck me up that way.
 
In England it seems anyone who shows interest in fitness and health is sorta labelled a weirdo because they are not down the pub drinking beer n rotting there miserbale life away talking about boll0x.

It's just it seems you cant even go for a run in the streets without being stared at by people. Maybe its just coz i live in a sh1thole?

I'm thinking this has more to do with your perception of what's happening around you, rather than people being weirded out--considering your former posts.
 
fanatics of all kinds are considered weirdos. Just going for a run or declining cheesecake doesnt make you a fanatic, though. Rest easy, and make friends at the gym.

true. i think many just believe the idea of being mobile for more than an hour a day is outrageous, so it's decided that anyone who is more fit than norm is going "unnaturally" far to achieve that.

i like to diffuse the diet detractors (or wind them up) with some passive aggressiveness.

"why can't you eat bread?" "because."

it's funny, nobody ever asks me why i smoke weed. i assume they're satisfied with what they believe to be my reason for that. but not wanting to eat some bread instantly has people fucking vexed and they start with all kinds of questions. what's up with that?
 
people think of me as a "fanatic," but in my case it's honestly a pretty fair assessment.

i've never felt any negative stigma attached to it though . . just something that people tend to notice. could be due, in part, to the fact that what i'm doing is oriented towards competition rather than fitness. people have an easier time understanding "i'm doing this so that i can win" than "i'm doing this so that my body has a more favorable ratio of x to y and a lower percentage of z."

and hell, who am i not to enjoy a little bit of attention.
 
maybe im just paranoid
i might have to go down to 1 prozac a day instead of 2 maybe that has something 2 do with it
 
I've gotten pretty used to it. I have a big build so its obvious I work out a lot. People are also used to how much I eat at this point. It doesn't stop the comments though. It is basically everyday many many times per day. At work, at stores, wherever. People feel inclined to ask me questions who normally wouldn't talk to the person next to them in line at the grocery store. They will look at me and immediately ask "how much do you bench?" "do you play football?" "which team do you play for?" I don't really take too much issue with it but it does get a little old to have people ask you if you use steroids, accuse you of using steroids, or spread rumors that you use steroids. It also gets old when people attribute your dedication to something, like working out a lot, to being a "loser" or "filling up your pathetic life." I've had many people online somehow try to put a negative spin on something that is 100% positive. It's rather odd.

To an extent though, you have to realize that if you are really really into personal fitness then you aren't in the majority therefor you aren't "normal." Especially somebody like myself who weighs twice as much as most people on the planet and eats 5-8k cals per day average. That's just not normal and maybe I am a weirdo for it. But hey, atleast its fun and gives me stuff to talk about with random people. It really is a great ice breaker and has gotten me a LOT of contact with people and life is all about who you know. Hell it got me my current job..
 
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