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Sex + Drugs Chemsex: What sexual adventure did you have while high which you would have never had sober?

My ex boyfriend got me into meth…shortly thereafter it somehow became all about MMF threesomes with random men we found on hookup websites. Sometimes it seemed like they were more into each other and I felt left out. It was sketchy and I always felt like a dirty, trashy slut afterwards. I’m glad he’s my ex.
 
My ex boyfriend got me into meth…shortly thereafter it somehow became all about MMF threesomes with random men we found on hookup websites. Sometimes it seemed like they were more into each other and I felt left out. It was sketchy and I always felt like a dirty, trashy slut afterwards. I’m glad he’s my ex.
I've never have been in a threesome that I look back on and say that was a good thing.
 
It's hard not being in a relationship with one person and the sex gets better as your body begins to sag and wrinkle and you know you get those love handles and you look at your partner and you realize they're a human being who suffers oftentimes in ways that are pointless and bewildering, and yet in the moment right now you can bring them warmth and kisses and goofing off and if you're lucky being able to spend the whole weekend in bed with a couple of cats
 
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My ex boyfriend got me into meth…shortly thereafter it somehow became all about MMF threesomes with random men we found on hookup websites. Sometimes it seemed like they were more into each other and I felt left out. It was sketchy and I always felt like a dirty, trashy slut afterwards. I’m glad he’s my ex.
Never been in a threesome but this seems awful lmao
 
probably fucking till i just about collapsed because i was high on morphine or dilaudid and couldnt get off. That was fun
 
I will never, for the life of me, understand these women who don’t like giving head. To either gender. I mean, if they don’t wash it or whatever that’s a genuine complaint, but in general I have never had a problem with giving head. I like to think that I’m good at it, even. To give good head is a skill, one that not everyone has.
It's an art really ..😆
 
All of the part and play in groups stuff I do on occasion
 
Probably on cocaine and alcohol, I doubt I'd be into receiving a rim job or quite as into giving them, but it was jolly good clean(ish) fun. Oh yeah and watersports 🫣
 
Idk if I should share mine lol it's kinda negative so like someone else mentioned I was strung out in LA and my friend literally just abandons me in West Hollywood now I'm straight and kinda naive to a community like this, well actually I was completely ignorant but I met some really nice people and also had some unwanted experiences. One of them being an older gentleman and his friend asked me to come to their place to slam (shoot up) surprisingly people needing and even paying for help shooting up was pretty regular. But this guy doesn't want me to shoot them up he wants to watch me slam. He has a huge bag of gear and fresh needles but I realized he doesn't get high on meth. So what the hell free meth but he also wants to decide how much and he went big but I was a junky. I hit immediately, cough and feel amazing but he totally got off from watching me. He was so amazed at how good I was and wanted me to do more but I was lit. I do some G and they start doing their thing and I just chill lol awkward. I couldn't leave until he let me out he was being very sneaky like. I bounce and about a week later he approached me alone same thing wanted to watch me fix but this time the first shot made me sick and disoriented and I'm a hard core junky shooting meth, crack and heroin all day everyday. He then gets a crazed look in his eyes and says I need more. I ask for some G to mellow out and I can see it but he goes "its weak shit do another shot!" and he started pushing me into the bathroom and is so intensely obsessing and demanding I shoot more. I said "I'm not ok do you want me to die in your home? I need to leave Incase something happens I don't want you to get in trouble". I'm playing it off like I am looking out for him but I'm really terrified and it was just his energy. Fast forward and the man I knew as Ed is now in prison for trafficking struggling men and drugging them to death. ED BUCK! Google him. LGBTQ activists and democratic donor who had an apartment in west Hollywood. I believe because I am a white looking Latino he didn't go further that second time because he mainly tortured and killed gay black men by shooting them up until they died. With meth that's a horrible way to go. He would just call EMS and he got away with it a couple times. Very sad. This related to my chemsex days because I started meth in West Hollywood with friends and I was a tiny straight young man talk about a recipe for trauma but I realized I'm 100% straight but I got mad love for LA and Hollywood regardless.

Good god, I need to check that out, that's completely fucked! Glad you made it out of the other end of that.
 
At what point is physical affection towards another man Gay ? Is getting your dick sucked gay? Is just a hug gay ? Surely a kiss on the cheek isn't gay, but making out is ... where do we draw the line and can definitively say you're gay and/or not gay ?
The way me and my wife see it is if you get pleasure from a man and can get off from any conscious lucid act with another male then you aren't straight. I've never ever been able to get hard or get off at ALL if another man is involved in anyway no matter what drug I was on. At the lowest point in my life I found myself (more than once) in positions that even faking pleasure with a man could of completely changed my life and I absolutely just couldn't. I'm talking being some multimillionaires boy toy and having a life I'll never experience all at my fingertips and I couldn't even go through the motions and I did try every drug around to help and nope. I now know I'm absolutely not gay or Bi and I'm happily married to an older woman who once believed she was fully gay until she met me lol. I also can not be touched or kissed at all by any male without feeling the most horrible repulsive disgust and I even tried to convince myself i could be bi. If we are honest with ourselves it's more cut and dry then some make it out to be.
 
