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Can You Get Over an Addiction?

poledriver

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Can You Get Over an Addiction?

I SHOT heroin and cocaine while attending Columbia in the 1980s, sometimes injecting many times a day and leaving scars that are still visible. I kept using, even after I was suspended from school, after I overdosed and even after I was arrested for dealing, despite knowing that this could reduce my chances of staying out of prison.

My parents were devastated: They couldn’t understand what had happened to their “gifted” child who had always excelled academically. They kept hoping I would just somehow stop, even though every time I tried to quit, I relapsed within months.

There are, speaking broadly, two schools of thought on addiction: The first was that my brain had been chemically “hijacked” by drugs, leaving me no control over a chronic, progressive disease. The second was simply that I was a selfish criminal, with little regard for others, as much of the public still seems to believe. (When it’s our own loved ones who become addicted, we tend to favor the first explanation; when it’s someone else’s, we favor the second.)

We are long overdue for a new perspective — both because our understanding of the neuroscience underlying addiction has changed and because so many existing treatments simply don’t work.

Addiction is indeed a brain problem, but it’s not a degenerative pathology like Alzheimer’s disease or cancer, nor is it evidence of a criminal mind. Instead, it’s a learning disorder, a difference in the wiring of the brain that affects the way we process information about motivation, reward and punishment. And, as with many learning disorders, addictive behavior is shaped by genetic and environmental influences over the course of development.

Scientists have documented the connection between learning processes and addiction for decades. Now, through both animal research and imaging studies, neuroscientists are starting to recognize which brain regions are involved in addiction and how.

The studies show that addiction alters the interactions between midbrain regions like the ventral tegmentum and the nucleus accumbens, which are involved with motivation and pleasure, and parts of the prefrontal cortex that mediate decisions and help set priorities. Acting in concert, these networks determine what we value in order to ensure that we attain critical biological goals: namely, survival and reproduction.

In essence, addiction occurs when these brain systems are focused on the wrong objects: a drug or self-destructive behavior like excessive gambling instead of a new sexual partner or a baby. Once that happens, it can cause serious trouble.

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If, like me, you grew up with a hyper-reactive nervous system that constantly made you feel overwhelmed, alienated and unlovable, finding a substance that eases social stress becomes a blessed escape. For me, heroin provided a sense of comfort, safety and love that I couldn’t get from other people (the key agent of addiction in these regions is the same for many pleasurable experiences: dopamine). Once I’d experienced the relief heroin gave me, I felt as though I couldn’t survive without it.

Understanding addiction from this neurodevelopmental perspective offers a great deal of hope. First, like other learning disorders, for example, attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder or dyslexia, addiction doesn’t affect overall intelligence. Second, this view suggests that addiction skews choice — but doesn’t completely eliminate free will: after all, no one injects drugs in front of the police. This means that addicts can learn to take actions to improve our health, like using clean syringes, as I did. Research overwhelmingly shows such programs not only reduce H.I.V., but also aid recovery.

The learning perspective also explains why the compulsion for alcohol or drugs can be so strong and why people with addiction continue even when the damage far outweighs the pleasure they receive and why they can appear to be acting irrationally: If you believe that something is essential to your survival, your priorities won’t make sense to others.

Learning that drives urges like love and reproduction is quite different from learning dry facts. Unlike memorizing your sevens and nines, deep, emotional learning completely alters the way you determine what matters most, which is why you remember your high school crush better than high school math.

Recognizing addiction as a learning disorder can also help end the argument over whether addiction should be treated as a progressive illness, as experts contend, or as a moral problem, a belief that is reflected in our continuing criminalization of certain drugs. You’ve just learned a maladaptive way of coping.

Moreover, if addiction resides in the parts of the brain involved in love, then recovery is more like getting over a breakup than it is like facing a lifelong illness. Healing a broken heart is difficult and often involves relapses into obsessive behavior, but it’s not brain damage.

The implications for treatment here are profound. If addiction is like misguided love, then compassion is a far better approach than punishment. Indeed, a 2007 meta-analysis of dozens of studies over four decades found that empowering, empathetic treatments like cognitive behavioral therapy and motivational enhancement therapy, which nurture an internal willingness to change, work far better than the more traditional rehab approach of confronting denial and telling patients that they are powerless over their addiction.

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http://www.nytimes.com/2016/06/26/opinion/sunday/can-you-get-over-an-addiction.html?_r=0
 
*sigh* addiction isn't a learning disorder...at least for me it isn't. Maybe for others it is.
 
While I mostly agree with what they're saying, using the term learning disorder is a very poor choice of words IMO.

For me heroin has always been a coping mechanism. Whenever i feel depressed, or sad, or scared, or upset, I always have the same two reactions, one is to run away, the other is to use heroin. Because both are just how I learned to cope growing up. And while I know neither solve the problem and both represent very poor coping mechanisms, for so long its been all ive known. Learning disorder may be a technically correct term but it isn't the same thing as adhd or dyslexia at all. This isn't a disorder with learning so much as it is learning a disorder, if you catch my meaning.
 
