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The EADD Metathread - Let's talk about how we can improve EADD

Consumer, You know that I appreciate and respect your input. Above all else, I appreciate the situation that you have just been through but how many times in how many ways are members of this forum meant to get their "point" across. It's been hashed out over and over again and discussed until people were practically blue in the face. The fact is, no one can let it go. This one member has gotten so far under the skin of others that they simply cannot let sleeping dogs lie.

ImO you and one other member are the exception to that. Personally, I'd say give any member one post to comment on the topic. ONE POST! At some point we have to stop, as SHM puts it, Beating a dead horse.

You're a stand up guy, we all know this and I understand your frustration. It's not just you though that has their own personal thoughts on the subject and sadly, most people simply cover the same ground they've been over time and time again. <3
 
I was just saying while i didn't agree with the posts being pulled i had already received a quiet word and thus accept the official warning. I am leaving it here. Everyone knows my opinion. No need to continue to shout it from the rooftop.
 
You have no need to apologise to me nor should any other member do so. I'm not so stupid as to not see your reasons.

How can I say this and still keep the peace, Twas Damage limitation darling. Nothing more sinister than that. Proctecting a member that is currently banned. There was an agreement already put into place. An understanding as it were.

I really do hope no one takes offense to that. It was made known. Also, EADD has never allowed that sort of thing for any other banned member. I digress. What has been done is done and tbh, ( as said you and one other member have more right than any other to be angry ) I dunno, if someone irritated me that much, I wouldn't rate them at all. I would simply nothing them.
 
By protecting a member you are assuming a parent like role.
That only encourages child like behaviour.
 
By protecting a member you are assuming a parent like role.
That only encourages child like behaviour.

I wouldn't say we're protecting a specific member as such. Those are the rules for any member that has been temp banned and has no way to reply, defend themselves or speak their side. This rule applies for EVERYONE.

It's not speaking on their behalf, it's just not allowed and quite honestly, in bad taste to do so when that member is not around.
 
Why you feel the need to defend them in the first place is curious.

I still remember the days when actual words were censored here on bluelight. It is funny how back then you couldn't even type the word narc as it would default to something else. The more things change the more they stay the same it appears.
 
It's good that princess doesn't default at all. I only say princess to you because I assume that you're the Prettiest princess in the land <3

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Sorry, I forgot that I'm supposed to blame everything on the drugs that I've chosen to take. Damn you alcohol and DHC, You make me a dick, not me! I'm perfect! ;)
There are some days that I fukkin love you OTW. Today be one of them! I could actually kiss you! 8o
 
The mod who gave me a point for "don't make me laugh".

I have to empathise with SHM here.

The infraction system has it's merits, but is sadly abused vindictively by members of staff to get rid of members they don't like... and many a disheartended member has left this forum for having had the flawed system abused against them. As you said, there's no consistency, and because it's not public, some staff sadly make their own rules up and abuse their privileges.

If any member of staff wants to deny the fact that the system is inherently flawed, where rules are simply invented unfairly just to dispel members who are not liked, I will quite happily publicise former infractions which have been formerly brushed under the carpet, as we're told "making it public is bad form" and have to be fobbed off with poor responses privately from [email protected]

But, failing the inevitable embarrassment that disclosure would incur, I hope staff and members are in agreement that it is a completely flawed system that is totally abused.

I'm not trying to achieve anything here. I post here maybe once a week. But if anyone cares for the site (I don't) they should really follow this up, because it is a sad detriment to what could have been a good drugs forum.
 
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Aye. The disciplinary system isn't perfect by any means. Staff can see all warnings and infractions given to any member and can voice their opinion in the relevant place. Obviously not all members are going to believe that this prevents abuse of the system - and tbh it probably doesn't because there will always be warnings/infractions which nobody else bothers to check or simply get outvoted on as staff only have powers of any kind beyond persuasion in their own forum.

Whilst the reasons for infractions could be made public it wouldn't be much use to anything as there is often a lot more to it than the individual post infracted. Because staff tend not to infract as a first choice there is usually a fair amount of history that goes into each decision. In some cases that history can be very extensive. Short of making the disciplinary records and related notes of every member public I don't see there is much we could do to make the process more transparent. And even with that there is the issue of other members privacy because the person who made the report would also be revealed by default in a number of situations.