Oh man.. if you want to elaborate as to why please do. If not that ok. Just curious.

No problem at all :)

I was totally socially isolated due to severe depression/anxiety and I ended up with nobody IRL. The same month I started taking anti-depressants and was beginning to feel better my brother (only 16 months younger than me) starting inviting me to hang out with him and his friends (this was over the summer so no school for any of us). I still had a lot of social anxiety so everyone - like, everyone, including my parents - kept telling me to have a few drinks whenever I went out with people. I did and it worked wonders, but within a month I was drinking all day every day.
I had sex for the first time during that time.
I was then severely alcohol dependant for 8 years so was drunk like 98% of the time including every time I had sex.
I used most drugs during this time, too and after being very seriously ill in hospital and being given IV morphine 6 times a day for 11 weeks and then a high-dose Oxy script when I was discharged I got dependant on opioids, too.
I've always been high on opioids, drunk, or both whenever I've done anything sexual (the few times I was sober from alcohol and not high-high on opioids I was on some other drug).

I still drink alcohol very occasionally, but haven't been an alcohol for 4 years. Still dependant on opioids, but I also have severe chronic pain so I'll always need for for legit reason, too.

I was pretty old by todays standards when I lost my virginity. And then because I was drunk then and then every other time for several years, I guess I just get too anxious or my self-esteem is too low when I'm sober.
Probably has something to do with being raped as minor, too (I don't count that time as losing my virginity, rape is not sex) kinda makes me borderline-panicky when it comes to sex if I'm not sedated in some way.
 
the first time i had sex with out a condom i was on acid. i probably wouldn't have not used protection if it weren't for the drugs... i'm glad i did though. at the time i felt like i was ready to be with my girl and have her have children. it was a pretty righteous feeling... fifteen or so years later i don't think i could deal with the responsibility of having kids. lol.

this might be for a different thread but when i ejaculated on the lsd inside of my girl i felt like i was going down a tube (a lot of my harder trip experiences involve shooting through tubes into different universes) and i landed with my vision stuck on something that looked like the mayan calender. it was all i could see. i heard this voice say "john" and i was convinced we were having a boy named john. lol. i was talking to my girlfriend the next day and she was like "i don't think i'm pregnant.". i was like "no you got to be. it's the only thing that makes sense."...
 
No problem at all :)

I was totally socially isolated due to severe depression/anxiety and I ended up with nobody IRL. The same month I started taking anti-depressants and was beginning to feel better my brother (only 16 months younger than me) starting inviting me to hang out with him and his friends (this was over the summer so no school for any of us). I still had a lot of social anxiety so everyone - like, everyone, including my parents - kept telling me to have a few drinks whenever I went out with people. I did and it worked wonders, but within a month I was drinking all day every day.
I had sex for the first time during that time.
I was then severely alcohol dependant for 8 years so was drunk like 98% of the time including every time I had sex.
I used most drugs during this time, too and after being very seriously ill in hospital and being given IV morphine 6 times a day for 11 weeks and then a high-dose Oxy script when I was discharged I got dependant on opioids, too.
I've always been high on opioids, drunk, or both whenever I've done anything sexual (the few times I was sober from alcohol and not high-high on opioids I was on some other drug).

I still drink alcohol very occasionally, but haven't been an alcohol for 4 years. Still dependant on opioids, but I also have severe chronic pain so I'll always need for for legit reason, too.

I was pretty old by todays standards when I lost my virginity. And then because I was drunk then and then every other time for several years, I guess I just get too anxious or my self-esteem is too low when I'm sober.
Probably has something to do with being raped as minor, too (I don't count that time as losing my virginity, rape is not sex) kinda makes me borderline-panicky when it comes to sex if I'm not sedated in some way.
I remember people telling me to drink to be able to relax in a social situation . I didn't I just dealt with the awkwardness.
It was really fukked up at first but then I cracked a joke at a friend's birthday party to break the ice and it was easy after that. I would have had those drinks though if I wasn't such a ninny back then.
So fascinating to me how a choice in the moment can shape your whole life. If I would have drank I'm sure it would not have led to anything good for me.
I agree that rape is not sex at all. Im glad you see it that way .
Thanks for sharing !
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I remember people telling me to drink to be able to relax in a social situation . I didn't I just dealt with the awkwardness.
It was really fukked up at first but then I cracked a joke at a friend's birthday party to break the ice and it was easy after that. I would have had those drinks though if I wasn't such a ninny back then.
So fascinating to me how a choice in the moment can shape your whole life. If I would have drank I'm sure it would not have led to anything good for me.
I agree that rape is not sex at all. Im glad you see it that way .
Thanks for sharing !
😁😁😁

I think I was just too far gone (I WAS sectioned after that summer) to deal with it. Like, I had such bad social anxiety I couldn't go into a store any buy anything because I literally couldn't speak to the cashier. I'd be shaking and sweating and I would freeze up and physically couldn't get any words out :/

You're very welcome :D
 
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