Addiction is about as much of a learning disorder as binge eating is a speech disorder. For me it's pretty much been about self medication. The article had a few points but overall was written poorly IMO.
 
Ugh, not this woman again. She believes the craziest things without actual evidence of them, despite lots of other experts, addicts, and studies that prove her wrong, and her writings are basically sensationalist clickbait.
 
Like others, I have no idea why addiction should be seen as a "learning disorder".
This term is a big FAIL, it seems.
But, trying to see addiction in a new way is worthwhile, I think, so at least it's got that going for it...
 
Addiction is pretty common if you take into account all the things humans can get hung up on. Drug addiction gets a bad rap in that it separates a certain group out for something that is universal.
 
Addiction is pretty common if you take into account all the things humans can get hung up on. Drug addiction gets a bad rap in that it separates a certain group out for something that is universal.

QFT. My stepbrother is a gambling addict and for the longest time he always talked bad about me to my friends and family. I was a worthless junkie, I didn't belong in this family etc. Now he is in massive debt and going to gamblers anonymous regularly. He finally understands that it can happen to anyone, and it does not have to be drugs.

I believe drug users get such a bad rap because of the whole war on drugs (which is actually a war on the users), the just say no campaign, and the DARE program. We are taught in school as youngsters that being a drug addict is the worst thing you can be. It is sad. It influences most people throughout their lives, and if they have never been addicted or dependent on something they will never understand...I always hated the "Why can't you just stop?" thing. Always pissed me off because I was already medicating all the depression and anxiety I had/have throughout my life. Why make an addict feel worse?
 
I always hated the "Why can't you just stop?" thing. Always pissed me off because I was already medicating all the depression and anxiety I had/have throughout my life. Why make an addict feel worse?

I think it's like mental illness. A lot of people don't understand it so they don't know how to go about helping someone. It is irritating tho, especially in this day in age where information is so easy to get.
 
A girl once got pissed off because I relasped and relapsed, and she left me because of it. "All you had to do was stop." I'm not sure why I started in the first place, all I know it's the release that no one could understand accept the guy behind the pipe. I wouldn't call it a learning disorder, I know I love it, I know it can and will be a problem, but to us addicts, that addiction is the only thing keeping us from snapping. I'm learning more about the human mind and how differently my thoughts change. I can tell myself this is stupid I'm better than that, but I argue with myself everytime, so I don't bother, who would?
 
"all you have to do is stop" or "why dont you just stop? used to drive me mad. still does....i cant stand when people over simplify the complexities of addiction. its nojt like a car, gas is go and brake is stop. its like slamming your brakes on an icy road...people that dont get it probably never will. mainly because these people will never have to deal with it themselves and feel how terrible it is. walk a a mile in someone elsese shoes
 
QFT. My stepbrother is a gambling addict and for the longest time he always talked bad about me to my friends and family. I was a worthless junkie, I didn't belong in this family etc. Now he is in massive debt and going to gamblers anonymous regularly. He finally understands that it can happen to anyone, and it does not have to be drugs.

I believe drug users get such a bad rap because of the whole war on drugs (which is actually a war on the users), the just say no campaign, and the DARE program. We are taught in school as youngsters that being a drug addict is the worst thing you can be. It is sad. It influences most people throughout their lives, and if they have never been addicted or dependent on something they will never understand...I always hated the "Why can't you just stop?" thing. Always pissed me off because I was already medicating all the depression and anxiety I had/have throughout my life. Why make an addict feel worse?

Addiction, being an addict, having an addictive personality or what some people call an 'addictive voice' that tells you that you can do whatever you're addicted to, goes way beyond drug/alcohol addiction.

I know addicts who once they got clean/sober picked up addictions to other drugs including cannabis, or whatever they could find. Or while they were clean/sober from drugs they became addicted to behaviours such as exercise, sex, gambling, eating/overeating, video games, shopping/spending money, etc.

I have had doctors and addiction specialists say that if you're an addict or become addicted to something you basically are self medicating anxiety/panic/depression which does make sense.
 
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Addiction, being an addict, having an addictive personality or what some people call an 'addictive voice' that tells you that you can do whatever you're addicted to, goes way beyond drug/alcohol addiction.

I know addicts who once they got clean/sober picked up addictions to other drugs including cannabis, or whatever they could find. Or while they were clean/sober from drugs they became addicted to behaviours such as exercise, sex, gambling, eating/overeating, video games, shopping/spending money, etc.

I have had doctors and addiction specialists say that if you're an addict or become addicted to something you basically are self medicating anxiety/panic/depression which does make sense.

