A person can drink a can beer or a glass of wine or even a shot of some of those stronger drinks (such as vodka), without becoming intoxicated.
Heroin is much more dangerous than alcohol, because while both drugs can cause some fatal overdoses (unlike pot), the risk of a heroin overdose is far more higher and likely than the risk of an alcohol overdose.
Almost nobody can use harder drugs without becoming an addict
Lets say for the sake of this argument, you get drunk on 50ml of pure ethanol. 1 shot vodka @ 40% is 10ml. You're basically saying you can take 1/5 th of the dose for this specific drug and not get intoxicated. I honestly don't feel a thing on say, 40mg of dxm, MDMA etc. but i would on 200mg of both, the DXM may be subtle a very light 2nd plateau maybe, but it's an intoxicated feeling. Alcohol's not special at all in this case, except that it is available in these small doses due to it's legality, which is entirely possible to do with a set of scales anyway.
Erowid gives Heroin a top dosage of 15mg pure, IV for a nontolerant user. Wikipedia gives 75mg as the low end of ld50
I estimate I can drink probably 140g of EtOH pure and be blackout drunk. A friend of mine, got hospitalised and technically overdosed on 300g of pure EtOh (probably more, to be fair)
Increasing Heroin's dosage by 100% probably won't kill the user, but Alcohol might. The only reason Heroin might cause proportionally more overdoses is because of the purity issues, with varying quantities no one really knows how much they're getting, again due to legality issues. Also, no one wants to reach the top end of alcohol, it's not that euphoric any higher than when you're tipsy imo.
'nobody can use harder drugs without becoming addicted' .... no. sorry, plenty of people use these 'harder drugs' without ever having to use again, they might use again but then we reach the definition of addiction. I know people that just love coke, but they never sit at home thinking 'damn I should get some coke'. A lot of people will also class alcohol as a harder drug, so we're just comparing hard vs hard.