Hi, I am hoping I can get a bit of insight here. Bit of background: I have been with my partner almost 12 years. He was a heroin addict when we met, I didn't know because while he would use every day, he never looked high, not in front of me anyway. After a couple of years we got serious and he decided (with help from me obviously) to kick the habit. After numerous programs (naltrexone being the winner) and several years he was able to do this. But in recent years has dabbled from time to time. He has almost always been prescribed valium (10mg) and continues to take them daily and he also takes other pills occasionally from mates etc. This is a problem because he can't sleep without them, but he can't drink with them because he just looks ridiculously high and I can't stand to look at him. We now have a 12 month old and I don't want any of that shit in the house.
I am not comfortable with his 'occasional' use of heroin and I am just sick of the pills too. It has been 12 years for crying out loud. I am fairly certain he can quit the pills and the heroin altogether. But to me it just looks like he just wants to get high because he can. I have threatened to leave and take our daughter if he doesn't clean up.
So my questions are: Am I deluded in thinking he can do this? Is this unreasonable? Should I just be happy he isn't a full blown H addict any more and just put up?
Any opinions would be great
I am not comfortable with his 'occasional' use of heroin and I am just sick of the pills too. It has been 12 years for crying out loud. I am fairly certain he can quit the pills and the heroin altogether. But to me it just looks like he just wants to get high because he can. I have threatened to leave and take our daughter if he doesn't clean up.
So my questions are: Am I deluded in thinking he can do this? Is this unreasonable? Should I just be happy he isn't a full blown H addict any more and just put up?
Any opinions would be great