All addictions are not created equal, though. If you trade your addiction of shooting heroin and drinking a fifth of hard liquor every day for a daily cannabis addiction, I'd say that's a pretty good trade. It's natural for people to look for ways to add enjoyment or "meaning" to their lives...how far they take those interests is another question entirely, but what exactly is appropriate behavior? I don't really see a problem with someone's overenthusiasm for video games or exercise, or if they spend beyond their means from time to time, as long as it doesn't effect me...that's their life to live. I'm sure that's part of the reason why "sex addiction" was removed from the DSM not long ago (overenthusiasm for something that nearly everyone enjoys)

It irritates me a little when someone can look at someone's behavior, notice a pattern in it, and then say "oh see, that person never stopped being an addict, they just do THIS now, and they do it regularly, so they're still in the throws of addiction". It's especially irritating when the person in question had a REALLY BAD former habit, like severe alcohol or heroin addiction.

The impetus for addiction consists of more than just self-medication...honestly I think a big part of it is simple boredom and curiosity. And the prevailing notion that god is dead & we're living in decline of the late western Roman empire, only set in the present day (at least in the United States). And "existential pain". Etc.
 
All addictions are not created equal, though. If you trade your addiction of shooting heroin and drinking a fifth of hard liquor every day for a daily cannabis addiction, I'd say that's a pretty good trade. It's natural for people to look for ways to add enjoyment or "meaning" to their lives...how far they take those interests is another question entirely, but what exactly is appropriate behavior? I don't really see a problem with someone's overenthusiasm for video games or exercise, or if they spend beyond their means from time to time, as long as it doesn't effect me...that's their life to live. I'm sure that's part of the reason why "sex addiction" was removed from the DSM not long ago (overenthusiasm for something that nearly everyone enjoys)

It irritates me a little when someone can look at someone's behavior, notice a pattern in it, and then say "oh see, that person never stopped being an addict, they just do THIS now, and they do it regularly, so they're still in the throws of addiction". It's especially irritating when the person in question had a REALLY BAD former habit, like severe alcohol or heroin addiction.

The impetus for addiction consists of more than just self-medication...honestly I think a big part of it is simple boredom and curiosity. And the prevailing notion that god is dead & we're living in decline of the late western Roman empire, only set in the present day (at least in the United States). And "existential pain". Etc.

I would go a step beyond and say that it is being unable to cope with the existential pain in a healthy manner.
 
Addiction usually goes hand in hand with abuse of things.I'm a person who can't b in the middle its either go to the extreme and peak or I don't give a fuck.I don't do middle ph..so when I stopped abusing I needed something else to give me that extreme feeling that to the max desire.I had a hole in my life a craving a need.I am trying to fill it.after 2years my addiction still haunts me I still crave my substances.it will forever be there.but I won't give in to it.I have too much to lose.the risk is too high.I recently made up my mind to start using again coz I couldn't cope anymore,but I decided against it.Got vitamins today and practise yoga.I miss myself the person I was when I used.it gave me what I needed to survive in this cruel worLd,but I'll keep on fighting to get to the point where I accept myself and just have a feeling of self acceptance,yes I'm different,I'm quiet,awkward and am amused by things that ppl find boring..I'll never get over my addiction,but I will try my best to avoid becoming an addict again.no bargaining with myself,no just once moments,coz I know one time is a gateway to a maze that I'll get lost in
 
*sigh* addiction isn't a learning disorder...at least for me it isn't. Maybe for others it is.

Exactly what addiction is has left me terribly vexed. It's a question which I simply answer with: "the lord works in mysterious ways." Just kidding, I don't have an answer for it. I'm tremendously discombobulated regarding what to classify it as.
 
Addiction usually goes hand in hand with abuse of things.I'm a person who can't b in the middle its either go to the extreme and peak or I don't give a fuck.I don't do middle ph..so when I stopped abusing I needed something else to give me that extreme feeling that to the max desire.I had a hole in my life a craving a need.I am trying to fill it.after 2years my addiction still haunts me I still crave my substances.it will forever be there.but I won't give in to it.I have too much to lose.the risk is too high.I recently made up my mind to start using again coz I couldn't cope anymore,but I decided against it.Got vitamins today and practise yoga.I miss myself the person I was when I used.it gave me what I needed to survive in this cruel worLd,but I'll keep on fighting to get to the point where I accept myself and just have a feeling of self acceptance,yes I'm different,I'm quiet,awkward and am amused by things that ppl find boring..I'll never get over my addiction,but I will try my best to avoid becoming an addict again.no bargaining with myself,no just once moments,coz I know one time is a gateway to a maze that I'll get lost in

I too am an all or nothing addict. I choose not to use because if I do, I know I will end up at bottom so fast that everyone around me's head will spin.

@ro- Oversimplifying addiction is not helpful in the long run. The fact that religion is still commingled into a lot of the recovery protocols available. In the 21st century people still believe an imaginary mythical deity is going to stop them from using. Also, when it is oversimplified great thinkers feel stuck on a single path instead of thinking about addiction in many different ways.
 
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