If you have any bright ideas of how you would like to amend the system this would be a good place to put them forward. I must admit I wouldn't hold out much hope unless it's a belter of an idea though cos it would obviously affect all members not just EADD so you'd need to sell it sitewide. Somehow I just can't see complete transparency of all disciplinary matters being an easy sell.
 
I'm not trying to achieve anything here.
then what is the purpose of your post?

The infraction system has it's merits...I hope staff and members are in agreement that it is a completely flawed system that is totally abused.
if the system has its merits, then it can't be completely flawed (by definition). totally abused? that's simply hyperbole which doesn't really help the discussion.

is the system perfect? of course not - it's managed by humans and humans are imperfect. but, imo, you are exaggerating, your claims are muddled and this seems more about having a vague rant than any concrete attempt to improve things.

have you participated in any other online fora for any length of time. discipline at bluelight is a holiday compared to what i would consider the norm for online communities like this. bluelight in general - and eadd in particular - are managed with a very light hand and (with the exception of those issued to spammers and people who join purely to source/supply) warnings, infractions and bans are by no means the oppressive, ultra-frequent occurrence you are claiming.

in cases where users feel they have been warned or infracted unfairly, there is a procedure for review and infractions deemed unfair are overturned. you, raas, have had three infractions reversed on review - if we were the evil, deliberately unheeding monsters you imply we are, that would simply never happen, let alone happen three times. we've removed people from staff for their consistent inability to interact well with members - not even abuse of the discipline system - so your implication that staff are somehow untouchable is also demonstrably incorrect.

the incremental discipline system is designed to escalate punishment for people who choose not to adjust their behavior. in order to be banned for even just a week, a user has to accumulate five active points. that generally means they've been soft-warned at least once, have received a zero-point formal warning and have then earned five one-point infractions. that's seven opportunities to change their behavior. there are cases where somebody earns a one-day ban and, when they come back, they immediately start abusing staff and disrupting the forum in retaliation so they earn a two-day ban. that cycle repeats, spiraling downwards, until they're banned for quite some time. i'm open to ideas on how that could be better managed, for sure.

on the issue of public discussion of infractions, we don't do that publicly - not because it's "bad form" but - because hashing out infractions in the public forum just derails, distracts and disrupts more. i also agree with shambles that there is frequently a lot more to an incident than the posts you've read. further, and with all due respect, another user's infractions are none of your business, raas.

we're completely open to discussing how things can be improved (if we were not this thread wouldn't exist). if you want to have a site-wide discussion of any bluelight issue - site discipline included - just start a thread in support. but if you just want to rant about how awful bluelight staff are, then drop me a pm or consider that maybe your blog is a better channel for that...

alasdair
 
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, your claims are muddled and this seems more about having a vague rant than any concrete attempt to improve things.

Was a rant, I admit. Too many repressed infraction cases surfacing lol

Being a bit more rationally minded today, I will say the system is flawed because:

A) There appears to be no criteria for an infraction, it's disgressional and staff can make their own rules up
B) There is no transparency, this puts staff under no pressure to justify a bad decision
C) The system put's the reviewer in an awkward position of being pitted against another member of staff. Staff seem united and like to support each other (understandably) it's in no-ones interest to tell each other they are doing their jobs wrong.


The result of this, is that the infraction button often turns into a political game to get rid of members unliked. If someone makes an off-key post, whether the staff member chooses to delete the post, issue a warning, PM them or infract them...usually boils down to simply if they like the poster or not. And due to the lack of transparency and disinclination for staff to contend each others decision, there's little you can do than suck it up. This is at least my experience of the system in 100% of infractions I've received. The complete lack of consistency is frustrating and it appears I'm not the only one who has felt this.

In my last infraction, was a very, very light hearted jest towards bear_love over confusion that his post was deleted. All 5 moderators knew it was not an ill-intended post and didn't infract me for it, or even remove the post. Bear_love himself expressed to me in PM, that there was no way there was any ill intent in the post. You however decide it's a malicious post and I'm banned for it. Knowing an e-mail gives you the privacy to fob me off with bad excuses for the infraction, I take the question to support forum here. There was another infraction being appealed publicly, so I put my request there. The result is predictable - the thread get's closed immediately before anyone can comment, and I'm told to continue any questions in PM's - PM's - privately again, of course, where I can be fobbed off with more poor responses that would have been eaten alive if they were made public.

