I'm glad you find my insights helpful. It wasn't long ago when I was fairly oblivious to myself and my own problems. It seems like you would benefit a lot from cognitive behavioral therapy, which is a great way of exposing cognitive distortions and correcting them. It's a fairly simple concept that has had pretty big implications on my life. I feel much more in control of my emotions rather than feeling like other people are pulling the strings.
Fear of failure is something that is commonly talked about, but I think among people of higher caliber it is common to fear success. I know I find comfort in tossing away responsibilities and pressures to become something greater. In my mind, there is relief in being a fuck up. There is also comfort in routine, even if you hate it. It is one of the reasons people stay in bad relationships- it may suck but it more comfortable than the potential unknown. I think it is for this reason that change is rarely comfortable, although it can be exhilarating with the right mind set.
And I think we all deserve another chance. I just try to help in ways that I know I needed help when I was in a similar place.
Fear of failure is something that is commonly talked about, but I think among people of higher caliber it is common to fear success. I know I find comfort in tossing away responsibilities and pressures to become something greater. In my mind, there is relief in being a fuck up. There is also comfort in routine, even if you hate it. It is one of the reasons people stay in bad relationships- it may suck but it more comfortable than the potential unknown. I think it is for this reason that change is rarely comfortable, although it can be exhilarating with the right mind set.
And I think we all deserve another chance. I just try to help in ways that I know I needed help when I was in a similar place.