I've been there to experience people I've known who had potentially prophetic dreams. My mother's had about 3, 2 in my lifetime. All similar to how you describe.
So don't get me wrong, I can absolutely believe that there could be more going on here. I'm not saying I absolutely don't believe it.
I just still have a degree of skepticism because I'm not sure it's really as statistically unlikely as you think.
Is it unlikely that someone would dream of someone being in an accident, then wake up and get a phone call that they'd been in an accident? Yes, in itself it's very unlikely.
But it has to be kept in its full context. There are an enormous number of bad things that can happen to someone. To have such a coincidence, you don't have to specifically dream of one particular event happening, you only need dream of potentially any kind of misfortune happening to any person you know, within a similar time frame, and be correct.
That's not quite as unlikely. The specific event itself is unlikely, but that any event like it could have happened may not be. A specific prophetic dream is quite a coincidence, but having any one any subject at all may not be. Especially if you're an anxious person. Or if the person is already sick to begin with.
I'm not saying that I believe it's all coincidence. I'm saying I don't know. I also don't like assuming that there can't be more mundane explanations that I'm not aware of. Because there's so little data to go on here.
All I have are anecdotes. That's enough for me to have an open mind. But it wouldn't be an open mind if I didn't continue to indulge the possibility that it may in fact be coincidental or that such a coincidence may not be as unlikely as it first appears.
Yeah, i mean i get what you are saying, but again, this wasn't ANYONE having ANYTHING bad happen to them at any time, it was one very specific person dying immediately after a prophetic dream THAT WAS ABOUT THAT PERSON AND THAT PERSON ONLY.
And also, the many many dreams of birds falling before 9/11 is a different unusual thing.
My mother is an expert of sorts in her field of Jungian psychoanlysis, and she doesn't believe in magic, but she's done her own ''research'' in her own way over a lifetime of experience with studying dreams and things of the sort so she is not some novice.
The famous prophetic dream that predicted the star of WW1 is also odd, though i'd look it up as i don't remember the details.
I am the opposite of you in that i'd prefer NOT to believe in a more simple and mundane explanation of things because I like to believe that there is more out there that we cannot fully explain and that humans may have abilities that we cannot explain yet.
That doesn't mean i want to believe in fairy tales, but I believe that there is so much we don't know of yet, and I am not one to believe that every single unusual event has a simple answer that can be wrapped up neatly in a bow.
i also don't believe the answers are usually supernatural, but I think that some of the explanations to some things that happen cannot yet be explained rationally by what we know now, but someday we will be able to.
200 years ago the internet would have been supernatural, so if we actually make it another 200 years, perhaps prophetic dreams will be no less unusual lol.
Anyways, interesting convo.