I'm now stuck in the sin bin and racking up points into my account, for a completely innocent post - whereas in the Lounge - there is abuse, homophobia, racism, bigotry of all kinds and most of the BLUA being breached on a daily basis and this is fine.

Despite my gripes, I respect the ethos that if you treat the site and staff with respect they'll return it and tolerate your odd mistake. If I've wound up any members of staff so much that they feel like manipulating the system against me; then apologies. Maybe it's an attitude thing. The infraction system, is still highly flawed however.
 
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A) There appears to be no criteria for an infraction, it's digressional and staff can make their own rules up
that's not the case. the criteria for infractions are the forum guidelines and the blua. are the rules open to interpretation? of course they are. if you'd like to outline a system which is both 100% objective and practical, start a thread in support to discuss.

B) There is no transparency, this puts staff under no pressure to justify a bad decision
again, untrue. is there 100% transparency? no, of course not. that's simply not practical. but there is accountability and staff decision making absolutely can be questioned: How to Make Comments, Suggestions and Complaints. there's a procedure but many people opt to not use it.

C) The system put's the reviewer in an awkward position of being pitted against another member of staff. Staff seem united and like to support each other (understandably) it's in no-ones interest to tell each other they are doing their jobs wrong.
again, this does not mesh with reality. your implication that the staff is one unit who have each other's backs under any circumstances is just plain inaccurate. i've been a bluelight senior staffer for many years and i've seen plenty of warnings and infractions overturned not to mention people removed from staff for their consistent inability to interact civilly with members.

again, you've had three infractions reversed on review - if we were the evil, deliberately unheeding monsters you imply we are, that would simply never happen, let alone happen three times.

...whereas in the Lounge - there is abuse, homophobia, racism, bigotry of all kinds and most of the BLUA being breached on a daily basis and this is fine.
that's not the case. if you see posts in the lounge you feel are a problem, please report them. you've never reported a post in the lounge so, frankly, it's hard to take this after-the-fact complaining seriously.

alasdair
 
Everyone knows that the Lounge is a cesspit of abuse, homophobia, sexism, racism, xenophobia and God knows what else. To deny this does your credibility absolutely no favours.
 
Abuse? Perhaps but the rest is a pile of tosh. There are more queers and nationalities in the lounge than here in eadd.

They just don't take kindly to whiney pussies.
 
Abuse? Perhaps but the rest is a pile of tosh. There are more queers and nationalities in the lounge than here in eadd.

They just don't take kindly to whiney pussies.

Just a quick gander in there, and I note an entire thread making fun of Muslims and their traditions... but this isn't the point. I'm not a whiney pussy, please believe me. The point is merely one of consistency; all that shite goes un-noticed while I'm infracted for this:

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What is interesting, is why the mod try to cover it up and deny all knowledge of the post being removed? What are they trying to hide??

I reckon one of the mods has it in for you, Bear, and is maliciously U/A'ing your posts. They're trying to hide this malpractice by convincing you that you're going insane and that you're imagining making these posts.

No malice, ill intent, racism, homophobia, xenophobia, drug sourcing, drug solicitation, site-spamming or owt... Unless Ali actually believes I was accusing the mods of deleting bear_loves posts as they hate him and are trying to make him think he's going insane? He surely can't be that stupid!? So I infer the infraction was given out of spite.

And that's why the system is completely flawed and abused. I could bring out many more examples, but hope the point is clearly proven now.

I won't press the issue any more, as I don't have the time for this forum due to other commitments. I've been appointed as admin of another site which focusses on forums dealing with issues of online abuse, poetry and the healing power of crystals so don't really have any business here any more. If anyone wants to stay in touch, please click below for a link to my new site:

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So long, suckas ;)
 
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looks great raasy - keep up the good work :)

if you want help with vbulletin, you know where i am...

alasdair
 
Can you two keep the humour down, I'm trying to sleep ;-)
 
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