Amphetafiendd
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Thought I would put a thread to see if any other people out there have difficulties making new friends? I recently moved back to Far North Queensland from Brisbane where I stayed for a year to distance myself from some of the stuff that was happening up here (people going to jail, friends stealing from friends, drugs turning people bad). I have since returned and decided that a lot of the people I use to spend time with simply aren't worth it in regards to hanging around. These people I use to hang out with provide zero substance when trying to initiate a reasonable intelligent conversation. Sure we use to sit around and get high for days on end but there was never anything they would want to talk about other then "other times they got high". NOTE: I still do see my old friends but only if I go well out of my way to visit them.
I'm a 24 year old male, educated, popular in high school and have no real problems with having people around me for company but since of late I have realised I have no friends. Everybody who I spent years and years with are merely just acquaintances now and don't offer me the kind of friendship I feel I require and deserve. I am still a frequent drug user but I have found myself getting high and spending all my time indoors on my own just surfing the web, doing housework, playing computer games. Has anyone out there ever encounter a hurdle like this?
Any recommendations to making friends and meeting new people at this stage in life? Social sports and what not are a starting point but I'm not really sure what else. Where I am located there isn't really places like gaming internet cafes where I could meet other people who share the same interests as me. Organised social groups revolve largely around churches and religion which isn't for me. I have thought about perhaps volunteering somewhere as a means to forge some new friendships.
I'm having a bit of difficulty wording this thread in a way that doesn't make me come across as if I think I am better then my old friends. These people wouldn't go out of their way for me and just constantly have a hand out or blame the world for their problems. Put it this way, When I left NQ for Brisbane nobody even noticed I was gone for 3 months besides the drop kicks who would only contact me for a "favour".
Just sitting a standstill in life. I am curious if anyone else has had similar experiences with their social standing.
EDIT: Please move this post if it isn't in the correct forum. Thanks!
I'm a 24 year old male, educated, popular in high school and have no real problems with having people around me for company but since of late I have realised I have no friends. Everybody who I spent years and years with are merely just acquaintances now and don't offer me the kind of friendship I feel I require and deserve. I am still a frequent drug user but I have found myself getting high and spending all my time indoors on my own just surfing the web, doing housework, playing computer games. Has anyone out there ever encounter a hurdle like this?
Any recommendations to making friends and meeting new people at this stage in life? Social sports and what not are a starting point but I'm not really sure what else. Where I am located there isn't really places like gaming internet cafes where I could meet other people who share the same interests as me. Organised social groups revolve largely around churches and religion which isn't for me. I have thought about perhaps volunteering somewhere as a means to forge some new friendships.
I'm having a bit of difficulty wording this thread in a way that doesn't make me come across as if I think I am better then my old friends. These people wouldn't go out of their way for me and just constantly have a hand out or blame the world for their problems. Put it this way, When I left NQ for Brisbane nobody even noticed I was gone for 3 months besides the drop kicks who would only contact me for a "favour".
Just sitting a standstill in life. I am curious if anyone else has had similar experiences with their social standing.
EDIT: Please move this post if it isn't in the correct forum. Thanks!
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