I have the same experience with traz. It just stops working after taking it a number of nights in a row. If 200mg isn't knocking you out, something is wrong. Here are some other options I've had direct experience with:
- Mirtazapine (tetracyclic antidepressant) - mirtazapine helps with sleep onset and I used to take it with doxepin, which helps you stay asleep. I can't take doxepin anymore because of its interaction with Adderall
- Doxepin (tricyclic antidepressant)
- Hydroxyzine (antihistamine)
- Ambien (nonbenzodiazepine sedative hypnotic) - I recently started Ambien and it is a wonder drug. I'm out fast, and I stay out and I haven't done any weird shit like waking up behind the wheel in a fast food parking lot. It does pose dependency risks like a benzo, so I alternate it with trazodone occasionally. In the interests of full disclosure, it is a Schedule IV controlled substance.
None of the first three meds pose any dependency risks. There's also quetiapine, an antipsychotic, but it can be rather unpleasant. It is effective though. I got it once in a hospital.