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Silenceisgolden
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Shes been having a physical affair going on 3 years with a close friend of his since high school.
My daughter in law (33) of 8 years admitted to me that she is having sex with his younger friend. Shes been unhappy with "certain things" in their marriage for sometime and has been having a physical affair . ( yes we have conversations like this as her OWN mother is absent from her life ) and whenever she would try to talk with my son (35) about it and "improve the situation" he gets irritated and changes the subject. She says she still loves him emotionally and as a person and dosent have any emotional feelings towards his friend. I know she dosent wanna break up their family just because of sex but just isnt satisfied to him sexually because if his lack of " intimacy " .
Im a 60 year old divorced mother
I know cheating is bad
I hate her for doing this to my son ,
Its not fair to him
I love seeing my two grandkids ,
It would kill him to find this out ,
MY sons personality he'd lose confidence and go into a deep depression like stage.
He gets embarassed easily.
Can be flippant with and be a sassy at times
Hard headed sometimes and immature.
Normally I wouldn't get involved in adult kids relationships especially at THIS age but having sex with another guy ( especially a friend of his ) is still breaking the marriage vows.
What should I do or not ??
My daughter in law (33) of 8 years admitted to me that she is having sex with his younger friend. Shes been unhappy with "certain things" in their marriage for sometime and has been having a physical affair . ( yes we have conversations like this as her OWN mother is absent from her life ) and whenever she would try to talk with my son (35) about it and "improve the situation" he gets irritated and changes the subject. She says she still loves him emotionally and as a person and dosent have any emotional feelings towards his friend. I know she dosent wanna break up their family just because of sex but just isnt satisfied to him sexually because if his lack of " intimacy " .
Im a 60 year old divorced mother
I know cheating is bad
I hate her for doing this to my son ,
Its not fair to him
I love seeing my two grandkids ,
It would kill him to find this out ,
MY sons personality he'd lose confidence and go into a deep depression like stage.
He gets embarassed easily.
Can be flippant with and be a sassy at times
Hard headed sometimes and immature.
Normally I wouldn't get involved in adult kids relationships especially at THIS age but having sex with another guy ( especially a friend of his ) is still breaking the marriage vows.
What should I do or not ??